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50 Asheville, NC Androgynous, Gender Nonconforming, Man

Androgynous, Gender Nonconforming, Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 26
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I find myself living a life brimming with adventure.

And I feel ready to explore and expand further.

I choose to find and express my authenticity.
I choose presence, vulnerability and full engagement.

I like to connect with nature. I like to move while being fully aware of my body.

Sometimes I describe myself as a blend of an artist and an engineer.

The Meyers Briggs Personality Type Indicator classified me as an ENTP.

I see touch a means to achieve transformation, ecstatic states and growth.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I find myself desiring to experience the emotional ebb flow of friendship.
I like juicy emotion triggering play of all types.
Seeking playful, touch rich, emotionally connected, emotionally intimate, friendships.

Facing and discharging my shame, fear and anxiety. (sessions in a float tank have really helped) This feels 65% done.

Living my present life purpose while looking for another.

I strive to vitalize, deepen and democratize the meaning of relationship and use that expanded relationship model to foster authentic community. I intend to have my relationships operate openly and non-monogamously (aka polyamory ) Operationally this means my way of being with my partners protects each partners sovereignty including the freedom to choose how they relate to others. Simply stated we all have the absolute right to love more or play more or have additional sweeties / romantic relationships / friendships. I intend use heartfelt communication and transparency to foster intimacy and communication in these relationships.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Non violent communication (NVC)

Generating new / interesting ideas.

Co-creating the conditions for extended massive orgasm / expanded orgasm.

Seeing situations from other people's perspectives.

Allowing people to make their own decisions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like to play, laugh and clown around.
My mid pitch (Countertenor) voice.
I dress to please myself (colorfully) and for comfort.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love homemade Chinese food.

The books below have positively transformed the way I relate with people.

Tears & Tantrums: What to do when babies and children cry. by Althea Solter.

Parent Effectiveness Training (2000 or later edition) by Thomas Gordon.

Between Parent & Child (1965), Between Teacher and child (1972) both by Dr. Haim G. Ginott

I see the books above as great resources for all who wish to connect more deeply with people of any age.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My body.

People to talk with, learn from, marvel at and love.

A heart connection to a healthy, integrated ecology. Nature.

Vegetables, wild critters.

Peace, freedom of speech, rule of law.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can guide my species to reestablish a culture that nurtures freedom and expands the beauty, diversity and viability of our planet.

How to create spaces for people that entwine with nature and enrich both.

My interests include: profitable energy efficiency especially in home design, solar energy, intentional community, eprime, attachment parenting, non-violent communication NVC, edible landscaping
Keywords for searches: Asheville Buncombe county north carolina polyamory.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Preparing for an outdoor adventure. At a cultural event.

Planting maintaining the edible perennials in my organic orchard and forest micro farm.

Taking tests Polyamory test
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I intend to move toward doing something that scares me every day.

I seek friends to share the adventure of co-creating memorable experiences with.

As of this moment my preference is to live in or near Asheville NC. And the Pacific Northwest calls to me in my dreams.

You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You desire to.

To share your passion(s). Tell me what you've been studying, what surprised you to learn, what motivates you. Tickle my mind. Awaken my senses. :).

If you will tell me about a marvel of nature that makes your heart sing or a way of interacting with the physical world that makes you thrilled to have a body.

You have anything to share that you experience as interesting.