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My self-summary
I find myself living a life brimming with adventure.

And I feel ready to explore and expand further.

I choose to find and express my authenticity.
I choose presence, vulnerability and full engagement.

I like to connect with nature. I like to move while cultivating full awareness of my body.

Sometimes I describe myself as a blend of an artist and an engineer.

The Meyers Briggs Personality Type Indicator classified me as an ENTP.

I see touch a means to achieve transformation, ecstatic states and growth.
What I’m doing with my life
I find myself desiring to experience the ebb and flow of friendship.
Savoring juicy emotion triggering play of all types.
Seeking playful, touch rich, emotionally connected, emotionally intimate, friendships.

Facing and discharging my shame, fear and anxiety. (sessions in a float tank have really helped) http://www.vice.com/video/tanks-for-the-memories-full-length This feels 75% done.

Living my present life purpose while looking for another.

I strive to vitalize, deepen and democratize the meaning of relationship and use that expanded relationship model to foster authentic community. I intend to have my relationships operate openly and non-monogamously (aka polyamory ) Operationally this means my way of being with my partners protects each partners sovereignty including the freedom to choose how they relate to others. Simply stated we all have the absolute right to love more or play more or have additional sweeties / romantic relationships / friendships. I intend use heartfelt communication and transparency to foster intimacy and communication in these relationships.
I’m really good at
Non violent communication (NVC)

I see myself as good at being present with my emotions and the emotions of others.

Generating new / interesting ideas.

Co-creating the conditions for extended massive orgasm / expanded orgasm.

Seeing situations from other people's perspectives.

Allowing people to make their own decisions.

Recognizing that our self directed and outward directed language creates our experience and choosing to use my language to create my blissful life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I like to play, laugh and clown around.
My mid pitch (Countertenor) voice.
I dress to please myself (colorfully) and for comfort.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love homemade Chinese food.

The books below have positively transformed the way I relate with people.

Tears & Tantrums: What to do when babies and children cry. by Althea Solter.

Parent Effectiveness Training (2000 or later edition) by Thomas Gordon.

Between Parent & Child (1965), Between Teacher and child (1972) both by Dr. Haim G. Ginott

I see the books above as great resources for all who wish to connect more deeply with themselves and with people of any age.
The six things I could never do without
My body.

People to talk with, learn from, marvel at and love.

A heart connection to a healthy, integrated ecology. Nature.

Vegetables, wild critters.

Peace, freedom of speech, rule of law.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can guide my species to reestablish a culture that nurtures freedom and expands the beauty, diversity and viability of our planet.

How to create spaces for people that entwine with nature and enrich both.

My interests include: profitable energy efficiency especially in home design, solar energy, intentional community, eprime, attachment parenting, non-violent communication NVC, edible landscaping
Keywords for searches: Asheville Buncombe county north carolina.
On a typical Friday night I am
Preparing for an outdoor adventure. At a cultural event.

Planting maintaining the edible perennials in various places with the Buncombe Fruit Nuts and others.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I intend to move toward doing something that scares me every day.

I seek friends to share the adventure of co-creating memorable experiences with.

As of this moment my preference is to live in or near Asheville NC. And the Pacific Northwest calls to me in my dreams.

You should message me if
You desire to.

To share your passion(s). Tell me what you've been studying, what surprised you to learn, what motivates you. Tickle my mind. Awaken my senses. :).

If you will tell me about a marvel of nature that makes your heart sing or a way of interacting with the physical world that makes you thrilled to have a body.

You have anything to share that you experience as interesting.