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47 Brooklyn, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38-52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 27
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Christianity but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Here's what I figured out so far: I love what I do but it's not my whole life. Thoughtful but spontaneous (read: not boring).
Creative but grounded (read: not crazy).
I am very close to my family and have a wide net of close friends. There's nothing like being surrounded by folks who I count on and have a great time with.
Into: Music has always been a major force my whole life so it would be pretty cool for my mate to have the same passion. From discovering REM and the Smiths in high school to finding out about the latest music today, like Friendly Fires and Phoenix, I still crave it like candy. I also love losing myself in books (good thing, since I'm in publishing), following and discussing politics, enjoying the best that NYC has to offer (after 20 years I still can't imagine living in a better place), and traveling as much as I can. After all if you don't get out of your little bubble sometimes, you will will grow old real fast.

You: Well, who can predict who you'll fall in love with? But here it goes: I am attracted to guys who are passionate about life--job, interests, whatever, as long as he is a thinking and caring person, engaged in the world. I admire confidence, but being pompous and cocky are just not pleasant traits. Humor is key too, because laughter after all, not only makes life better, it also makes you live longer ;) Having a love for music would be icing on the proverbial cake.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working and playing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
noticing the best in others
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i dunno you tell me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Oh jeez. right now:

books: the Keith Richards bio

movies: love a mix of indies, classic b/w; foreign; documentaries

music: too much to mention, but old standbys: Bruce, Roxy Music, X, Replacements, LCD, Wilco, Ramones, New Order, etc.

food: Indian, sushi, mexican. cheese. wine to wash it down.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family and friends (please humor me and consider this as one entry)
the ocean
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Right now, politics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
enjoying Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Willing to admit not willing to admit anything here.
You should message me if
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you like what you see and read.