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39 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 35–99
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:50am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Danish (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm originally from Denmark (small flat country in northern europe that smells slightly like bacon), but have recently moved to Brooklyn where I live with my wife and our semi-permanent couch surfing gay. I purchased my wife through the "American Wifes" catalog and my couch surfing gay at a labour day sale event at Wallmart. I was originally planning to go for the more socially acceptable Russian or Asian mailorder brides, but with the current low value of the dollar, the American mail order bride alternative definitely seemed like the most value for my money...

(I actually met my wife right here on OkCupid... amazing, eh? It actually works!)

I am artistic, sarcastic, and fun
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
12 years ago, I had to make a choice between a career as an artist, art director/designer or software engineer. Fortunately, I had a very good friend who chose the ad agency route. The insane amount of evil competition and backstabbing he had to endure convinced me to choose art or software engineering. Between those, I ended up not choosing art and studied computer science at my favorite danish university.

Even though my heart might lie closer to my art, that choice has allowed to keep my art true to my heart. I only work on my art when I feel like it and I never have to pursue a specific style or subject because it is more sellable than what I would prefer doing.

This might sound a bit sad, but I actually love my job. When I am at work, I am enjoying myself. When I am not at work, I look forward to going to work again.

Most of my artwork in the form of paintings, drawings and photography can be seen at
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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These lists always seem to inspire people to brag about books they never read, movies they didn't get and music they listened to once at a friends house five years ago. Thats probably exactly what my list is going to sound like, but here we go anyways... a random sample of stuff I love =)

El Gran Zoo - Nicolas Guillan, The God of Small Things - Arundhati Roy, Norwegian Wood - Haruki Murakami, Quiet Days in Clichy - Henry Miller, Snakes and Earrings - Hitomi Kanehara

Amelie, Requiem For a Dream, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, A Clockwork Orange, Fargo, The big lebowski

Franz Ferdinand, LCD Soundsystem, Funkstorung, Ojos de Brujo, Depeche Mode, Tom Waits, Tori Amos, Nick Cave, Django Reinhardt, Oscar Peterson, Wes Montgomery

Osso Bucco, Coq au vin, Bistecca Fiorentina (steaks... red meat), Anything new... I am a true gastronaut
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, Art, Poetry, Books, Music that move me (both mentally and physically) and Gastronomical adventures
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Art I plan to create, stories I plan to write, food I plan to experiment with and boobs.

That last item probably wasn't the best to put on an okcupid profile, but hey... I'm trying to be honest here!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I cry every time I watch "when a man loves a woman"... there.. I said it, are you happy now? making me look like a complete sissy on my okcupid profile!
You should message me if
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If you have exciting culinary adventures to tell me about.

If you scored high in my art tests and need to tell me what a looser I am that I couldn't create more challenging tests for you.

If you want to meet up somewhere with a sketchbook to drink coffee and draw people who walk by.

If you want to go look at modern art and make fun of hipsters.

If you see the beauty in peeling paint and want to join me with your camera when I venture out to find the little places where the city is falling apart in just the right way.