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kaibeary

30 / M / Straight / Single

Lakewood, Washington

His Details

Last Online
May 19
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Military
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am a confident, slightly introverted kind of guy. I'm pretty oxymoronic sometimes. Oh, and I have a goofy sense of humor if you can't tell.

I am a professional musician with a steady job (even doing some outside work as well, I just had the opportunity to play with the Olympia Symphony Orchestra which was a lot of fun), and an amateur digital artist. Music is pretty important in my life (well, I AM a musician by trade!) and I always have a song playing on the jukebox in my head. I also love to read and to learn new things. I am currently teaching myself how to play the acoustic guitar, as well as getting better at digital art in Adobe Photoshop and Illustrator.

I do enjoy meeting and getting to know people, and am interested in making friends as well as finding that 'special someone.' I am pretty family oriented and looking to meet someone who wants to make a family together; not necessarily to settle down yet, but to create a wonderful, intimate, and fun partnership.

I am an open and honest person and really like that in my friends too. Generally when I say something, I mean it. Honor, integrity, and truthfulness are very important to me.

I am always interested in learning how to do new things, and finding new activities, foods, and cool places. I am pretty much okay with doing just about anything. To me its much more important to just be with people you care about than what you are doing with them. However, anything that will either get me out in the forests or mountains or on a beach, or end up with cuddling on the couch laughing sound great. I would love to meet someone who challenges me to try new things. On the other hand, I am also very okay with lots of quiet rest and relaxation time.

Some of these are my friends' suggestions for things to put in my profile.

Me:

Cons:
-Likes to drive a little too fast.
-Loves singing along with the radio.
-Expects others to be as honest and trustworthy.
-Sometimes too trusting.
-Tries to deal with problems alone
-Rarely asks for directions
-Eats lots of food without gaining any weight
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Pros:
-Athletic
-Trustworthy
-Smart
-Loyal
-Easy to get along with.
-Friendly
-Confident
-Great with kids and other small furry animals
-Courteous
-Good active listener
-Likes to try new things.
-Kind
-Honorable
-Puts the toilet seat down
-Cheerful
-A good driver with a nice car.
-Good with managing money
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What I’m doing with my life
-Working full time, and occasionally taking college classes online.
-Constantly striving to make myself better at everything I do.
I’m really good at
Active listening. Being comfortable in most any situation. Learning new things. Being honest. Being dedicated and loyal.

Thinking outside the box. Taking complex abstract ideas and dissecting them in my head to get a better understanding of them.
The first things people usually notice about me
Most people think I am way younger than I actually am. I get comments on my eyes quite a bit too; they range from bright blue to a steel grey.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Mainly fantasy, sci-fi, suspense, thriller...pretty much any well written fiction. Michael Crichton, Steven King, David Eddings, Tad Williams, Brandon Sanderson...

Movies: Movies that make you think. (i.e. The Matrix, Inception, Eternal Sunshine) or action, comedy. Avengers, Batman, Spider-man, Iron Man. I am a big fan of older movies, especially war movies and westerns. I think The Princess Bride is one of the best movies ever (Loved the book too).

Shows: How I Met Your Mother, Big Bang Theory, M*A*S*H*

Music: I mostly listen to country and classic rock, but I am also partial to oldies, jazz, classical, and whatever fits my mood.

Food: Yes please! I love Korean and Italian the most. (I have been to a couple of Korean restaurants around here and they aren't very good...anyone know of a good one?)
The six things I could never do without
Family
Friends
Good food
Music
My imagination
I spend a lot of time thinking about
It might be easier to list what I don't think about. But then I would probably begin thinking about it...
On a typical Friday night I am
At a friend's house having dinner, playing games, and having a few drinks. Either that or karaoke!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Nothing publicly, though if you ask I will probably be happy to talk to you about almost anything.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You think that I sound interesting and/or fun and would like to get to know more about me.