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kandyXscars

28 F Middletown, CT

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 22–35
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 13
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I don't know why I'm still wasting time searching for a soul mate who must have given up on me years ago. People are so freaking fake about their intentions.

When you don't do bars, only attract jerks at shows, and are socially awkward with internet dating sites, what the hell else is there? If you just want someone to talk to, then feel free to message me.
I am eccentric, eclectic, and sometimes irrational, but I always do everything with full heart.
I want friends, teachers, confidants.

I want someone around I can build a crazy, happy, passionate life with.

I can be seriously social or seriously reclusive, depending on situations surrounding the time frame... ex: zombie apocolypse? I am locked behind 32 inches of solid steel and I am NOT COMING OUT! whereas if there's a concert I can afford to go to, I am center stage staring up at someone I consider an Icon (usually Jimmy Urine...)

I like to cook, but am as random about the way I do that as I am with everything else... I hate organizing things, which is a huge downfall for me

I'm a really random artist, choosing usually to draw things in obnoxiously bright colours and usually there's an eye somewhere in the picture (if you'd like to see examples, feel free to ask, okc doesn't let you post art :( )

I love cuddles and watching movies and rainbows and... randomness.. I like to read, write, paint, draw, get ink, listen to music, watch horror movies, give backrubs, and just be affectionate in general... I'm one of those girls who watches scary movies just so I can snuggle up and feel safe.
I like to dream... about everything, and nothing... I even dream while I'm awake sometimes ^.^
I am artistic, inked, and a hopeless romantic (truly hopeless!!)

I am looking for more than some one night stand or easy sex. I can throw a rock and get that. I want something real... Something surreal...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
CCMT Graduate (just need to save for that licensing process)
I want to one day run a dual business (separated by.. you guessed it... a door!) tattoo shop/new age shop, and practice massage and reiki in one area or another.. So I guess I should end this part with don't date me if you're going to get paranoid about my profession. By this I mean, don't assume that just because I make my way in life by helping others to heal through touch means anything other than that. It is my most treasured ability and honor to work on my clients and see them live more comfortable, happy lives.

Currently I am a full time caretaker of the vampy princess Mysti Rayne (my daughter), and your local grocery store cashier.
I get ink.. whenever I can... whatever I can... I LOVE TATTOOS!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes... The fact that I want to make everyone happy but usually just end up screwing myself.. My tattoos.. the fact that even though I have a pretty face, I am, In fact, a plus size girl... That's right, I won't lie, I'm not thin, and though I am losing weight (slowly but surely) chances are I will never be thin, and hence, some of you will pass me up because of that, and that's cool.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Oh so random... Valis by Philip K. Dick ,1984 by George Orwell, Anything by Neil Gaiman or Poppy Z. Brite.. Emily Strange The Lost Days... I read everything from Horror, to Art studies (I have a huge book on Van Gogh for example, because he's my favourite), To "Negativities: The Limits Of Life" (It's greatly about the natures of people in the most negative aspects of life), Books about vampires (I love bloodsuckers), Books about bondage (also am very fond of), I even have Myths, Legends, and a couple of books like: Delta of Venus by Anais Nin, works of Virgil... I am pretty much just as random with books as I am with everything else.. I love poetry, either love poems or anything by Edgar Allen Poe... I also read alot of comics and graphic Novels (Gloom Cookie, Johnny the Homicidal Maniac, Chastity, Evil Ernie, Sandman: Endless Nights), just ordered the teachings of Lao Tzu (trying to expand my consciousness)

Movies: Hackers, Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels, Natural Born Killers, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Rent, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Alice in Wonderland, Zombieland, Troma films, The Boondock Saints, Horror, Subspecies, Puppetmaster, Army Of Darkness, Return Of the Living Dead, A Clockwork Orange, DeathNote (the films), Interview with the Vampire, Amelie... I also love films like Labrynth, The Dark Crystal, The Neverending Story.... I vary dramatically from cult classics to musicals to kids films, to horror...

TV Shows: Forensic Files, The Jeff Dunham Show, Official - adult swim, Daria, Beavis and Butt-head, Anime. Deathnote (the anime), Family Guy, metalocolypse, Venture Brothers, Ren And Stimpy, TruBlood, tales from the crypt, Eureka's Castle and yes I know it hasn't been on in ages... Thundercats..I love cartoons, comedies, and true crime stuff... strange combination, but it makes me smiles.

Music: Clan of Xymox, AFI, Deadsy, Zeromancer, My Chemical Romance, Emo, Punk rock, Synth, Drum and bass, Techno, Electronic body music, INDUSTRIAL, Fall Out Boy, Jack Off Jill, Assemblage 23, Deadsy, Nin, Mindless Self Indulgence, Covenant, Neuroticfish, Scarling., My Chemical Romance, Kill Hannah, Cradle of Filth, Panic! At The Disco, Tori Amos, AFI, Placebo, Janis Joplin, Beatles, Sublime, Smashing Pumpkins, Motion City Soundtrack, Lords Of Acid, PT Grimm, Poe, Bush, the Beatles, the Dirty Heads, Many many many more...
I try to listen to a lot of everything! I am always open to new music, and new art :) so teach me stuff

Foods: Anything that's not fish related or made from something creepy (No stomach lining soup for me thanks).. Except get this: I love sushi!.. Recently have a growing fondness of organic foods, though not much of an ability to buy them ^.^
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
FAMILY
Music
Art
Books
Love "All you need is Love"
sex but I have to actually give a damn about the person... casual sex is boring to me
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
romance, cuddling, Mysti, the future... I try to be one of those super hopeful people, even when hope spits in my face and trips me down the stairs...

How I just realized I'm more subliminally programmed than I thought: my daughters name and mine are two main characters in pokemon.. Ash and Mysti.. Bahaha, I'm a nerd and didn't get it!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Meditating, watching movies with friends (I kind of live in the bat cave being out and about-ness makes me anxious sometimes)

Trying to learn new things (moving energy, lucid dreaming, history, astral projection.... I am in the midst of trying to learn a million things at once...)

Occasionally video games, favorites being: Naughty Bear, Alice, Skyrim

Or I'm reading comics, surfing the web, or doing something else random.

Sometimes I even make public appearances (i.e. shows, movies, and the like)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I... I am in love with the idea of love, but have only sincerely 100% been "in" love twice... Although neither person really ever loved me back, so I guess I just "loved" them... My concepts of love both romantic and otherwise are fairly strange though, so maybe they did and I just didn't know it <3
You should message me if
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You can relate to/handle being around a free thinker

You want to ask me anything? ^.^

You like girls who love comics, horror, and music...
You don't mind the rain (I tend to dance around in it)
You think you'll like me.. or I'll like you :)
If you like anything you have read here?
If you're Loving loving life <3
If you can handle bringing a girl covered in ink home to the folks ^.^