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21 Schriever, LA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:16pm
Pansexual, Queer
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 9" (1.74m)
Body Type
A little extra
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
To begin with, I have a primary partner (He goes by Chris [Hydrashion here] and is an all-around loveable goof)
***I am, however, looking for partners (platonic/sexual) otherwise***
This situation is built on trust and communication, not deciet.
The relationship(s?) I'm looking to form here will be primarily of the friends-with-benefits nature.
So If you understand and feel morally ok with the above information and think (based on the rest of my profile) that we'd get on well- send me a message. We'll see what develops. :)

************Things to keep in mind************
-I'll appreciate and be able to respond better to your messages if you use proper grammar and avoid flattery- my value is not determined in how I look. To stay on my good side in early online talking, it's truly in your best interest to withhold compliments based on physical appearance (as close to entirely as possible... so seriously. Just don't).

-I may be open sexually, but that doesn't mean I will open myself to just Anyone. I still have standards and loom for a connection with the people I choose to pursue or those who aim to pursue me.

I'm pansexual- it's basically the explicitly trans*/intersex/nonbinary positive word for Bisexual (which can include those things, as these definitions are relatively subjective, but I like pansexual's basal meaning better--pan:all ; bi:two). Feel free to google the term if you would like to learn a little more.

I love art, and am quite skilled in replication at the least, if I am to say so myself. Though, like any artist, I have a long way to come, and I may never be fully satisfied with my work. I do, however, tend to reach outcomes I am comfortable with after an extended period. To see my work, visit:

I read (mostly fantasy fiction with a tendency towards totalitarian futuristic societies), write (when the inspiration strikes), act, sing (poorly, but who doesn't?), game Quite occasionally (in order of frequency: PC, 3DS, gamecube, gameboy advance, wii, xbox360), watch a myriad of English and British Drama and Thriller series, and have a plethora of anime and manga in my past.

I would like to travel to and experience as fully as I can many many places before I die. (California, New York, most of Europe, and Japan at a minimum)
I am also in the very slow process of learning both the French and Japanese languages.

I do not believe in a deity, but like to imagine that we are consciousness with bodies rather than the other way around, with that consciousness traveling to wheresoever it should desire in this expansive universe when we pass from this form.
This is not to say that I find this realistic, but I do like to imagine it.

I'm Extremely liberal and am not afraid of political activism. These things are very important to me and I will defend them to the best of my ability.
I am pro-choice; though I don't know if I personally have the capacity to undergo an abortion, I would never stop another woman from doing so.
Many closely-held friends of mine, fall into the transgender spectrum. Any disrespect shown to people who've been assigned the wrong gender at birth and I'll ask you to forget your pursuit before it's even begun.

I spend a large degree of my time with a woman who holds a vinyl collection bigger than I've come across anywhere else, and along with it, a phenomenal taste in music, movies, and tea. She has enlightened me to many things and we're very close friends, which I enjoy immensely.

In short: I have many passions and close friends and otherwise time-consuming activities, so I'm not looking for someone who will want to be With me 24/7. I am in college, I have responsibilities, and I'm an introvert who, on occasion, needs substantial time alone, but also greatly enjoys the extended company of those I hold in high esteem.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently in college, aiming for a position in psychology down the road. With art as an aside that I can do in my own time, by my own means, for myself; if other should like it and I gain popularity- wonderful, if not, I'll still enjoy my work and not be conforming to any and all requests coming my way due to a need to earn a living.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Portraits, Drawing, Painting, Empathizing, and personal anecdote-sharing
I also am in love with basically all things falling under the category of "the arts"
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I couldn't really guess. Being around people in high school, I'd have said the length of my hair, but in college it, and nothing else of my appearance receives much verbal attention, (aside from the odd comment on the size/shape of my ass) so I couldn't really know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In the ways of books I can never properly mention even the true beginnings of everything I've loved and experienced so dearly.

For movies and shows there has been more anime/manga than I can count without Significant backtracking effort, as well as Sense8 ( Which I am currently enamoured with) Steven Universe, China Illinois, Sherlock, Orphan black, In the flesh, Orange is the New Black, Dr Who, Castle, House, NCIS, Charmed, Angel, and several others I'm sure I'm forgetting.

Whereas music is concerned: Celtic music, violin, Simon and Garfunkel, Of Montreal, an amalgamation of the popular raido songs from my childhood (90s & early 2000's pop mostly... including Evanesence, don't judge me too harshly) If you were to ask me for names of songs or artists it's not often I'll know, though if you have me listen I can tell you If I've heard it before and whether or not I like it. I abide in the audio and let it flow through me, more often than not, I don't spend the time to question beyond the sound, because as the radio streams on, so does the present.. and I was always very present.

So far as food goes? .. treat me to Sushi and I'm going to be a very happy camper. It's a comfort food and a strong favorite of mine. Cajun food is also much loved. Mediterranean is great. Chinese to be sure. Mexican on occaision, and homemade fresh foods are all much loved.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My best friends
Time for relaxation (sleep, reading, tea, watching shows I like)
An internet connection
Creative time (time for art, writing, composing, freethinking, etc.)
Food/water/ a place to rest my head at night (necessities obviously. let's be real here.)
New Experiences
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The hole I'm digging myself not doing my achoolwork because in too anxious to (in an endless downard spiralling loop)
Graduation & the move to Seattle
My job/coworkers
What I Actually want to do with my life
Whether or not I'm truly a good enough person
If I could make a living off my art
The universe
random philisophical questions
And defining my own personal position on things as the moment stands
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Delivering Pizzas
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
An interest in BDSM (particularly of bondage.) is something I look for in a partner.
The only time a conversation that references to this will even receive a response however, is if/after I've made clear my interest through other topics we've held chemistry with, and will usually be in regards to communicating limits/etc.

I'm actively working past inhibitions in being more forward sexually which developed as a result of partners with little/no interest or that reacted in a very negative fashion to advances. If you can take the lead, that will make things go smoothly, but be prepared to talk often about how you and I feel in relation to everything. If something bothers me, I will vocalize it, and I hope you will do the same.
You should message me if
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you think, given the above, perhaps overtly-open information, that we'll match up well, whether as friends or something more.

A warning to hopes of romance... I'm of a very particular mindset as to the type of person I'm looking for, and it lies not in appearance, but personality, views and intellectual compatibility. I won't say looks play no part, as an artist, it would be pure fallacy, but it's no determining factor or strong deterrent in any case.