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katuah

50 Asheville, NC Man, Androgynous, Two Spirit

Man, Androgynous, Two Spirit

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 25
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Status
Open relationship
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

My self-summary

I feel ready to explore...

I choose to be authentic, present and vulnerable.

I like to connect with nature.

Sometimes I describe myself as a blend of an artist and an engineer.

The Meyers Briggs Personality Type Indicator classified me as an ENTP.

I see touch a means to achieve transformation, ecstatic states and healing.

What I’m doing with my life

Expanding my emotional self knowledge.

Discovering my life purpose. With the help of Barbara Sher books website. Click this text to jump to Barbara's website

Applying my values freedom of thought / conscience, Ecology, Democracy, Equality, Diversity, and Play daily.

I strive to vitalize, deepen and democratize the meaning of relationship and use that expanded relationship model to foster authentic community. I intend to have my relationships operate openly and non-monogamously (aka polyamory) Operationally this means my way of being with my partners protects each partners sovereignty including the freedom to choose how they relate to others. Simply stated we all have the absolute right to love more or play more or have additional sweeties / romantic relationships / friendships. I intend use heartfelt communication and transparency to foster intimacy and communication in these relationships.

I’m really good at

Non violent communication (NVC)

Generating new / interesting ideas.

Co-creating the conditions for expanded orgasm.

Seeing situations from other peoples perspectives.

Allowing people to make their own decisions.

The first things people usually notice about me

I like to play, laugh and clown around.
My mid pitch (Countertenor) voice.
I dress to please myself (colorfully) and for comfort.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

I love homemade Chinese food.
The books below have positively transformed the way I relate with people.

Tears & Tantrums: What to do when babies and children cry. by Althea Solter.

Parent Effectiveness Training (2000 or later edition) by Thomas Gordon (also writes on Leader & Teacher Effectiveness)
Click this text to visit Gordon Training (Author's) Website

Between Parent & Child (1965), Between Teacher and child (1972) (I see these as great resources for all who wish to connect more deeply.) both by Dr. Haim G. Ginott

The six things I could never do without

My body.

People to talk with, learn from, marvel at and love.

A heart connection to a healthy, integrated ecology. Nature.

Vegetables, wild critters.

Peace, freedom of speech, rule of law.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How we as a species can reestablish a culture that nurtures freedom and expands the beauty, diversity and viability of our planet.

How to create spaces for people that entwine with nature.

My interests include: profitable energy efficiency especially in home design and construction, solar energy, intentional community, eprime, attachment parenting, non-violent communication, edible landscaping
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On a typical Friday night I am

Preparing for an outdoor adventure. At a cultural event.

Planting maintaining the edible perennials in my organic orchard and forest micro farm.

I like attending the Impromtu Improv Workshp in West Asheville (find it on meetup).

The most private thing I’m willing to admit

I intend to do something that scares me every day.

I seek friends to share the adventure of co-creating memorable experiences with.

As of this moment my preference is to live in or near Asheville NC. And the Pacific Northwest calls to me in my dreams.

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You should message me if

You desire to.

To share your intellectual (or other) passions. Tell me what you've been studying, what surprised you to learn, what you love about a subject. Tickle my mind :).

If you will tell me about a marvel of nature that makes your heart sing or a way of interacting with the physical world that makes you thrilled to have a body.

You have anything to say that you experience as interesting.

The two of us

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 25
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Status
Open relationship
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)