Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Only the intelligent and witty need apply lol You must win over my
mind and sprit before you win over my body ! ( didn't think this
needed to be said but I guess it does) I have not been able to find
a match on here for a few years and that is most likely do to my
nature and the kind of match I am looking for. I am searching for a
life partner , perhaps the last great romance and partnership of my
life. Not that I think too many read my profile but it is for the
above mentioned reason that I do not date men more than 10 yrs
younger than myself. ( unless there is a very compelling match out
there in a younger package) I am a 51 yr old women in ok shape. I
have a few pounds to loose I try to work out and eat healthy but I
am not a fanatic about it. I don't tan because it is not good for
my skin. For you young men who say they just "love older" women. I
don't want to to be cared about for my age but for me and what I am
about , and I am sure you will really savor my hot flashes lol . :)
I have a great sense of humor and look for the same in a partner. I
often have to laugh at myself. Even though I have a young goofy
spirit I am still 51 and deal with all the wacky crap that aging
has to offer. I am an honest person and I value the art of good
communication. I AM SEPARATED, which yes makes me legally married.
in these difficult economic times I need to stay married on paper ,
for the health insurance. I am looking for a job that will provide
insurance or more income than I currently make, so that I can
pursue a divorce. I think we all know how difficult that can be in
Michigan. This does not mean that I am cheating on my husband or
that I am not looking for a serious relationship. If my status
offends you please don't contact me. I will answer any questions
about it that you might have. I have been living in my own home for
3 yrs, do not wish to reconcile with my son's father and no he does
not care or want to hurt anyone I date .
I will not meet anyone who won't talk with me on the phone texting
is for later in a relationship .
I find that it is best to get off this site and onto the phone and
if there is a spark there in vivo for a " meet and greet" . Not a
date just a chance to see if there is a connection. :)The activity
is not as important as the company:) I like men that are witty,
funny , a bit iconoclastic, worldly and educated. I of course will
bring nothing to the table LOL just kidding.
if I don't contact you back it means I don't think we are a match.
I used to say hi and thanks to everyone but people get upest and
start to argue with me . you can't please everyone :)
IF YOU CAN MAKE ME LAUGH , YOU ARE THAT MUCH CLOSER TO MY HEART!
I am a funny , silly , young spirited women who tries to be kind to
everyone and maintain a sense of humor about this thing called life
. I have a spiritual outlook but have many worldly interests. ( I
cannot spell well but please don't judge my intelligence by this )
. I was a psychiatric social worker for 10 yrs but stopped working
in the field 15 yrs ago. I work at a charitable resale store.
If you believe that we are all imperfect and always growing, have a
tender heart and a great sense of humor then you are the man I am
looking for .
I am a jeans kind of girl , pretty low maintenance ,and material
things are not that important to me .
I enjoy going out to eat, watching movies going to resale stores
and flea markets. I am also a part time artist. I like taking yoga
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, going to see my son's band perform, Making artwork,
plyaying guitar , writing songs and raps. Whatching junk TV .
Working out at the gym and yoga. Trying to eat right and stay
healthy without being a fanatic ! Taking care of my 16 yo son who
won't allow me to take care of him! Trying not to let my language
sink to the level of a 16 yo boy ;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being funny, listening, talking , being creative
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my hair, my eyes, that I am kind
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: the minsistry of special cases, the mystic christ, the four
agreements , the Mastery of love, what we talk about when we talk
about anne frank, for the relief of unbarable urges.
movies: psychological thrillers
Music: Eclectic, old skool r and b , anything pop rap hip hop metal
,scremo ,country, Right now I am really into Die Antwoord!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my son shredding on guitar
snuggling eating snacks and watching movies with the one I
sarcasam and laughter
I know there are more than six, does this make me a bad ass rule
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When i will meet somone who will be my best friend and understand
me and love me as much as I love them.
Why there is so much hate and drama in the world
Will my son make it through his teen years ! and how will he emerge
as an adult
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
sometimes meeting somone i have met online , or with friends or
working. working out. Hopfully laughing !!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will tell you on the phone or by text
I am a bit insecure
I am intelligent but I cannot spell well
You should message me if
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If you live close to me ( 5 to 10 min )and like to communicate. If
I don't respond to your message it means I don't think we are a
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