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50 Asheville, NC Androgynous, Gender Nonconforming, Man

Androgynous, Gender Nonconforming, Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 2
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I find myself living a life brimming with adventure.

And I feel ready to explore further.

I choose to find and express my authenticity.
I choose presence, vulnerability and full engagement.

I like to connect with nature.

Sometimes I describe myself as a blend of an artist and an engineer.

The Meyers Briggs Personality Type Indicator classified me as an ENTP.

I see touch a means to achieve transformation, ecstatic states and healing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Expanding my emotional self knowledge.

Facing and discharging my shame, fear and anxiety.

Discovering my life purpose.

I strive to vitalize, deepen and democratize the meaning of relationship and use that expanded relationship model to foster authentic community. I intend to have my relationships operate openly and non-monogamously (aka polyamory) Operationally this means my way of being with my partners protects each partners sovereignty including the freedom to choose how they relate to others. Simply stated we all have the absolute right to love more or play more or have additional sweeties / romantic relationships / friendships. I intend use heartfelt communication and transparency to foster intimacy and communication in these relationships.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Non violent communication (NVC)

Generating new / interesting ideas.

Co-creating the conditions for expanded orgasm.

Seeing situations from other peoples perspectives.

Allowing people to make their own decisions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like to play, laugh and clown around.
My mid pitch (Countertenor) voice.
I dress to please myself (colorfully) and for comfort.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love homemade Chinese food.

The books below have positively transformed the way I relate with people.

Tears & Tantrums: What to do when babies and children cry. by Althea Solter.

Parent Effectiveness Training (2000 or later edition) by Thomas Gordon.

Between Parent & Child (1965), Between Teacher and child (1972) (I see these as great resources for all who wish to connect more deeply with people of any age.) both by Dr. Haim G. Ginott
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My body.

People to talk with, learn from, marvel at and love.

A heart connection to a healthy, integrated ecology. Nature.

Vegetables, wild critters.

Peace, freedom of speech, rule of law.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can guide my species toreestablish a culture that nurtures freedom and expands the beauty, diversity and viability of our planet.

How to create spaces for people that entwine with nature.

My interests include: profitable energy efficiency especially in home design, solar energy, intentional community, eprime, attachment parenting, non-violent communication NVC, edible landscaping
Keywords for searches: Asheville Buncombe county north carolina polyamory.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Preparing for an outdoor adventure. At a cultural event.

Planting maintaining the edible perennials in my organic orchard and forest micro farm.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I intend to do something that scares me every day.

I seek friends to share the adventure of co-creating memorable experiences with.

As of this moment my preference is to live in or near Asheville NC. And the Pacific Northwest calls to me in my dreams.

You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You desire to.

To share your intellectual (or other) passions. Tell me what you've been studying, what surprised you to learn, what you love about a subject. Tickle my mind. Awaken my senses. :).

If you will tell me about a marvel of nature that makes your heart sing or a way of interacting with the physical world that makes you thrilled to have a body.

You have anything to say that you experience as interesting.