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42 Santa Cruz, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 26
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly other
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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....Compassionate, sensual, playful, healthy, intelligent, sexually-empowered, adventurous woman....ready to build epic partnership!

I'm passionate about healthy, delicious food and home-cooked meals made with ingredients from local organic farms; balancing my physical and mental well-being; and conscious, compassionate communication.

Just a few of my interests and favorite forms of fun are: dancing, camping, swimming in the ocean, sunbathing at the beach, backpacking, kayaking, river rafting, hiking, biking, skiing, cooking, laughing, loving, exploring and understanding consciousness, Tantra, watching a funny or inspiring movie or tv show, going to the theater, music, concerts, hot springs, a night on the town in SF and everything from 5 star hotels to back country outings or dusty electronic music festivals. I love to travel. Maui and Mt Shasta's Castle Lake have been recent adventures...I would love to explore more exotic locations in the near future!

I'm an independent, loving mother of two amazing, sweet teenagers. We are a very close, loving, down to earth family with a rich life here in Santa Cruz. We also take plenty of time to play and adventure out of town. I have an amazing community of friends here in Santa Cruz and love the simple pleasures and natural beauty that abounds here.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently I am afforded an amazing life working part time so that I can be more available to focus on my personal pursuits and my children. I have a career that I love and in the future I will likely move into work as a relationship therapist, life coach and/or nutrition educator of some sort. I enjoy the freedom I have now to work as needed and not be tied to a 9-5 job. It also affords me the time and ability to travel and have an active social and personal life. I have been single and focused on family stability and personal growth for few years. Now, I'm making time to focus on creating long term conscious partnership as well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking amazing, delicious, healthy meals for family and friends.
Helping others
Fixing things
Having compassion for others (and myself)
Managing money
Knowing myself and communicating my needs/desires
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height. I'm 5'10 1/2" but often people think I am taller. Maybe because of my thin build and long legs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some books and authors that have changed my life: Thich Nhat Hanh, Echart Tolle, Marshall Rosenberg, Non-Violent Communication, The Enneagam, Margot Anand. I love books, movies and music that inspire me. If there are lyrics, I prefer to fill my mind with thoughts that nourish my heart and soul. I love folk music as well as classical and electronic music. I've been known to dance until dawn when inspired by the right environment.
As for food, I eat a wide variety of foods, including an occasional bit of total junk food. Every thing in moderation, including moderation. :) Passionate about health and the environment, I was vegetarian for many years. Currently I am omnivorous and try to eat as sustainably as possible.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
Friends / Community
Healthy fresh organic local food!
Dancing or just listening to music that inspires me
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
consciousness, compassion, communication, health, happiness relationship, and connection.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It may not be friday, but on a night out I'm often dancing at one of the many ecstatic dance events here in Santa Cruz. This is one of my favorite forms of exercise.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love men
You should message me if
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-I liked your profile! :)

-You'd like to know more about me.

-If you feel passionate about creating deep loving conscious relationships.

-If you are open to meeting after reading each others profiles and exchanging a few messages. I prefer meeting new people in person as opposed to a long online courtship. :) Feel free to send me long messages if you like! I'm happy to read them, But I tend to spend as little time as possible in front of a screen.