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51 F Berkley, MI

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 39–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:15am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly vegetarian
Other, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English, German (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hello welcome to my profile. I have not been able to find a match on here for a few years and that is most likely do to my nature and the kind of match I am looking for. I am searching for a life partner , perhaps the last great romance and partnership of my life. Not that I think too many read my profile but it is for the above mentioned reason that I do not date men more than 10 yrs younger than myself. ( unless there is a very compelling match out there in a younger package) I am a 51 yr old women in ok shape. I have a few pounds to loose I try to work out and eat healthy but I am not a fanatic about it. I don't tan because it is not good for my skin. For you young men who say they just "love older" women. I don't want to to be cared about for my age but for me and what I am about , and I am sure you will really savor my hot flashes lol . :) I have a great sense of humor and look for the same in a partner. I often have to laugh at myself. Even though I have a young goofy spirit I am still 51 and deal with all the wacky crap that aging has to offer. I am an honest person and I value the art of good communication. I AM SEPERATED, which yes makes me legally married. in these difficult economic times I need to stay married on paper , for the health insurance. I am looking for a job that will provide insurance or more income than I currently make, so that I can persue a divorce. I think we all know how difficut that can be in Michigan. This does not mean that I am cheating on my husband or that I am not looking for a serious relationship. If my status offends you please don't contact me. I will answer any questions about it that you might have. I have been living in my own home for 3 yrs, do not wish to reconcile with my son's father and no he does not care or want to hurt anyone I date .

I will not meet anyone who won't talk with me on the phone texting is for later in a realtionship .
I find that it is best to get off this site and onto the phone and if there is a spark there in vivo for a " meet and greet" . Not a date just a chance to see if there is a connection. :)The activity is not as important as the company:) I like men that are witty, funny , a bit iconoclastic, worldly and educated. I of cource will bring nothing to the table LOL just kidding.


I am a funny , silly , young spirited women who tries to be kind to everyone and maintain a sense of humor about this thing called life . I have a spiritul outlook but have many worldly interests. ( I cannot spell well but please don't judge my intelligence by this ) . I was a psychiatric social worker for 10 yrs but stopped working in the field 15 yrs ago. I work at a charitable resale store.
If you believe that we are all imperfect and always growing, have a tender heart and a great sense of humor then you are the man I am looking for .
I am a jeans kind of girl , pretty low maintanance ,and material things are not that important to me .
I enjoy going out to eat, watching movies going to resale stores and flea markets. I am also a part time artist. I like taking yoga classes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, going to see my son's band perform, Making artwork, plyaying guitar , writing songs and raps. Whatching junk TV . Working out at the gym and yoga. Trying to eat right and stay healthy without being a fanatic ! Taking care of my 16 yo son who won't allow me to take care of him! Trying not to let my language sink to the level of a 16 yo boy ;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being funny, listening, talking , being creative
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my hair, my eyes, that I am kind
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: the minsistry of special cases, the mystic christ, the four agreements , the Mastery of love, what we talk about when we talk about anne frank, for the relief of unbarable urges.
movies: psychological thrillers
healthy foods
Music: Eclectic, old skool r and b , anything pop rap hip hop metal ,scremo ,country, Right now I am really into Die Antwoord!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
hair products
make up
peanut butter
my son shredding on guitar
snuggling eating snacks and watching movies with the one I love
sarcasam and laughter
kind people
I know there are more than six, does this make me a bad ass rule breaker ??
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When i will meet somone who will be my best friend and understand me and love me as much as I love them.
Why there is so much hate and drama in the world
Will my son make it through his teen years ! and how will he emerge as an adult
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
sometimes meeting somone i have met online , or with friends or working. working out. Hopfully laughing !!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will tell you on the phone or by text
I am a bit insecure
I am intelligent but I cannot spell well
You should message me if
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I just gave up alcohol as i have an issue with binge drinking . It is ok if you drink occasionally and responsibly I just can't .If you look young and have a young spirit. if you are one who gives your girl compliments , If you work out and eat right. PLEASE NO SMOKERS . Looking for someone that lives close to me ie no more than 5 to 10 minutes form me . I am very busy and I just find that works better . PLEASE HAVE A PICTURE IF YOU CONTACT ME I WILL NOT CHAT WITH YOU WITHOUT A PICTURE , ( current picture lol) I can't guess what you look like and attraction is important.
If you like to talk. If you are kind and have a spiritual outlook, just trying to be the best you can be. If you recognize that we are all humans, flawed and works in progress, If you are interested in getting to really know me. Looking for my best friend, a young minded sexy guy with a heart and soul, who wants to grow old with me! Someone who is not afraid of my humor. LOL xoxo
Intelligence very important ! You will be sparing with me metally and physically LOL
If you are kind but a bit edgy at the same time .
Ok for the record all you men under 30 who contact me, you are very cute but I am not into this cougar/ milf phenomena or just booty calls !

Plz don't contact me if you have been using pot or other drugs and too much alcohol since high school and continue to use heavily ! thank you!!

so sorry for the amount of info and clarifiers in this profile. I have had no luck for over a year now and just trying to be as clear as I can. LOL I am a really sweet person hope this doesn't come off as snoby or too picky.