I love having crazy in depth discussions on topics big and small. A constant theme is self improvement. Be it from figuring out how to make a better OkCupid profile to learning to shoot pool left handed. A quick way to get me interested in you is if you can teach me something. We all have something to share and I love to learn.
I'm not judgmental of those I don't know well, but towards my friends can be - it's because I care about them.
The most romantic thing I've ever done is send my girlfriend away to shop while I cleaned up the house to be spotless. Then, I went out, bought roses, champagne, chocolate, candles, bubble bath and incense. I setup the bedroom very nice with the candles and incense and sprinkled rose petals all over. When she arrived, I drew her a bubble bath with rose petals covering the water and brought her in. Candlelight only, with incense burning and classical music playing. I brought up an ice bucket and champagne and served her chocolate while I bathed her. I then had her shower off, and brought her to the bed, laid her down, and proceeded to give her an hour long massage. Afterwards, I covered her up, got in bed, and fell asleep with her.