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katuah

49 M Asheville, NC

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:18am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I choose to follow the path of personal growth.

I feel deeply connected to nature. I like to take steps so that I share nearby outdoor space with useful perennial plants, wild plants and wild animals.

Sometimes I call myself an auto didact meaning I have interest in many subjects and I love to learn, to explore & discover in a wide range of topics.

In one of my roles I serve as a teacher and I have recently become enthralled with democratic schools and sudbury model schools and A.S. Neill's Summerhill School. Presently I think founding or working in a democratic school might be loads of fun.

I see myself as ethical, adventurous, creative, ambitious, and sensual.

I aspire to take steps daily toward the goal of leaving the parts of the Earth that I engage with better off than I found it.

Sometimes I describe myself as a blend of an artist and an engineer.

The Meyers Briggs Personality Type Indicator classified me as an ENTP.

On the big five personality inventory i scored as follows.O76-C41-E79-A38-N49 Big Five!!

On Sam Gosling's Need for Uniqueness test / instrument I obtained the following result I'm 77% freak!!
What I’m doing with my life
Learning how to experience and integrate the full range of emotions. I see that my family, school and national cultures actively suppressed the development of my emotional self knowledge as a child. I recall myself being socialized not to cry and I have a problem with that. Active listening to the emotional messages of my students has helped immensely to reconnect with and integrate my feeling states.

Identifying my life purpose. With the help of Barbara Sher's books especially Wishcraft: How to get what you really want.Click this text to jump to Amazons page for Wishcraft

Link to Barbaras website. Click this text to jump to Barbara's website

I attend a Men's support group.

Clarifying my values freedom to have and express emotion freedom of thought / conscience, Ecology, Democracy, Equality, Diversity, and Fun or Play so I may put them into action.

I strive to vitalize and broaden the meaning of community and egalitarian marriage. My partner and I have agreed that we have an open and non-monogamous (polyamorous) marriage. Operationally this means our agreements allow her to have additional sweeties and me have other romantic relationships as well.
We have committed to honest communication and transparency.

I see the idea of "mainstream American Culture" as a fabrication packaged and sold by the corporate media and other elites as a means of social control.
I’m really good at
Community Organizing: I co-founded a PIRG (Public Interest Research Group) while I was in college.

Understanding complex systems (biological, physical, technological, social). Diagnosing & repairing systems. Fixing mechanical things.

Thinking creatively. Having new / interesting ideas.

Massage: It has been said that I have a lot of energy in my hands. I think it may be because I know what I like and I pay attention to how my friends respond to my touch.

Finding Win Win solutions to conflicts / apparent conflicts.

Seeing situations from other peoples perspectives.

Allowing people to make their own decisions.

Perhaps in part as a result of my efforts to expand my knowledge of my feelings I see myself as getting better at inferring peoples emotional states from facial expressions & body language & brief vocal cues.
The first things people usually notice about me
Curly somewhat blond hair.
My mid pitch (Countertenor) voice.
Blue eyes.
I dress to please myself (colorfully) and for comfort.
I like to laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The books below have positively transformed the way I relate with my students, my friends and myself. I highly recommend them.

Tears & Tantrums: What to do when babies and children cry by Althea Solter.

Parent Effectiveness Training (2000 or later edition) by Thomas Gordon (also writes on Leader & Teacher Effectiveness)
Click this text to visit Gordon Training (Author's) Website

Between Parent & Child (1965), Teacher and child (1972) (I see these as great resources for both parents and teachers.) both by Dr. Haim G. Ginott

Raising Cain: Protecting the emotional life of Boys by Dan Kindlon, Ph.D., and Michael Thompson.

Most anything by Robert Heinlein.

Inspiring persons in my life: William A. McDonough author of Cradle to Cradle: Remaking the way we make things.
The six things I could never do without
A healthy, integrated ecology to live in. Nature. Clean air & water.

Vegetables, wild critters.

People to talk with, learn from & marvel at.

Peace, freedom of speech, rule of law.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How we as a species can establish a culture that expands the beauty, diversity and viability of our planet.

How to create a cost effective zero carbon ecologically sound school that is entwined with nature.

My interests include: energy efficiency, solar energy, molecular nanotechnology, intentional communitiy, cryonics, bioregionalism, sustainability, green living, life extension, eprime, attachment parenting, non-violent communication, history of science history of technology, permaculture, edible landscaping, Discordianism. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------
Keywords for searches: transparency, openness, eco-building, ecovillage, sustainability, tantra, sex-positive, sacred sexuality, polyamory

Affiliations: Mensa, Union of Concerned Scientists, Buncombe County Green Party, Unitarian Universalist Association
On a typical Friday night I am
Preparing for an outdoor adventure. At a cultural event.

Planting maintaining the edible perennials in my organic orchard and forest farm.

Also I like attending the Improntu Improv Workshp in West Asheville.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I seek friends to share the adventure of co-creating memorable experiences with.

Relationships usually work better for me when they begin with a meeting of minds.

As of this moment my preference is to live in or near Asheville NC. And the Pacific Northwest calls to me in my dreams.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to.

You have found something in this profile that interests you?

I would love to hear about your intellectual (or other) passions. Tell me what you've been studying, what surprised you to learn, what you love about a subject. Tickle my mind :). Tell me about a marvel of nature that makes your heart sing or a way of interacting with the physical world that makes you thrilled to have a body.

You might like to go on a walk, hike, bike ride, canoe or other nature or cultural exploration in the beautiful WNC region.

You have something to say that you think is interesting.