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52 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:38pm
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Not at all
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Tall, masculine, athletic, fit, healthy SF professional, high-functioning. Ivy-educated. Negative, ddf, tested April '14. Intelligent, hard-working, confident, down-to-earth, good-humored, optimistic. Genuinely warm, kind and considerate. A true mensch. Enjoy sports (working out, yoga, swimming, boogieboarding, bodysurfing, volleyball), international travel, fine arts and performing arts, cooking, catching up with close friends, national parks, independent films and documentaries, relaxing in the sun, lounging with the Sunday NYT (especially with someone special).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working hard, playing hard, keeping it simple. Recognizing my blessings.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a good friend, being genuine, being honest, being down-to-earth, keeping a comfortable home, relaxing in the sun, planning, board games (I'm always up for a solid game of backgammon). Oh, and I give awesome massages.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall, intelligent, conversant, friendly, very comfortable to be with, centered, and have a great smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Grapes of Wrath
Movies: Notorious
Show: Priscilla, Tommy
Music: Blues, Pop, Motown; Ella, Aretha
Food: Ethnic vegetarian; anything from the farmer's market
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Relaxing in the sun
Living near water
Looking at the sky
Good conversations with close friends
My physical, mental and spiritual health (OK, that's three)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a better person, a better friend and true to myself.
What is right and what is wrong.
The next meal.
The next workout.
Where to vacation next.
The bucket list.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the gym working out, stretching.
Relaxing in the evening with a good meal.
Enjoying dark chocolate.
Catching up with friends.
Getting to bed at a decent hour to rise early Saturday morning for yoga.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love the Real Housewives and sometimes drink milk straight from the carton.
You should message me if
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You are tall, attractive, white, masculine, college-educated, stable, professionally successful, confident, good-humored, down-to-earth, outgoing, healthy, athletic, negative/std-free, oral, sensual, spiritual, a SF-resident, and a fellow kid-at-heart. And if you like the idea of baking cookies Saturday night and cuddling together with the NYT Sunday afternoon.