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kateann4u

31 / F / Straight / Single

Chicago, Illinois

Her Details

Last Online
Jul 17, 2010
Ethnicity
Black, Native American
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am a kindhearted person but please don't take my kindness for weakness.I am no one's doormat. I want a man who is romantic,open minded,intelligent,sweet,kind,brave,responsible,dependable,
financially stable,emotionally stable,independent,and caring.
I don't have time for men who play games with people's hearts and minds.I don't have time for men who abuse women/children. I don't have time for men who disappear for days/weeks at a time.I don't have time for men who don't want nothing out of life. I don't have time for men who just want to sit on their butts watching tv while I'm doing all the work.I don't have time for broke men in other words.I can be broke all by myself.I don't have time for men who think they can live off my money and lay up on me and not have no job.I don't have time for mama's boys.I understand being loyal to your mom, but to allow your mama to dictate your life and to be so dependent on her is just not manly.I don't have time for men who still live with their mama/parents.It makes no sense for men over the age of 24 to still be at home with mama/parents.Now I can see living with your mama if she's sick because trust me you don't want to send her to no nursing home.Its better if you take care of your mama.I am turned on by men who take care of their mama/parents.Thats just so sexy to me!I can see living with your mama only if she's ill.
I prefer men with college degrees.Intelligence turns me on.I like educated men.Plus in these days and times you must have a college education to make it.The days of getting a great paying job out of high school are over.
Not to sound superficial but I don't date obese men.Now I don't mind a man who is 20 pounds overweight because he can easily lose those 20 extra pounds.But I just can't date obese men.Its a turn off.I have had an obese boyfriend before and it was kind of hard.I like my men slender.And I also love athletic built men.Muscular men and slender men are just sexy to me.And I don't mind a man who is 20 lbs. overweight, but obese men is just unhealthy to me.Not to sound mean, but obesity leads to easily avoided health issues and its unhealthy so I just don't date obese men.
I enjoy [painting],[drawing],[coloring],[writing poetry,short stories,and essays],[dancing],[singing],[acting],[operas],[ballets],[concerts],[cooking],[festivals],[amusement parks],[fairs],[carnivals],[traveling],[long walks],[jogging],[running],[lacrosse],[softball],[baseball],[stickball],[kickball],[dodgeball],[catch],[raquetball],[teetherball],[tennis],[badrminton],[archery],[volleyball],[terry towel volleyball],[tag football],[flag football],[piggy],[rugby],[bowling],[soccer],[haggysack],[zorbing],[biking],[tricycle riding],[scooter riding],[skateboarding],[skating],[ice skating],[rollerblading],[snow skating],[cross country skiing],[freeze football],[trayball],[swimming],[water ballet],[hockey],[ice hockey],[roller hockey],[golfing],[miniature golfing],[gardening],[photography],[scrapbooking],[camping],[hiking],[conventions],[retreats],[giving massages],[getting massages],[outdoor chores],[bingo],[card games],[board games],[computer games],[video games],[handheld games],[the beach],[circuses],[the zoo],[interior decorating],[babysitting],[pet sitting],[listening to music],[singing],[helping people],[bazaars],[shopping],[malls],[comedy clubs],[piano bars],[jazz clubs],[the movies],[making movies],[emailing],[talking on the phone],[reading],[sledding],[farms],[boat rides],[train rides],[bus rides],[fashion shows],[auto shows],[hair shows],[pet shows],[parties],[planning parties],[water parks],[k'nex sets],[tinkertoy sets],[magnetix sets],[legos],[waffle blocks],[building blocks],[making sculptures],[watching tv],[dances],[museums].[planetariums].[sideshows],[landsailing],[fishing],[decorating bags][decorating clothing],[bird watching],and [star gazing]

I am sweet, cute, and creative
What I’m doing with my life
I am working on my Bachelors in Arts in early childhood education.I want to be a preschool teacher.I want to open my own daycare center down the line.
I also want to be a famous writer,model,a freelance artist,and a freelance photographer. I write poetry,short stories,and essays.I am currently working on a novel about 20 siblings who are sent to live with their cruel great uncle in the rural south.I paint,draw,color,decorate clothes,make trinket boxes,make jewelry,etc. I have been into photography since I was 12.I am going to try out for modeling later this year.I had a shot at being a model when I was 4 years old but my parent said I blew it.I said no.So I am going to try out for modeling again.
I want to have my own at home sweet shop and at home toiletry business.I make soap,lotions,perfumes,etc.I want to make and sell my own toiletries.I want to bake cakes,pies,cookies,candy,etc. and sell my sweet treats to everyone.
I am still debating if I want to also earn a massage therapy license and a cosmetology/braiding license.I am thinking about also being a cosmetologist and massage therapist on the side at my home too.
I know for sure that I want to be a preschool teacher,famous author,model,freelance artist,and freelance photographer.And I want to have my own sweet treat shop and at home toiletry business but I am also thinking about having my own at home beauty shop and at home spa. I'm still debating if I want to also earn a massage therapy license and cosmetology license/braiding license.
I’m really good at
[writing poetry,short stories,and essays],[acting],[singing],[painting],[making things like jewelry,trinket boxes,etc],[cooking],[dancing],and [decorating bags,tshirts,etc]
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books are [Beloved].[The Bluest Eye],[The Color Purple],[Bastard Out of Carolina],[Cavedweller],[Song of The Trees],[The Friendship],[Roll of Thunder Hear My Cry],[Let the Circle Be Broken],[Road to Memphis],[The Stand],[Pet Semetary],[The Shining],[Misery],[Storm of The Century],[The Dark Half],[The Vampire Lestat],[Interview With the Vampire],[Queen of the Damned],[Matilda],[Pride and Prejudice],[Little Women],[Mysterious Skin],[Wuthering Heights],[Foxfire:Confessions of An All Girl Gang],[We Were the Mulvanneys],[Trash],[Two of Three Things I Know for Sure],[Alice in Wonderland],[Alice Through the Looking Glass],[Harriet the Spy],[How to Eat Fried Worms],[Winnie the Pooh],[Little Bear],and [Jane Eyre]
My favorite movies are:[Underworld],[Underworld 2:Evolution],[Underworld 3:Rise of The Lycans],[Cold Comfort Farms],[Much Ado About Nothing],[Click],[The Aviator],[Van Helsing],[Interview With the Vampire],[Queen of the Damned],[Bebe's Kids],[Matilda],[Harriet the Spy],[Mean Girls],[Mean Creek],[Twelve and Holding],[Epic Movie],[Date Movie],[Lemony Snicket's A Series of Unfortunate Events],[Keeping Secrets],[Cavedweller],[Bastard Out of Carolina],[Beloved],[Besieged],[The Color Purple],[Rabbit Proof Fence],[Flirting],[Locked in Silence],[See No Evil],[Young Frankenstein],[Lord of the Rings],[Lord of the Rings 2],[Lord of the Rings 3],[Saved!],[Kate and Leopold],[X Men],[X Men 2],[X Men 3],[Clueless],[Eve's Bayou],[Boyz N the Hood],[Always Outnumbered],[Fled],[Higher Learning],[Scary Movie],Scary Movie 2],[Scary Movie 3],[Scary Movie 4],[Jimmy Neutron Boy Genius],[Rugrats the Movie],[Rugrats in Paris],[Rugrats Go Wild],[Wild Thornberrys Movie],[Snow Day],[Can't Hardly Wait],[George Washington(no its not about the president.Its about a young black boy named George Washington),[Gummo],[Kill By Inches],[Wisdom of Crocodiles],[Learning Tree],[The Godsend],[Vampyros Lesbos],[Blackula],[Dracula],[Jane Eyre],[Pride and Prejudice],[A Cinderella Story],[The Parent Trap],[Shadrack],[Sounder],[1401],[Dracula 2000],[House of Cards],[all the Children of the Corn movies],[Dracula Dead and Loving It],[Spy Hard],[Naked Gun],[Naked Gun 2],[Naked Gun 33 1/3],[Hot Shots],[Hot Shots Deux],[Airplane],[Airplane 2],[Soul Plane],[Alice in Wonderland],[Bluebird],[Wee Willie Winkie],[The Little Colonel],[Little Miss Broadway],[Curly Top],[Our Little Girl],[Poor Little Rich Girl],[The Little Princess],[The Little Rascals],[Slappy and The Stinkers],[Carrie],[Carrie 2],[Road Trip],[Chairman of the Board],[National Lampoon's Van Wilder],[Legally Blonde],[Legally Blonde 2:Red,White,and Blonde],[Kingdom Come],[Good Fences],[Girl With A Pearl Earring],[Bratz],[College Road Trip],[Matrix],[Matrix 2],[Matrix Trilogy],[Blade],[Blade 2],[Blade 3],[Perfume],[Ginger Snaps],[Ginger Snaps 2],[Mysterious Skin],[Deep in My Heart],[Fresh],[It Takes Two],[How the West Was Fun],[New York Minute],[Snow Dogs],[Wild Child],and [Jawbreaker]
I listen to all genres of music.I like [R and B],[jazz],[modern jazz],[acid jazz],[new age],[techno],[dance],[housemusic],[reggae],[reggaeton],[classical],[heavy metal rock],[soft rock],[oldies],[country],[bluegrass],[atmospheric],[pop],[hip hop],[gospel],[contemporary gospel],[easy listening],[opera],[blues],[salsa],[cumbia],[merengue],[hawaiian],[flamenco],[zydeco],[cajun],and [yodeling]
My most favorite foods are: [cheese pizza],[pineapple pizza],[spinach pizza],[baked beans],[pork n beans],pork n bean and hotdog casserole],[pork and bean and hamburger casserole],[baked bean casserole],[tuna and crackers],[perch fish],[tacos],[sopes],[nachos],[spinach omlette],[hard boiled eggs],[turkey bacon],[soy bacon],[soy burgers],[turkey burgers],[gyros],[cheese],[oranges],[cheeries],[watermelon],[cranberries],[cranberry sauce],[Ramen noodles],[Quaker raisin n spice oatmeal],[Quaker strawberries n creme oatmeal],[Cream of Wheat cereal],[all of the cold chocolate cereals],[Cap N Crunch Crunch Berries],[Peanut Butter Cap n Crunch],[Kix],[Berry Kix],[tomato soup],[spaghetti and soy meatballs],[spaghetti and meatballs],[cranberry glazed turkey],[french fries],[sweet potato fries],[sweet potatoes],[yams],[peanut butter and jelly sandwiches],[peanut butter and marshmallow fluff sandwiches],[smoked sausage],[Vienna sausage],[applesauce],and [mac and cheese]
I am a chocoholic.I love chocolate.
My most favorite junk foods are:[chocolate candy],[chocolate cake],[chocolate cupcakes],[Little Debbie strawberry cupcakes],[Little Debbie strawberry rolls],[strawberry cake],[chocolate ice cream],[cherry chocolate chip ice cream],[cherries garcia ice cream],[New York cherry ice cream],[sugar free jello],[chocolate pudding],[bbq pork cracklins],[hot pork cracklins],[Oke Doke hot cheese popcorn],[fiery habanero Doritos],[ranch sunflower seeds],[cheese rice cakes],[chocolate chip rice cakes],[chocolate chip cookies],[peanut butter cookies],[tea cakes],[tea rings],[Verona cookies],[chocolate meringues],[butter cookies],[cheesecake],[cherry heads candy],[Little Debbie nutty bars],and [pumpkin seeds]
The six things I could never do without
[My family and friends],[a computer],[art supplies],[writing utensils],[my cameras],and [technology]
I spend a lot of time thinking about
[God],[art],[fashion],[writing],and [my future]
On a typical Friday night I am
at work unfortunately
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I admit that I sometimes watch Gullah Gullah Island.I grew up watching that show and then it was removed from the air.I see that the Noggin channel brought Gullah Gullah Island and I sit up and watch it.I know its a show thats meant for little kids, but I actually like Gullah Gullah Island.
I also watch Max and Ruby.I know Max and Ruby is a kiddie show but I can't help but like that show.I like how Max always does what Ruby tells him not to do.Ruby tells Max not to do this and blah blah and then Max goes and does it anyway.LOL.I can't help but watch this show.
I miss the show Allegra's Window.I know its another kiddie show but I used to watch Allegra's Window when I was 12 and then it was removed from the air.I think I see that Noggin channel brought the show.For some reason I like Allegra's Window.I think I like it because they do a lot of fun art activities on the show and I am really into art.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 23–42
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You are kind,gentle,financially stable,mentally stable,educated,intelligent,open minded,and romantic.