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31 San Diego, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:21pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm married. It's an open marriage. That's really my only hurdle. I'm a dude with some free time, looking for a chick with some free time, who wants to spend that free time with me. Maybe over coffee. Maybe over dinner. Maybe over your place. Who knows?
I'm super chill and extremely non-judgemental. I joke around a lot and am a huge nerd. If these qualities sound good to you, hit me up.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being head of production at work. We sell epoxies, urethanes, silicones and latex. (No, not that kind.) I'm pretty happy at my job as I'm around friends all day. It feels more like hanging out than work most days. Play in a small band with some friends. I really enjoy the creative outlet.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Scrabble. Puzzles. Being funny. Playing guitar. Singing. Puns. Being chill.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair. Apparently long hair on a dude is an odd thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Just about anything from Christopher Moore, J.R.R. Tolkien, James Clemens,China Mieville, Piers Anthony, Isaac Asimov or Chuck Palahniuk. Just caught up with the latest Game of Thrones book. Obviously, lots of sci-fi/fantasy. Also enjoy a good humor book like Patton Oswalt's Spaceship Zombie Wasteland or John Hodgeman's The Areas of My Expertise.

Movies: I'm a huge movie fan and will sit through almost anything and enjoy it. That being said some of my favorites off the top of my head include; Batman: The Dark Knight, Lucky Number Slevin, Fight Club, Pulp Fiction, Star Wars, Serenity, Snatch, Pitch Black, Aliens, Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog, The Hangover, Desperado and anything by Kevin Smith.

Television: Dr. Who. Breaking Bad, Firefly, Adventure Time, The Venture Brothers, X-Files, Star Trek: TNG, Invader Zim, Castle, House, Futurama, Evangelion, FLCL, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia. I'm a big fan of stand up and could do a whole other list just on comedian's I enjoy.

Music: Again, huge music fan, but here's the first that come to mind, in no particular order; Queens of the Stoneage, Nine Inch Nails, Say Anything, Jonathan Coulton, The Dresden Dolls, Coheed and Cambria, Silversun Pickups, Tool, Arctic Monkeys, The Beatles, Weezer, Slipknot, MC Chris, Eminem, Oingo Boingo, Radiohead, Black Sabbath, Nirvana, Mastodon, Alice in Chains, and Incubus.

Food: Seafood, pretty much any seafood. Sushi, which I guess is still seafood. Carne asada fries when made right. Tonkatsu ramen on a cold day. A really good sandwich. I will eat just about anything and will definitely try anything once.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Internet, music, games, friends, pen, paper
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the universe and everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with friends, catching a movie, reading a new book, or just taking it easy after a long week. Playing a video game or something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm awesome.
You should message me if
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You like what you see. We have anything in common. If the robot overlords have deemed us compatible. I try to respond to everyone. I never really lack for things to say.