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21 Thibodaux, LA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 15
Pansexual, Demisexual
5′ 9″ (1.74m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Seeing Someone
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
To begin with, I'm not currently single, and am not looking for romantic/sexual partners otherwise. I'm just here to talk to friends.

************THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND************
-I'll appreciate and be able to respond better to your messages if you use proper grammar and avoid flattery- my value is not determined in how I look.
-I have a high list of unwritten qualifications I'm looking to have fulfilled. Be you male, female, or otherwise identifying without a substantial similarity and connection, it will be difficult.
**In other words. I'm not just looking for a quick fuck.**
I'm pansexual, google it if you're unsure what that means.

I love art, and am quite skilled in it, if I am to say so myself. Though, like any artist, I have a long way to come and I may never be fully satisfied with my work, I tend to reach outcomes I am comfortable with after an extended period. To see my work, visit:

I read (mostly fantasy fiction with a tendency towards totalitarian futuristic societies), write (when the inspiration strikes), act (up and coming- Mercy Warren in, The Crucible), sing (poorly, far out of practice), game occaisionally (in order of frequency: PC, gamecube, gameboy advance, wii, xbox360) watch a myraid of English and Brittish Drama and Thriller series, and have a plethora of anime and manga in my past.

I would like to travel to and experience as fully as I can many many places before I die.
I do not believe in a god, but like to imagine that we are consciousness with bodies rather than the other way around, with that consciousness traveling to wheresoever it should desire in this expansive universe when we pass from this life. Not that I find this realistic, but I like to imagine it.
I am in the very slow process of learning both the French and Japanese languages. I want to visit, California, New York, Europe and Japan ar a minimum before I die.
I'm a member of the libertarian party, essentially believing in personal freedoms, but I don't deny the benefits of government assistance to those in need and strongly align myself with the LGBTQA* crowd in all areas of rights and freedoms.
I am Personally pro-life, as in I do not see the potential for Myself to abort a child, though I would also rather not conceive one, and would not berate another woman for obtaining one, but would likely have a moment of silence for the child she could not, or chose not to, for whatever reason, support.
Many closely-held friends of mine, fall into the transgender spectrum. Any disrespect shown to them on this issue, or other people of the same thoughts and I'll ask you to forget your pursuit before it's even begun.
I spend a large degree of my time with a woman who holds a vinyl collection bigger than I've come across anywhere else, and along with it, a phenomenal taste in music, movies, and tea. She has enlightened me to many things and we're very close friends, which I enjoy immensely.

In short: I have many passions and close friends and otherwise time-consuming activities, so I'm not looking for someone who will want to be With me 24/7. I Am in college, I have responsibilities, and I'm an introvert who, on occasion, needs substantial time alone, but also greatly enjoys the extended company of those I hold in high esteem.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently in college, aiming for a position in psychology down the road. With art as an aside that I can do in my own time, by my own means, for myself; if other should like it and I gain popularity- wonderful, if not, I'll still enjoy my work and not be conforming to any and all requests coming my way due to a need to earn a living.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Portraits, Drawing, Painting, Empathizing, and personal anecdote-sharing
I also am in love with basically all things falling under the category of "the arts"
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I couldn't really guess. Being around people in high school, I'd have said the length of my hair, but in college it, and nothing else of my appearance receives much verbal attention, (aside from the odd comment from my grandmother at Christmas wondering how I'd managed to get a gene for this "Black Ass" when all others in the family seem rather flat in that department) so I couldn't really know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In the ways of books I can never properly mention even the true beginnings of everything I've loved and experienced so dearly. books are such wonderful friends.

For movies and shows there has been more anime/manga than I can Count without much backtracking effort really, as well as
Dr Who and Sherlock, more so Sherlock though they have fewer episodes, Orphan black, In the flesh, Castle, House, NCIS, Charmed, Angel,

Celtic music, violin, Simon and Garfunkle, of Montreal, an amalgamation of the popular songs from my childhood including Evanesence, and much more, but if you were to ask me of names it's not often I'll know. I abide in the audio and let it flow through me, more often than not i don't spend the time to question it or linger in it, because as the radio flows on, so does the present.. and I was always very present.

So far as food goes? .. treat me to Sushi and I'm going to be a very happy camper. It's a comfort food and a strong favorite of mine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My best friends
Time for relaxation (sleep, reading, tea, watching shows I like)
An internet connection
Creative time (time for art, writing, composing, freethinking, etc.)
Food/water/ a place to rest my head at night (necessities obviously. let's be real here.)
New Experiences
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My schoolwork (subsequently, my artwork- two art studios this semester)
Spending time with friends
My two jobs
What I Actually want to do with my life; whether I'm a good enough person
Philosophy, the universe and life, my own personal position on things
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing for the night before work the next morning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm kind of into the idea of BDSM.
DO NOT- take this as a conversation starter unless you are prepared to make it a very platonic discussion. The only time it may advance is if/after I've made clear my interest through other topics we've held chemistry with.

I'm 20 now and haven't had my first kiss, much less things further than that. Prepare to move slowly.
You should message me if
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you think, given the above, perhaps overtly-open information, that we'll match up well, whether as friends or something more.

A warning to hopes of romance... I'm of a very particular mindset as to the type of person I'm looking for, and it lies not in appearance, but personality, views and intellectual compatibility. I won't say looks play no part, as an artist, it would be pure fallacy, but it's no determining factor or strong deterrent in any case.