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28 White Plains, NY Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:02am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Italian (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am Brew. The word independent is hackneyed so I'll go with self-sufficient. I am currently living solo in the White Plains while starting my new career as a researcher. The best thing about me is that I care deeply about making those around me happy. Though that has come to bite me a few times, I've learned from the experiences and I know I wouldn't change that aspect of me for the world. I do not judge people for their interests and passions. However, I do judge people based on how they treat others. I devote myself to being a better person while taking time to do the things I enjoy. I've learned only I can define what a better self is. That's my ethos. It's like Perry's scheme of acquiring knowledge: It took me a long time to get to the stages of commitment, but I'm there, well beyond the idea that the world is black and white.

I'm still finding my passion in life. I've committed myself to research, even after having a rough graduate experience. I've always been about materials and chemistry. I think that's my passion and I think I'm about to be a part of something good. And if if it doesn't work out, I'll keep on looking. I remember loving being a grad TA. Maybe teaching's my passion. My personality type is ENFJ which is not typical for engineers. It would explain my preference for teaching over research.

On a less onerous note, I'm a beer geek. I just graduated from Purdue and I'm going to miss Three Floyds dearly. I am starting a post doc researcher position at IBM.

When I'm not researching, I am playing music, cooking, swing dancing, learning new languages, trying new beer, or just playing games with friends. I love learning new skills. The world is just full of new things to try. My saying is, "I'll try anything twice; my favorite Dr. Seuss book is Green Eggs and Ham. In short, I'm open minded to almost anything. I love exploring new towns even though it takes me out of my comfort zone.

My ridiculous dream is to someday play live music or do stand-up comedy on the side. My sense of humor is like a combination of Louis C.K., Doug Stanhope, and Maria Bamford.
What I’m doing with my life
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At Purdue, I was researching solution processing of photovoltaic devices and hanging out with my friends. Now I'm starting fresh with a new career, looking for friends and such.

I'm working hard on writing music - I really want to put an album out sometime in the future.

I'm also trying to lose more weight. I've come so far, and I really want to break 200 lbs. this year. It's going to happen!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Compassion and introspection. It allows me to give pretty good advice and strive to improve myself. I try to be peacemaker whenever I can.

Analyzing complex problems and breaking them down into simple solutions using rational thought.

Teaching science and engineering.

Making mixed drinks and suggesting beer pairings.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Past the physical, it's probably my sense of humor and earnest personality come through pretty quick. My roommates agree that subtlety is not my thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite movies are The Big Lebowski, Scott Pilgrim vs. The World, Fight Club, Ratatouille, A Clockwork Orange, Amelie, and Once. Quite a mix, I know . I like animated films, comedies or philosophical movies. I enjoy documentaries and stand-up specials as well. I am a sucker for romantic films too...You've Got Mail was a guilty pleasure when I was young.

I love eggs benedict. No I'm not quoting The Runaway Bride. I'm a big fan of pizza. Carrots and homemade hummus is my go-to healthy snack. I make a mean Chicken Makhani. I have a weakness for bacon and pulled pork. I make some killer baked ziti.

Video games: I'm currently spending time with Team Fortress 2, Battlefield 4, and Assassin's Creed III.

As for shows I watch mostly cartoons and comedy. My two favorite channels are Comedy Central and Cartoon network. Now that I don't have cable, I'm going through some anime I liked as a kid. My favorite shows are Bojack Horseman and Rick & Morty. I like Frisky Dingo, Archer, China IL., The Venture Brothers, Colbert, Daily Show, Workaholics, South Park, Family Guy, Futurama, Simpsons, Bob's Burgers. Adventure Time and Regular Show. I also enjoy Weeds, Breaking Bad, and Louie. I'm currently watching Trailer Park Boys with my friends. So animated and comedy.

My favorite music is mostly indie rock. My favorite artists include Smashing Pumpkins, The Mountain Goats, Radiohead, Dan Croll, Tycho, Andrew Bird, Silversun Pickups, The Whitestripes, An Horse, Jose Gonzales, MGMT, Keaton Henson, Queens of the Stone Age, etc. You'll have trouble trying to find something I don't like. Even some country like Kasey Musgraves is awesome.

My favorite authors are Kurt Vonnegut and Chuck Palahniuk. My favorite books from my teenage years are The Great Gatsby and The Perks of Being a Wallflower. I'm a romantic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Given the implicit food, water, air, shelter, and warmth:
My instruments, my laptop (and internet), my family, my friends, craft beer, and as much as I hate to admit it, someone special to confide in. I think that's the best part of a relationship - being able to tell someone your feelings and thoughts.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Am I happy?

I think about my research and all the problems in the world and hope that what I'm doing will someday make a difference.

How can I be the best version of myself?

What's the best way to live life?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm staying in which sometimes happens, I enjoy playing guitar, Redditing, listening to music, watching TV/Netflix, or playing some video games with my friends.

Most Fridays I am hanging out with my friends at a bar reviewing a beer on Beer Citizen and talking about life and the universe.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I occasionally get my eyebrows waxed.
I put Rain-X on my bathroom mirrors. It's been glorious.
I think girls who snort when laughing are adorable.
Red hair and freckles are my Kryptonite.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're a self-sufficient giver who is willing to openly communicate needs, then we'll get along famously.

You want to grab a drink and talk about life and such.
You can handle my dry humor and countless sea shanties.
If you're open to trying new things.
If you want to witness my MAD YO-YO SKILLS!
If you want to just hang out and watch TV and cook; I could totally use friends in this area.