Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a tall, masculine, fit SF professional. I try to keep healthy,
working out regularly and being vegetarian. I'm intelligent
(Ivy-educated) and friends say I'm down-to-earth, good-humored, and
optimistic. I like to think of myself as a genuinely warm, kind and
considerate guy, a well-mannered, true mensch. I enjoy sports
(working out, yoga, swimming), travel, fine arts and performing
arts, cooking, catching up with close friends, national parks,
independent films and documentaries, and relaxing in the sun (I
grew up in Hawaii).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm hard-working but also sustain a balanced life, making time to
play, exercise daily, and get quality time with friends and the dog
(we volunteer on weekends at schools and hospitals; he's an animal
assistant therapist). I aim to keep it simple and recognize my
blessings as much as possible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I think I'm good at being a reliable, genuine friend, honest and
down-to-earth. Work- and task-wise, I'm analytic and a good
planner. On the personal side, I enjoy keeping a comfortable home,
relaxing in the sun, and playing board games (I'm always up for a
solid game of backgammon). Oh, and I give awesome massages. I like
the idea of spontaneously baking cookies on a Saturday night and
cuddling with someone special, with the Sunday NYT.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall, intelligent, friendly, and have a great smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Grapes of Wrath
Show: Priscilla, Tommy
Music: Blues, Pop, Motown; Ella, Aretha
Food: Ethnic vegetarian; anything from the farmer's market
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Relaxing in the sun
Living near water
Looking at the sky
Good conversations with close friends
My physical, mental and spiritual health (OK, that's three)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a better person, a better friend and true to
What is right and what is wrong.
The next meal.
The next workout.
Where to vacation next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the gym working out, stretching.
Relaxing in the evening with a good meal.
Enjoying dark chocolate.
Catching up with friends.
Getting to bed at a decent hour to rise early Saturday morning for
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love the Real Housewives and sometimes drink milk straight from
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
. . . you are a tall, attractive, masculine and fit GWM who is also
professionally stable. I tend to get along well with other
optimistic, good-humored, down-to-earth guys. I prefer exploring a
relationship with other negative guys (last tested Aug. '15). I
also connect well with other spiritual guys who can also be a
fellow kid-at-heart. Please feel free to say hello if you are
interested in getting to know each other and live in the SF bay
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