I'm a very voluptuous BBW, just to get that out of the way. And a bit on the shy side, so even if I look at your profile multiple times, I probably won't message you first. If you're at all interested, send me a message :)

I'm a grad student, so pretty busy and will be for awhile. I'm not looking for anything serious; it would be nice to spend some relaxing, fun time with an easygoing guy. Quirky is good too. Everybody says sense of humor, but you need to have a similar sense of humor to mine and vice versa.

I've joined and quit this thing a few times. NOW with posted photos, per multiple requests! Didn't say they were good :P

Grad school, grad school, grad school.

song lyrics and movie quotes
baking
listening
getting caught singing in the car
dealing with kids
making friends with cats

Books: anything by Margaret Atwood or Anne Lamott, Amazing Adventures of Cavalier & Clay, The Poisonwood Bible, What is the What, White Oleander, Anna Karenina, Catcher in the Rye

Music: classical-Beethoven, Ravel, Sibelius, Dvorak, Copland; NIN, Rolling Stones, Radiohead, Sheryl Crow, Portishead, Ani Difranco, The Smiths & morrisey, jay-z, siouxsie and the banshees, tool, joni mitchell, neil young and crosby stills nash & young, tori amos, the cure, david bowie, korn, outcast, metallica, tribe called quest, queen/freddie mercury, janes addiction & porno for pyros

Movies: all about eve, 12 angry men, casablanca, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, kramer versus kramer, juno, thirteen, stranger than fiction, shawshank redemption, revolutionary road, the princess bride, the departed, goodfellas, pretty persuasion, the runaways, rosemary's baby, 3 days of the condor, butch cassidy & the sundance kid, black swan, splash, the big sleep, the big chill, the quiet, to kill a mockingbird, ordinary people, this could go on forever...

i'm not a fan of snarky answers, like "the sun, shelter, food, etc..."

music
family
rain
kitty cat
fuji apples
sex
a seventh thing

-lines from movies I haven't seen in a while
-why are we creating so much garbage?
-sex
-the galaxy-how can it keep expanding...and what's on the other side?? my brain can't handle it
UPDATE: apparently I stand corrected-the galaxy itself does not continue to expand, but the distance between galaxies does. Not sure whether this information has helped or hurt me.
-people: how we're the same, but soooo different
-how much i love shopping and how at the same time i also really hate our capitalistic-oriented society that attempts to convince you your life is inadequate or less spectacular than it could be without their particular product... and the amount of MONEY spent on advertising campaigns, plastic packaging, color-coded hangers, price tags and those damn jingles!
-why so many people take the phone cam pic in their CAR... ?
- I gotta have more cowbell!

there's no such thing as friday to me anymore

there's always work to do,
but any night can be good for a drink or whatnot

a girl has to keep some secrets
although i'm pretty much willing to tell you anything you ask, as long as you're polite :)

you:
-are at all interested; I will likely not message you first
-actually live somewhere nearby-I'm not looking for an online chat buddy from another state...or country :)
-have good music to share
-want to grab a beer, or tea, or a salad, or something unexpected!
-are interesting, or interested about the world around you
-want to know the lyrics to "Ode to Billie Joe"
- are NOT a smoker (cigarettes). Sorry to rule out half of you on here, but I quit 10+ years ago and now I can't stand the smell; it permeates everything.

You should NOT message me if we have less than a 60% match. I know these questions don't determine chemistry, but I only answered questions that were really important to me. So, if we disagree on these fundamental things-there's probably no chance of us getting along, in any capacity!