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kateavalanche

22 / F / Bisexual / Single

Alexandria, Virginia

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For the shits, and also the grins.

Aug 11, 2010

There's really no appropriate place to put it on my main profile page, so I thought I'd post a journal, just for fun, with a handful of characteristics I like in a guy.

A good singing voice, while not a real consideration when I'm looking, is ohmygod such a huge plus.  Seriously.  Gives me the shivers.

Personal appearances are important.  I'm not saying you need to be gorgeous.  Not at all.  I'm saying you need to care about yourself and how you present yourself to the world.

I tend to like the lanky type, and I'm not sure if it's because I actually like that build on a guy, or because guys with that build tend to have what I call Pianist Hands.  Expressive hands with long fingers fascinate me, and more than once, I've found myself spacing out during a conversation to just watch a guy's hands move as he talks.

Also a fan of glasses.  Not much of an explanation needed there.

Most important though, is that I'm a very tactile person.  I express myself not just through speech and gestures, but also through touch, and if a guy is not ok with casual touches (hug, poke, friendly punch, etc.) then it's just not going to work out.

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There's really no appropriate place to put it on my main profilepage, so I thought I'd post a journal, just for fun, with a handfulof characteristics I like in a guy.

A good singing voice, while not a real consideration when I'mlooking, is ohmygod such a huge plus.  Seriously.  Givesme the shivers.

Personal appearances are important.  I'm not saying youneed to be gorgeous.  Not at all.  I'm saying you need tocare about yourself and how you present yourself to the world.

I tend to like the lanky type, and I'm not sure if it's becauseI actually like that build on a guy, or because guys with thatbuild tend to have what I call Pianist Hands.  Expressivehands with long fingers fascinate me, and more than once, I'vefound myself spacing out during a conversation to just watch aguy's hands move as he talks.

Also a fan of glasses.  Not much of an explanation neededthere.

Most important though, is that I'm a very tactile person. I express myself not just through speech and gestures, but alsothrough touch, and if a guy is not ok with casual touches (hug,poke, friendly punch, etc.) then it's just not going to workout.

For the shits, and also the grins.