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24 Chicago, IL Transmasculine


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 11
Pansexual, Queer, Demisexual
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Seeing Someone
Mostly monogamous
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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luke/lux. queer.

i am transmasculine (ftm, transgender man), but i'm not super vocal about it. i only mention it in my profile because i'm not cool with transphobia. it's okay to be uneducated about trans issues, just don't be rude or judgmental about my identity. i'm also not cool with sexism, racism or any system of oppression.

i'm mostly looking to connect with new friends. i'm also hoping to branch out and make new friends outside of the queer community.

i'm drawn to people that are genuine and themselves no matter what. in fact, this is the most important quality i look for in a person.

i don't take life too seriously and try to laugh off most of the bad and negative shit in the world. i'm also generally very positive.

i've been told i'm down to earth and easy to get along long as i'm not lied to or taken advantage of. i'm goofy and friendly, awkward and clumsy. inconsistent, unorganized, generally disheveled. i used to be crazy shy, but i'm getting over it. sort of. dedicated, serious and motivated... when i need to be. gets frustrated easily, but usually pertaining to injustice, having severe a.d.h.d. or my introversion.
What I’m doing with my life
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i recently graduated from college. woohoo! that was a challenge for me. i studied social justice studies and women and gender studies. i plan to work in social work or non profit work in the future.

in the mean time, i'm an entrepreneur with a few business ideas i'm working on materializing.

i love roller blading through the forest, especially with my dog. i really just love nature in general... as long as the weather isn't stupid hot or stupid cold :P

i'm an artist, but i still feel like i'm searching for my best medium. in the recent past i tried my hand in clay work and i really enjoyed it. i'm really interested in getting into silicone work next, but in the meantime i'd be absolutely thrilled to find a relatively cheap kiln i can access so i can do clay work at home. if anyone has any leads in the chicago area, hit me up :)

my hobbies are sort of all over the place and i'm always looking to expand and try new things.

i've got a rescue dog (pit mix) named kove and he's a huge part of my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
getting distracted, cooking, training dogs, understanding/interpreting dog behavior, surprises and gift giving, being honest/straight forward, being cute, sweet, sarcastic and silly
The first things people usually notice about me
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red hair or cute dog?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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i love 30 rock, how i met your mother, dexter and supernatural and a hand full of other random shows and movies that i don't have the patience to list out. i will watch mostly anything. i really like light hearted humorous stuff because life's too short not to laugh and enjoy things as much as possible. i'm also an empath and sometimes shows with strong emotions can be overwhelming.

my taste in food is always rotating. i love cooking, and i'm really creative in the kitchen. i can make delicious food with very limited supplies. wanna hang out and cook a meal together? because that's one of my all time favorite things to do with people :) it's so much more fun and genuine than going to a restaurant, and half of the time i can make the food taste yummier than a restaurant can anyways :P but there's nothing wrong with going out to eat every now and again, especially to a unique and yummy place.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my friends, my chosen family, pets/animals, something positive to work towards (such as a project, school, something), and lots of free/down time to recharge
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why conflict exists (especially in the context of film/tv and society), c'mon can't we all just get along and be nice and friendly and peaceful and open minded...

how to maintain peace within myself and those around me

new things to do or try to keep myself busy and productive
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
i don't like going out so much. i prefer chilling at home with friends and smoking or playing with animals over most things. also anxiety makes going out not so fun most of the time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i have a hard time with words sometimes, especially when i'm nervous. first messages aren't exactly my strong point... bear with me, it gets easier as i become comfortable with new people.
You should message me if
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you're not pretentious, negative, overly proud, judgmental, angry or unnecessarily rude. i'm a really chill, sweet guy and i prefer to stay away from negativity.

you can totally be respectful of the fact that i can need a lot of physical space, and am not always into hugging/cuddling/physical affection and that sort of thing. not always the case, but just to be safe always ask first :)