Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I feel ready to explore...
I choose to be authentic, present and vulnerable.
I like to connect with nature.
Sometimes I describe myself as a blend of an artist
and an engineer
The Meyers Briggs Personality Type Indicator classified me as an
I see touch a means to achieve transformation, ecstatic states and
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Expanding my emotional self knowledge.
Discovering my life purpose. With the help of Barbara Sher books
website. Click this text to jump to Barbara's website
Applying my values freedom of thought
, and Play
I strive to vitalize, deepen and democratize the meaning of
relationship and use that expanded relationship model to foster
authentic community. I intend to have my relationships operate
openly and non-monogamously (aka polyamory) Operationally this
means my way of being with my partners protects each partners
sovereignty including the freedom to choose how they relate to
others. Simply stated we all have the absolute right to love more
or play more or have additional sweeties / romantic relationships /
friendships. I intend use heartfelt communication and transparency
intimacy and communication in these relationships.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Non violent communication (NVC)
Generating new / interesting ideas.
Co-creating the conditions for expanded orgasm.
Seeing situations from other peoples perspectives.
Allowing people to make their own decisions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like to play, laugh and clown around.
My mid pitch (Countertenor) voice.
I dress to please myself (colorfully) and for comfort.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love homemade Chinese food.
The books below have positively transformed the way I relate with
Tears & Tantrums: What to do when babies and children cry. by
(2000 or later edition) by Thomas Gordon (also writes
on Leader & Teacher Effectiveness)
text to visit Gordon Training (Author's) Website
Between Parent & Child (1965), Between Teacher and child (1972)
(I see these as great resources for all who wish to connect more
deeply.) both by Dr. Haim G. Ginott
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
People to talk with, learn from, marvel at and love.
A heart connection to a healthy, integrated ecology. Nature
Vegetables, wild critters.
Peace, freedom of speech, rule of law.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How we as a species can reestablish a culture that nurtures freedom
and expands the beauty, diversity and viability of our
How to create spaces for people that entwine with nature.
My interests include: profitable energy efficiency
in home design and construction, solar energy
, attachment parenting
, edible landscaping
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On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Preparing for an outdoor adventure. At a cultural event.
Planting maintaining the edible perennials in my organic
orchard and forest micro
I like attending the Impromtu Improv Workshp in West Asheville
(find it on meetup).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I intend to do something that scares me every day.
I seek friends to share the adventure of co-creating memorable
As of this moment my preference is to live in or near Asheville NC.
And the Pacific Northwest calls to me in my dreams.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You desire to.
To share your intellectual (or other) passions. Tell me what you've
been studying, what surprised you to learn, what you love about a
subject. Tickle my mind :).
If you will tell me about a marvel of nature that makes your heart
sing or a way of interacting with the physical world that makes you
thrilled to have a body.
You have anything to say that you experience as
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