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  • Ages 22–34
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Aug 21
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Likes cats
My self-summary
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I'm loyal, dependable, honest, romantic, educated, intelligent, and kind. I'm the nice guy that goes to the fridge to get drinks for everyone. I'm the one friend that shows up to help you move all the heavy furniture. I'm the partner that holds your hair while your puking in the porcelain throne - and I told you not to eat that gas station sushi.

I'm also a big nerd. I have a BA in computer science and use my computer for 90% of my communication. I enjoy electronic games and games played on tables. I prefer comedies, sci fi, and fantasy; but can watch most anything. I listen to a wide variety of music, generally avoiding country and hard rap. I avoid spicy foods but I enjoy a wide variety of cuisine (and have been watching a lot of food TV shows lately).

I'm close with my family and I'm an uncle 12 times over (my closest sibling is 13 years older than me). I prefer cats, but most of my friends have dogs (and I had a dog growing up).

You get bonus awesome points with me if you are any of the following:
- have a master's degree.
- are crazy enough to go running with fresh snow out.
- have your own business.
- know who Mercutio is without googling it.
- have freckles.
- can out geek me
- have your own website and domain
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a trained programmer, but currently doing general IT work most of the time.

I keep busy playing games, getting out with local friends, and helping family. I don't really enjoy bars and that seems to be the only place to meet people these days.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring out other people's motivations and relating. Working with numbers. Solving complex problems in creative ways. I know my way around computers.
The first things people usually notice about me
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buzzed/bald head, Scruffy with glasses, taller than most with barrel chest (lots of swimming when I was younger, can hold my breath for quite a while even though I hardly swim these days), I'm slowly working my weight back down but I still pretty much look like an ogre.

People can also usually tell quickly that I care a lot about other people--I'm considerate--I do little things to be helpful and am friendly to others. I have a smile to greet you even when things are going pretty awful for me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Shakespeare, oldschool Dragonlance, non-fiction technical applicable, I end up reading a lot of fantasy that I don't particularly care for because of recommendations from friends =P

Princess Bride, Gattaca, Unbreakable, The Village (oddly, I watch this as a romance and not a thriller that most people see it as), Dark City, Stranger than Fiction, The Dark Crystal, Run Lola Run, Nacho Libre, Edward Scissorhands, Sneakers

Firefly, Game of Thrones (Song of Ice and Fire), Naruto, Kitchen Nightmares, Archer, Doctor Who (David Tenant ftw), Castle, Chopped, Kitchen Confidential, The Best Thing I Ever Ate, Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip, Log Horizon, Fairy Tail

Smashing Pumpkins, Gravity Kills, techno, dance, 90s alternative, pretty much anything but hard rap or country.

Lasanga, pretty much any Italian, Japanese, Cheesecake, Ice Cream, White Chocolate -- don't eat beans. had enough rice in Indonesia for a lifetime but I don't hate it, just would rather have other options.

Settlers of Catan, Euchre, Dominion, Pathfinder card game, Legendary, Bang!

WoW, League of Legends, Skyrim, Mass Effect 3, Civ5, XCOM, Dragon Age, Final Fantasy
The six things I could never do without
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The six things I could never do without are: smell, taste, touch, hearing, sight, and kinesthetics. The world is an amazing beautiful place full of wonderful people, places, and things; I would be sorely sad to not have all my senses to experience them with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how people interact with each other. how thankful I am for my friends and family.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually out having dinner with friends; sometimes home watching Hulu if they have other plans. saturday or sunday is usually when friends get together to play games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The most private thing I’m willing to admit here is that I am aiming for a relationship. I'm sick of flying solo and I'm wanting a close friend and co-pilot.

I do love kitten videos on youtube; they make me smile.
You should message me if
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if you think we'd be a good match.
if you already know me.
or if you just have a question that I can answer.