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26 Austin, TX Woman, Androgynous, Genderfluid

Woman, Androgynous, Genderfluid

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 2:19pm
4′ 9″ (1.45m)
Body Type
Working on law school
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English, Sign Language, German, Spanish, French
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Some simple things that might interest you:
I fluently speak English, Spanish, and ASL.
It upsets me that I can't put "love" as my religion.
I am in a wheelchair. (If you leave my profile now, you are likely contributing to ableism, and I don't actually want to speak to you anyway.) My mind isn't handicapped, and my wheelchair has a seatbelt, not a chastity belt.
My Myers Briggs personality type is ISFJ.
Lots of tattoos.
Mini dachshund puppy named Bean.
Slam/competitive poetry defines my heart.
Tell me a good joke and I'm sold.
You smoke? Weed be cute together. ;)
I'm a lover.
I'm a fighter.
I'm the epitome of resilience.

Some other random things I like: Rumi, gender fluidity, yoga, hair dye, fireflies, giraffes, arts and crafts, writing little notes for friends, Derrick Brown, tea sets, laughing until I cry, curiosity, mangoes, Rilke, crime shows, artistically rolled blunts, pugs, disappearing off the radar, Obama, trains, Anis Mojgani, driving over bridges, colorful frogs, people who aren't afraid to ask questions, depth, battling all the -isms, small tea shops, Neruda, oreos, Shane Koyszan, bucket lists, identifying what language someone is speaking, white noise, dried cranberries, painting, ampersands


Things I don't like: Seafood, spiders, scorpions, having my blinds closed, -isms, air-filled tires, statistics classes, life-like mannequins, guinea pigs, diet sodas, people who doubt or stand in the way of my independence.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Law school. Disability advocacy work.
Spreading the love.
Poetry is both my art and my war.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Poetry slams.
Being compassionate.
Loving music.
Laughing for no reason.
Noticing the little things.
Gift giving.
Making out, etc.
Finding good books.
Constructive criticism.
Having useless knowledge that impresses people.
Eating cookie dough.
Telling jokes wrong.
Driving a wheelchair. Is that a given?
Describing vision to blind people.
Netflix marathoning.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Tattoos on me, stickers on my wheelchair. I like to laugh and people always tell me that I smile a lot. I'm tiny.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: Van Morisson, Neil Young, Yelle, Ed Sheeren, The xx, The Civil Wars, Joshua Radin, Biggie, Crosby, Stills & Nash, Zero 7, Ben Folds, Tegan and Sara, Fiona Apple, Iron & Wine, Jaymay, Between the Trees, Ernie Halter, Frank Ocean, Miguel, Missy Higgins, Frank Sinatra, Ani DiFranco, Billy Joel, Bon Iver, etc. I'm also a fan of classical and contemporary piano pieces.

Movies: Dead Poet's Society, The Science of Sleep, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Donnie Darko, What's Eating Gilbert Grape?, Coraline, American Beauty, Amelie, Singin’ in the Rain, Harry Potter, Girl Interrupted, The Prestige, The Virgin Suicides, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close.

TV: Breaking Bad, Sons of Anarchy, Dexter, Orange is the New Black, Prison Break, American Horror Story, Borgia, Lie to Me, The Following, So You Think You Can Dance, The Walking Dead, United States of Tara, The L Word, and my guilty pleasure, Pretty Little Liars.

Books: Written on the Body, Everything Is Illuminated, Room, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, Le Petit Prince, Les Miserables, The Cellist of Sarajevo, Der Vorleser, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Love in the Time of Cholera, Lolita, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, White Oleander, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit, Harry Potter, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time, The Tao of Pooh, The Te of Piglet.

Food: Avocado is a fruit of the gods. You'll win my heart with strawberries. Make tacos, not war.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Showers, cleanliness, sanitizing.
2. iPhone. I'd be lost without it.
3. My wheelchair = my legs. So that.
4. The four-legged best friend of mine.
5. Learning. I'm desperate to learn anything.
6. Travel. My nomadic soul would ache without adventure.

Six Things I Can Definitely Do Without:
1. Shellfish. They're deadly to me.
2. High pitch shrieking, screeching sounds.
3. This OkC profile.
4. Ignorance. (!!!)
5. Bad dreams.
6. Limits.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How wonderful laughter is.
If the lines in my palms match someone else's.
How long it would take to walk 'til I find where I am supposed to be.
If there's somewhere I'm supposed to be.
How different textures would feel under my feet if I could walk.
Art in all its divine forms.
e.e. cummings poetry.
Why people with disabilities tend to be desexualized. Actually, the stigma behind disability in general, and how to show people otherwise
How a nomadic lifestyle greatly outweighs the norm.
Tea, and how if a girl asked me out for tea, I'd immediately dig her.
Words that start with the letter 't', it seems.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing in my life is typical.

(It's Friday night and I feel obligated to say that I'm at home watching season 3 of OITNB.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I use hashtags on Instagram. #sosueme

Also one time I got a little fresh with Melissa Etheridge and she called me out on it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have something to teach me, or if you'd like to learn from me.
You need or want a person who can be a faithful friend.
You are just interested in general.
You are fascinated by genetics; I'm a genetic mystery.
You wanna come play with my puppy.
Your favorite animal is the giraffe.
You have tattoos that have a story behind them.
You want to help me cross things off my bucket list.
You like spoken word and open mic nights.
You want to have a jam session.
You aren't afraid to laugh loudly and freely.
You want to take me kayaking somehow.
You want to take a day trip to meander around a new city with me.
You want to lay around and kiss for a while.
You're a polyglot, a bibliophile, or you dabble in the arts.
You have a completely opposing personality from mine.
You don't fit inside a neat little box for any stereotype.
You read my whole profile.
You get double-takes from people, wondering if you're a girl or a boy.
You wanna get high and laugh about shit!

tl;dr - Just say hello. I'm friendly!