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33 M Helsinki, Finland

My Details

Last Online
Jul 20
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Dropped out of masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Finnish (Fluently), Swedish (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a theoritician concerned with practical matters.

Excess is the name of the game, when I descend into actually doing something.

Example 1. I'm obsessed with health and well-being, enjoying things like cold showers and cayenne tea.

Example 2. Sometimes, I stay up the whole night and go to bed the following evening. Great for numbing down the brain for chores.

The humanities are where my mental background lies. I grew up reading Plato, Nietzsche and Wittgenstein, and loads of fiction. At the same time, I enjoy your more typical nerdy fare, such as search engine algorithms, building websites, etc.

Though listed as an agnostic on the right, I'm actually an "irrelevantist". It's an anti-metaphysical meta-attitude, directed towards such questions.
What I’m doing with my life
• soaking up and purveying information
• building a business (or keeping it afloat)
• having everyday adventures with my son (well not every day: not while he's with his mother).

In the near (or not-so-near) future, I plan to

• learn to ferment
• travel to South Korea, Chile
• try this rejection therapy thing, it seems like the mental equivalent to cold showers (note to self: this site seems like a good platform; if I don't get an answer to my message, I accrue a point)
• launch some more web sites
• engage in a civic activity
• learn the handstand push-up and the head stand.
I’m really good at
♦ making plans (not executing them)

♦ looking up stuff (while waiting for the Google brain wave interface)

♦ assessing information (I'll catch any methodological problems or biases you might have)

♦ finding solutions to problems (annoying if you enjoy having the problem)

♦ saying things in the most negative or macabre way: it just livens up the conversation to add a spark of death, sadism, medical malpractice, institutional injustice... the beautiful dark possibilities

♦ intermittent fasting (DO NOT invite me to your home: I'll eat all your food in the evening)

♦ greasing the groove, i.e. exercising without exhaustion through the day, on most weekdays (one-leg squats, one-arm push-ups; I'm working towards one-arm pull-ups)

♦ spooking walkers and small animals with interval sprints ("it's the voice in my headphones that told me to")

♦ some forms of online marketing and communications (how's this dating site profile, what do you think?).
The first things people usually notice about me
• strong outward personality
• the humoristic way I interact with my son
• certain intensity
• masculine, not-trying-too-hard physique

These are just guesses, though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: giallos, exploitation, art, horror, film noir. David Cronenberg, Shion Sono, Lucio Fulci, Takashi Miike, Fritz Lang, Michael Haneke, Teuvo Tulio. I have a couple of great date movies (if you're interested), such as Tras el cristal, Men Behind the Sun, and Ebola Syndrome.

Music: most kinds of electronica, rap & instrumental hip hop, minimalism (e.g. Steve Reich), "post rock" (e.g. M83).

Food: Thai, Greek, Indian, Middle Eastern, organic & high-quality ingredients, lots of vegetables, huge bowls of salad, chocolate and strawberry smoothies, nuts.
The six things I could never do without
There are many tangible things that satisfy the same inclinations. Individual things can be replaced.

On the other hand, I really like my blenders, electric steamer and full-spectrum light bulbs.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
◊ phytonutrients
◊ exercise and nutritional strategies
◊ ideas and innovations, everything from the ideal restaurant menu to new laws, methods of choice
◊ what to write or publish (nonfiction)
On a typical Friday night I am
I have no routines based on individual weekdays. I make my own schedules.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't feel some physical pains when I'm ill (or should feel them otherwise). I've never had a headache, for instance.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you have a curious mind and feel like it... and have no fear, I have a soft spot for brave women.

Oh yeah, and you want to meet in person... I seem to have become exceedingly lazy dating site user.