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36 Kansas City, KS Transfeminine, Woman, Gender Nonconforming

Transfeminine, Woman, Gender Nonconforming

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–54
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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If you look at my pic and my info next to it. You shall see that I look 'male' but it says female and gay. So let me be clear on why that is. That is indeed what i look like and I am a woman attracted to only woman. I happen to be MTF (Male to female) Transgender. I still appear male as i was born. Yes, i plan on taking hormones and transitioning at some point. but that is not the only change I wish to make. When I accepted who I am and made the choice to take hormones, I stepped on the scale. I was 200 lbs overweight. So i made myself a promise. I will lose that 200 before hormones. Only makes sense to lose the weight first. Blocking testosterone and adding estrogen will only make it harder to get in shape. And I do not want to get woman's clothes until I am done getting smaller. It is great motivation. Ir has been 8 .5 months and i have lost 118 lbs. So that is me. I look male on the outside for now. I am a woman on the inside and I would call myself a lesbian . please note I have my profile set to only match me with Bi girls (there is no pan setting here). I welcome any lady if interested in me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Becoming ME! I love to live for the people that mean the most. I did that to the point that forgot about me. I have learned if you want to give to the people in you life you have be strong enough first. I want to be a giver, lover and provider. To do so, I have to know me, be the strongest me I can. This is what i am focusing on now. For the first time I know who I am and I am making myself better. For one I have lost over 100lbs in 7 months. I have struggled with my weight, now I know who I am, I have the strength to loose weight, And I am winning. I have 95lbs to go, then the real fun life changes can happen,
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like to think I am very caring, and good listener. I always have an open shoulder to lean on and open ear. I am very open minded and have a lot of life experience. I am never judgmental and easy to relate to.

I am kinda new age, I am in to divination. I have studied Runes for more than five years, and consider myself a Rune Master.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Perhaps my weight. which is decreasing all the time. I am still a big girl, but I am working on it, a lot. And it is not about what other people think. I do not care about others judgement of what I look like. I NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT, for me and , my goals.

Also my hair, is short and choppy. a work in progress for sure. Tiring to grow it out as part of my new look. It is in that middle stage that is just uggh. Perhaps others do not notice as much I feel that they do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Do not read as much as i would like. I do not wanna be one of the those non readers, i just do not do it a lot.

Sci Fi nerd. Star Wars, Star Trek... LotR, Harry Potter, etc.... yep I am a geek and proud.

BSG, Buffy law and order:svu , Stargate, Lost. just to name a few.

Lots of music. fav band Floggin Molly. as of late I am digging Adele and Natalie Bedingfeild

OH Food: do not get me started. I have changed my views on food. it is my fuel, that's it. I need it to keep me alive get me threw workouts and help be burn calories. This girl has goals and i will not be trapped my taste and food culture. Do not get me wrong it is hard, but it is what i need to be whole! and I am whole it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
true sense of self
my car
My gyms (trainer's and classes)
My support system of friends and fam
KU basketball (rock chalk!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what is best for me and how to obtain my goals. I have a few things that work with and against each other at times. And I have to balance them out to get what i need.

That girl for me. where ever she is? I want some one in my life. but I know that right now I am already in a committed relationship with me, lol. I have failed my self and partners too many times before. and i know I have to get myself to where I am strong. my next partner / soul mate is just like everything in my life. Worth taking the time to get it right. I am looking for that one woman to be with. but it is ok if it take time, anything worth it always takes time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
if i have nothing else to working out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am amazed and scared of all the great change in my life, i break down in the car and cry a few times a week.
You should message me if
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ACCEPT ME FOR ME! I am a whole person take it or leave it. If you feel, who a person means more than what they appear to be.

I only have bi girls on my matches. It is really hard for me to guess if a straight or lesbian woman would want to date a MTF lady like me, Kinda depends on what you value the most who some one is physically or emotionally. But I personally am into woman no matter gay, straight, bi, pan, cis or trans. So if you are a girl and you want to get to know me, hit me up, lol

If you want to get to know me, for a friend, for more or to see where things go. if You can understand I want to find the person for me, but it will take time, I am in the middle of a huge journey and i would love to find a lady to enjoy it with.

No Drama or BS. really not wanting any of that.

If you want some one to workout with. I am not saying it is a must, not at all. trust me I am going to the gym if anyone joins me or not, lol. But if you would like some one to enjoy some fitness time with, and get to know each other, I am your girl.