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57 M Tuckahoe, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 38–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs
English, French (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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A gentleman, young in mind, body and heart. I am a deep well of inner strength who eschews rigidity.
An NYC native who has lived abroad and loves to travel, my interests range from the cultural, creative and intellectual to the physical and spontaneous. I prefer to participate and am drawn to those who express themselves with talent.
Taking the positive from my experiences, finding good in people and humor in daily life feed my optimism and I take the time to smell the roses.
My family is very important to me and integrity governs my actions.
I love spending time by any body of water but also enjoy nights in the city, whether with friends or wandering on my own, observing its spectacle.
I have a worldly outlook but am happy doing simple things.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I chose to end a long tenure in management at an IT corporation and now own a consulting business.
I also enjoy writing and hope to publish a novel one day. So many experiences to draw from. Trying hard not to be transparently autobiographical.
Bicycling, distance running, skiing, tennis, working out and dancing keep me fit.
I make the most of the time I have with my nine year old when she is with me. Laughter, play, art and music take up our time. Watching her learn and grow is an amazing experience from which I am learning as much as she.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Building, re-purposing things, cooking, perhaps dancing.

Communicating, appreciating what matters, remaining calm during troubling times, getting excited about the good that comes my way.

Knowing the right time to ignore my age.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My unassuming confidence, manners, sense of style and the way I put people at ease.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Most of John Irving's work, Marquez, Rilke, Hardy, Stendhal, Tolstoy, James Ellroy, Bukovski, Vonnegut Jr., etc.
I enjoy Mad Men, John Stewart/Colbert, Game of Thrones, Boardwalk Empire, True Detective and even some of the shows that my daughter watches. Phineas and Pherb cracks me up.
Most recently, I enjoyed The Drop.
Depending on mood, I enjoy many different genres of music.

Hungry one Saturday morning when I was seven, I taught myself how to make pancakes while my folks slept. This led to a lifetime of culinary interest and enjoyment. I will gladly try any food that is well prepared and love Mediterranean cuisine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and friends, laughter, passion for and with the right woman, good music, travel, the time to reflect.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The best way for individuals to effect meaningful and enduring positive social change. I am interested in philanthropy, the hands on kind.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either doing something that's kid friendly or out with friends, reading, writing, learning to play the bass.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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With the exception of an occasional soccer game, I really don't care for televised team sports.
You should message me if
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If you are among those progressive women who understand that it is now also socially acceptable for you to make the first move. I suppose the more tradition-minded could try something more subtle. ;-)