Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A gentleman, young in mind, body and heart. I am a deep well of
inner strength who eschews rigidity.
An NYC native who has lived abroad and loves to travel, my
interests range from the cultural, creative and intellectual to the
physical and spontaneous. I prefer to participate and am drawn to
those who express themselves with talent.
Taking the positive from my experiences, finding the good in people
and humor in daily life feeds my optimism and I take the time to
smell the roses.
My family is very important to me and integrity governs my
I love spending time by any body of water but also enjoy nights in
the city, whether with friends or wandering on my own, observing
I have a worldly outlook but am happy doing simple things.
What I’m doing with my life
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After a long tenure in IT management, I'm now focusing on real
I also enjoy writing and hope to publish a novel one day. So many
experiences to draw from. Trying not to be transparently
Bicycling, distance running, skiing, tennis, working out and
dancing keep me fit.
I make the most of the time I have with my ten year old when she is
with me. Laughter, play, art and music take up our time. Watching
her learn and grow is an amazing experience from which I am
learning as much as she.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Building, re-purposing things, cooking, perhaps dancing.
Communicating, appreciating what matters, remaining calm during
troubling times, getting excited about the good that comes my
Knowing the right time to ignore my age.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My unassuming confidence, manners, sense of style and the way I put
people at ease.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Most of John Irving's work, Marquez, Rilke, Hardy, Stendhal,
Tolstoy, James Ellroy, Bukovski, Vonnegut Jr., etc.
I enjoy Mad Men, John Stewart/Colbert, Game of Thrones, Boardwalk
Empire, True Detective and even some of the shows that my daughter
watches. Phineas and Pherb cracks me up.
Most recently, I enjoyed The Drop, Calvary and A Most Violent
Depending on mood, I listen to many different genres of
Hungry one Saturday morning when I was seven, I taught myself how
to make pancakes while my folks slept. This led to a lifetime of
culinary interest and enjoyment. I will gladly try any food that is
well prepared and love Mediterranean cuisine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and friends, laughter, passion for and with the right woman,
good music, travel, the time to reflect.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
We are witnessing so many things that will reverberate in the
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either doing something that's kid friendly or out with friends,
reading, writing, learning to play the bass.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I recently chose to sport a beard.
You should message me if
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If anything I wrote strikes a chord. The age range I selected isn't
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