I am random, caring, and nerdy.
My Self-Summary
I would describe myself as a fairly random person that is smart and
caring. I have recently moved to Riverside from Michigan, and am
looking for new friends and possibly something romantic. I enjoy
movies,
board games, and
video games,
among other things. My favorite movie right now is
Saved!, I feel that the
representation of absolute faith was very interesting. My favorite
board game is
RISK
and my favorite video game depends on the situation, but right now
it is
Super Smash Brothers
Brawl for the
Wii.
I enjoy crafts as well. I have been cross-stitching since I was 7
and love it. I recently learned out to
knit and quilt.
I also enjoy riding my
bicycle around. I was forced into a
bicycle-only situation for a summer and have been trying to ride as
much as I can since then. Currently, I am trying to get back in
shape... But sometimes life gets in the way and I don't do as much
as I would like with this area of my life. I like reading a large
variety of books for both professional growth and just because. I
have recently finished the
Harry Potter series and have read
almost every
John
Grisham book. Some of the more serious books that I enjoy are
mostly related to
LGBT or
social justice issues. I enjoy
theater, musicals, orchestras, museums, etc. as well. I <3 the
Panteges Theater
and typically go to 4-6 shows a year there :-).
I <3
Apple
Computer. My friend and I used to hate them, but checked out the
company one year and I have loved them ever since. I did an
internship for them in the summer of 2004 and absolutely enjoyed
it, though it also helped me decide that Computer Science is not
the field for me to work in. I follow Apple news very closely and
am a really big Apple fan-girl. I recently got an Apple
tattoo on my hip and love
it. I do enjoy tattoos and
piercings and am currently checking
into a new tattoo on the back of my neck, still not sure what to
get though.
I identify as
transgender and at this point in my
life, my identity is very important to me. I began hormones in Feb
2007 and began living full time as a woman in the summer of 2006. I
have some really great friends and coworkers that are very
supportive of me and if you aren't supportive and knowledgeable or
willing to learn, please do not bother contacting me. I am not
super uptight about it, but in exchange for my respect, I expect
yours.
I am not looking for a date or romantic connection with a man right
now. I am only interested in dating women. If you are a man and
feel like we could be friends, go ahead and message me, but please
do not have sneaky motives.
What I’m doing with my life
I currently work at the University of California, Riverside in the
field of
student affairs. This is the
area of work at the university that is not in the classroom (e.g.,
residence halls, career counseling, academic advising, etc.). I
would like to begin my PhD in the next 2-3 years and eventually
become a professor in the field of higher education. I enjoy the
areas of identity development and student support.
I have not had too much time to figure out my personal side of life
and have begun to put a larger focus on meeting new people. I am
investigating some new ways to meet people and hope to make some
good friends and possibly more.
I’m really good at
I am really good being
random. I love taking trips to LA or
wherever on a whim. I once spent an entire day looking for a
regular
Ann
Taylor store. I enjoy cooking a lot and consider myself to be
pretty good, though I am not a fan of cooking for one person. I am
really good at
Mario Kart, Super Smash Bros., and
Mario Party. I
also play the
viola
and am looking to get involved with a local quartet or orchestra. I
can give some pretty killer massages too. I have renewed my
Disney pass and
want to find a park-buddy.
I am also finding that I am good at saying inappropriate things in
awkward situations to make them either super awkward or totally
normal.
The first things people usually notice about me
People generally notice my eyes first. They are a radiant
blue/green color that will change depending on what I am wearing.
Additionally, I am a very friendly person and people generally get
along with me really well. I am also really tall.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books:
Harry
Potter series, Wicked, anything by
John Grisham, Kurt Vonnegut,
LGBT and
social justice
books.
Movies:
Saved!,
Save the
Last Dance, Harry Potter,
The Last Samurai, Shakespeare
in Love,
Imagine Me and You, Little
Miss Sunshine, Chasing Amy,
Dodgeball, High School Musical 1 &
2.
Music:
Evanescence,
Chevelle,
Thrice,
Linkin Park, Alanis Morissette,
Avril Lavigne, Fall Out Boy, 30 Seconds to Mars,
Incubus, Musicals of most types,
Sara Bareilles.,
Paramore
TV:
Glee!!!, 24,
House, So You Think You Can Dance, Greek
Food: Mexican, Thai, Japanese, Chinese, random hole-in-the-wall
places. I am starting to explore fine dining more, I just wish I
had more money for it.
The six things I could never do without
1. my parents/family
2. my education
3. my faith
(I don't want people to think I am crazy religious-right with my
faith. it is a fairly private thing for me and I am a full
supporter of all different types of belief/lack of belief, as long
as you are not a complete dick)
4. my cat
5. my technoloy... including my iMac computer, iPhone, tv, and
video games.
6. my books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Social Justice and community. I wonder how I fit in this world and
how can I make a difference. I feel that I am connected to so many
people in so many ways that it is a strong obligation to do the
little steps to further everyone.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out, watching a movie, or playing games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
Hmmm, the gender thing is kinda private, but I have already talked
about it... So... I used to have a mole on my back that changed
sizes as a kid, but it is normal now... (speaking of random)
You should message me if
You want a new friend or someone to just chat with. You need to be
open minded and ok with my transgender identity. You should be fun
and random and enjoy life. I am really looking for some new friends
and possibly more.