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katv42

26 F San Diego, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 22
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*Please read the "Edit" section at the end of my profile before messaging me.*

Okay, lets try this again.

First off, you should know that I am polyamorous and married. My husband is aware of and consenting to all of my activities. I'm a nerdy, kinky girl and I'm looking for someone, or several someones, to explore with. I'm relatively new to San Diego and would love to learn about this city from someone who knows it. I identify as a submissive and I would like to find someone who would like to come with me on my kinky adventures.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a married woman living in San Diego. I'm trying to figure out what path to take next in my life, but for now I'm a nanny.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Doing my makeup. Snuggling babies to sleep. Editing papers. Getting lost in novels. Deep cleaning. Shining shoes. Listening. Decorating imaginary rooms and making imaginary handicrafts. Sleeping.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People usually notice either my unusual eye color or my perfectly smooth skin.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The human body and how it works. Also, how to fix it when it doesn't work properly.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at home catching up on TV shows with my husband or out at a kink social.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It's not terribly private, but you should know that I'm polyamorous and a submissive.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should message me if you're looking for a casual partner or a poly relationship. If you're dominant in the bedroom, but know how to also cultivate an equal relationship. If you're looking for a friend as well as a play partner. If you're looking for a new friend and someone to fool around with, I may be your girl!

***Edit: After a week on this site I feel that I need to add a section on who should not message me. Please do not message me if our compatibility rating is less than 70% unless you have a very good reason why you think we would make good partners. I want to hear those reasons in your first message. Do not message me if you are a virgin. I'm not a stepping stone and I do not appreciate being treated like a tool to fulfill a goal. Do not message me if you don't respect women and are not a feminist. We will not get along. Please don't message me if you're not kinky. Certainly do not message me if you are in a relationship and your partner is not aware and consenting to you having outside relationships. You need to work all that business out with your partner and I will not get caught in the crossfire. Please use proper grammar and punctuation in your messages. It's very difficult for me to see past an unintelligible message to the person behind it. Do not be disrespectful. Negging is not a valid courting strategy. Do not come on too strong as a Dominant. I do not owe you anything. We have not met yet and I am not your property.

I'm sorry if all this sounds harsh, but I've received a lot of messages from people that I'm clearly not remotely interested in and it's taking up a lot of my time. I value my time and I'm looking for something pretty specific.