40 Blackwood, NJ
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My self-summary
Ok...I'm on here for fun.
Just had a bad breakup recently.
I have a few guidelines.

1. I don't respond if you have only facial shots or cleverly positioned selfies that make you "appear" thin. I don't mind curves or a few extra pounds, but some of you are flat-out liars...lol.
2. If you think this makes me shallow, you may be right...and you may be fooling yourself. Physical attraction is very important to both genders. I just find that it saves a lot of bullshit if you're up front.
3. I don't mind friends...even long term friends. (maybe with benefits) just no preconceived ideas please. If something comes of it, we'll roll with it.
4. You SHOULD message me if you're so inclined. I'm always busy so this helps us connect.

I do pay attention to politics #feelthebern .
What I’m doing with my life
Currently a nationally registered EMT working in the South Jersey / Philadelphia area.
I'm also a bassist in an 80's cover band. I've been playing bass for 25 years and am featured on 2 albums. (That and a buck will get me a cup of coffee)
I’m really good at
1) my job 2) playing the bass guitar [25 years & two albums under my belt] 3) listening 4) playing Skyrim...lol! 5) driving 6) sleeping [preferably not when doing #1 or #5]
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes ...or the fact that I am 6'3"!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: the entire Harry Potter series, the entire Dark Tower series, Starship Troopers (not the movie version, the Heinlein novel), (more when I think of it)
Movies: All Star Trek, Star Wars movies (just to get that out of the way) Crimson Tide, Hunt for Red October, Smokey and the Bandit (Love me some classic Jackie Gleason...lol)
TV: Big Doctor Who fan including Torchwood. Supernatural, The West Wing, Sherlock, House MD. I am also into Star Blazers or Space Battleship Yamato & classic Robotech. I love documentaries.
The six things I could never do without
Bass guitar
Sex (duh)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Cars (I know...very cliché)
Paranormal / Spiritual stuff
Medical issues (primarily my patients)
On a typical Friday night I am
Working...the side effect of being in emergency services.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
...is that I have almost died 4 times in my life due to different medical issues. I'm hard to kill.
You should message me if
If you feel like it....and you are comfortable with yourself.
Just message me & ask questions. I sound like a hard-ass in the profile just to weed out stragglers.