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27 M Toronto, Ontario, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–44
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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My self-summary
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Gaysian with a passport and some pocket change. I went to Seattle and discovered my love of ferries.

Currently, I work at a job that gives me the freedom to focus on my creative endeavours, and for that I am grateful. I pride myself in being a hard worker, a deep thinker, and a little bit awkward. I've got a big messy family that I love to bits and a dog-neice named Applesauce. I'm at a point in my life where things are beginning to take shape, and it's exciting and scary and boring all at the same time.

Making new friends are my top priority right now. Good people are hard to find, so I'm going to put some effort into meeting cool people. Points for a love of pop culture, on the geekier side (Legend of Korra, anyone?) and a curiosity for new music.

Life should feel like this:
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
looking for good people to be around.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
getting lost in music. music is a huge part of my life. neko case is pure poetry. i can listen to (almost) anything.
The first things people usually notice about me
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"Your perception of life's gravity."
"Your sarcasm. Your desire to discover life through fun. But you're weighted, heavy."
"I was scared of you when I first met you."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Because I have so many, I'll do a top few.

Shows: Community, The Outs, Please Like Me, Enlightened, Newsroom, Firefly, Buffy, Angel, Reboot, Happy Endings, Avatar: The Last Airbender & Legend of Korra, The Big C, Orphan Black, You're the Worst, Parks and Recreation

Books: Thomas' Snowsuit, The Giving Tree, Maniac Magee, Call Me By Your Name, Giovanni's Room, Fall On Your Knees, A visit from the goon squad, How to be

Movies: V for Vendetta, Empire Records, Frances Ha, Before Sunrise, Before Sunset, Before Midnight, Mulan, X-Men 1&2, Kill Bill 1&2, Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon, Romy and Michelle's High School Reunion, Amelie, The Hours, Dead Poets Society, Scream, The Sandlot, Serenity, Much Ado About Nothing, Mean Girls, Clueless, Micmac, Can't Hardly Wait, Hocus Pocus, Royal Tenenbaums.

Music: A lot of everything…. Empire of the Sun, Goldfrapp, New Order, Neko Case, L.P., Brandi Carlile, St. Lucia, Bahamas, Lykke Li, Solange, Passion Pit, Kylie, Britney, Arcade Fire, M83, Mumford & Sons, Patty Griffin, Beyonce.

Food: Cream cheese on toast with strawberry jam, Salmon, Nutella, Avocado, Wine Gums, Green salads with thick syrupy vinegar reductions, Tea, Vanilla ice cream.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
pizza, music, my family, fresh water, comfy shoes, empathy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be
the human body
do we have a right to anonymity?
the future of technology
where I'm going to eat next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either working, writing, or watching TV. I may or may not be out on the town.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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"Kai, like a lot of people in his generation, is at once so assertive, self-assured, while also insecure and sensitive. He is so passionate about what he does but feels easily set back. He has a frenetic energy that sometimes he harnesses to do the work he wants to do, but he’s an over thinker and often gets consternated by this. He’s a deadly hopeless romantic, but similarly he puts on a hard edge to soften the blow of life’s disappointments. He loves people, and he is upset by people.”
You should message me if
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"It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living, I want to know what you ache for. It doesn’t interest me how old you are, I want to know if you are willing to risk looking like a fool for love, for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive. I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine. It doesn’t interest me where you live or how rich you are, I want to know if you can get up after a night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and be sweet to the ones you love. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and truly like the company you keep in the empty moments of your life."