i'm mostly looking to connect with new friends, but i'm not opposed if something romantic or sexual ends up happening.
i'm in an open relationship and believe that a poly lifestyle is best for me right now. i'm not looking to engage in another serious relationship, but anything else is fair game. i'm demi-sexual and it takes a bit for me to form a strong enough emotional connection with someone to desire anything sexual.
i'm drawn to people that are genuine and themselves no matter what. in fact, this is the most important quality i look for in a person.
i don't take life too seriously and try to laugh off most of the bad and negative shit in the world. i'm also generally very positive.
i've been told i'm down to earth and easy to get along with...as long as i'm not lied to or taken advantage of. i'm goofy and friendly, awkward and clumsy. inconsistent, unorganized, generally disheveled. i used to be crazy shy, but i'm getting over it. sort of. dedicated, serious and motivated... when i need to be. gets frustrated easily, but usually pertaining to injustice, having severe a.d.h.d. or my introversion.
i'm sometimes a little stand-offish to new people i meet, and that has been off putting to some people. i believe in open communication and will be more than happy to talk about it if that happens, but it's mostly just because it takes me a little bit to warm up to new people and trust them. trust is a huge thing with me, and is a must if we're ever more than friends or close friends. i don't do well with feeling pressure to be physical or intimate, and unfortunately i'm not a cuddler until we become close. if we genuinely click and get along well, with patience and enough space to feel comfortable, things can and definitely will progress to whatever level we'd like them to :)