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40 M Fredericton, New Brunswick, CA

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), C++ (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a computer guy by study, a radio guy by preference, a writer (occasionally) by choice. I read science fiction and fantasy literature whenever possible, but can be satisfied with TV and movies

I love to laugh, and love comedy, especially audio comedy; I have been part of a local comedy group (writer/producer/actor).

I'm a podcaster and a huge fan/participant in podcasting, having hosted my radio programs at the local campus/community radio station for about a dozen years, where I now work. I'm also a big fan of audio drama, and hoping to produce an audio drama. I've done bits and pieces for a number of online audio drama groups.

I'm a geek, an avid gamer (tabletop gaming in particular), a fan of wierd things (like UFOs, ABCs, mysticism, ghosts, and so on). I drink far too much coffee, but that I don't regret much; I'm not positive, but I think that I would be a night owl anyway.

I love cooking, although its less fun cooking for only one person. I'm an unrepentant omnivore, and love to try new foods when I can. I tend to stick mostly to practical things that I'll make more than once, but occasionally just have to try something new.
I like to think about things, although I'm not terribly organized about it. I guess I'm sorta an accidental philosopher, a follow of the ancient Geeks.. ;)

I am wierd, playful, and clever
What I’m doing with my life
I work at a campus/community radio station, managing volunteers and producing radio shows.

I'm trying to decide if I can take the podcasting and radio thing further, make a proper living out of it somehow. I'm also considering getting into professional voiceover work.
I’m really good at
Puns! I love wordplay, and the playing around with ideas and wordforms and perspectives..

I've always had a knack for computers, since I was a kid. I just dig 'em.

I've been told that I'm a good listener -- mostly that comes from just being curious about just about everything!

I've been doing my radio show/podcast for long enough to at least believe that I'm good at it.

Some people have told me that I can sing, but I'm not very confident, and I have a terrible memory for words. I'll give it a shot, but I don't sing often any more, so my voice is weaker than it was.

I'm a decent chess player.

I like to think of myself as a very dependable person, and I will go as far as I can to help my friends. If someone once said that of me, I'd feel like I've accomplished something with my life, and I try to live up to that whenever I can.
The first things people usually notice about me
Without speaking to me, probably my beard, I guess. If I feel comfortable, I'm often cracking jokes, and I love to tease and poke fun, but it's always gentle and well meant. I really have a hard time resisting puns.

It may also be my large assortment of geek-related t-shirts that people notice.. Not all at once, of course, but one at a time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like a lot of stuff, so picking favourites is mostly a memory game and picking through my children..

I love classic science fiction and fantasy literature, and have been trying to add more books about science and philosophy to my collection. Every couple of years, I re-read Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance to reset my thinking.

For movies, I look for science fiction, sincerity and unusualness. I'm no fan of "ordinary" movies, and would prefer the most astonishingly bad low-budget scifi movie to the most lavish drama, mostly. There are no solid rules or fixed criteria, and I have surprising exceptions. I am definitely a Browncoat, so that should tell you something.

My musical tastes are wide, from the most cinematic of soundtracks and post-rock to the geekiest of chiptunes. I love a good rocking tune, but also find myself trying to understand jazz, blues and classical music.

For food, I once again have broad tastes. I'm fond of very hot food, and comfort foods are always welcome, but I also like to try new things bytimes.. :)
The six things I could never do without
- A good library of books; ok, that's really cheating, but if I had at least a dozen of the books that I haven't read yet, but want to read, I'd do well.
- Friends. Ok, maybe they aren't things, but life get's pretty dull without people to talk to.
- Music. I live in great fear that I will someday be deaf, and the wonder that is music will be lost to me.
- Radio. I'd rather be left with a radio (with a fully-functioning CBC, NPR, BBC or similar station) than with a TV.
- Blank paper and something to write with. I have ideas often, and sadly, I don't write them down or fully explore them enough.
- COFFEE. I love coffee, although it only recently occurred to me just how much. I'm not dependant on it (I don't get headaches when I don't have it, for example), but really: life wouldn't be as much fun without coffee in it. :) (Granted, it's really hard to find a good cuppa sometimes..)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. :)

I'm curious about the big "why" questions, and when I (rarely) have free time, I like to speculate on the questions of existence, intelligence, the universe. I've been musing about posthumanism and post-physical culture lately.

I also like to think about gaming scenarios (either involving my characters or future characters) and imagine what it is like to go through that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends, going out to eat or perhaps to hear some live music at a bar. Alternatively, I'm gaming, although not for a while.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am very, very ticklish. Fortunately, I like to tickle in my defense, but I really need more practice..

Oh, I suppose I should admit that I got very addicted to home improvement shows for a while. I only built a monitor stand, but I feel accomplished.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–43
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you want to go for a coffee, or hang out and watch movies, or go for a walk and talk about the weirdness of the mysteries of life..