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31 M Portland, OR

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Last Online
Yesterday – 12:22pm
White, Other
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I love learning new things, experiencing new sensations, and hearing new stories. The more flavors, scents, new words, vistas, tales and insights I can learn and experience, the happier I am.

Currently on a farm outside of Redding for July and August, so if you have any suggestions for things to do/see/eat around that area, I'd love to hear it.

My wife and I have a poly relationship, and I'm free to date whomever I'd like - I'm always happy to answer any questions or curiosity!
What I’m doing with my life
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Living the nomad life! Our travel journal is at
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love reading. I love science fiction most of all, but I'll read just about anything someone might recommend to me. Basically I'm usually reading a few different books at once, and I visit the library at least once a week, if not more. If you mention HP Lovecraft, Peter Watts, Frank Herbert, TKV Desikachar or Ian McDonald, you'll have my attention instantly.

Musicwise, same goes for Calexico, Kronos Quartet, Alana Sweetwater, and He's My Brother She's My Sister, to skip around genres.

I think the restaurant scene where I grew up in Tucson is pretty great, and a big part of why I want to travel is basically so I can try as many different cuisines as possible. I just want to eat all the things.

Miscellaneously, my favorite movie is The Fountain, I love playing Civilization and xbox games that have good narratives, comic books are the best, I adore burlesque, and I'm a podcast junkie.

I've been utterly fascinated with Roman history lately. If you like that sort of thing, let me know, and we can be super excited about it together (my wife is a saint for listening to me wax on about Julius Caesar, but she has a reasonable limit).
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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You're looking for good conversation and a partner for casual, friendly dating.

You'd like to talk writing, books, food, or travel.

Or if you have suggestions or advice about any of the above!