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keepyoulookingup

24 / F / Gay / Single

Washington, District of Columbia

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 3:01pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
4′ 9″ (1.45m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Gemini
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English, Sign Language, German, Spanish, French

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My self-summary
Some simple things that might interest you:
It upsets me that I can't put "love" as my religion, and that I have to choose "Gay" instead of "Queer". Can we please fix that, OkC?
I am multilingual. No, I didn't say bilingual. Nor trilingual. I am, in fact, multilingual.
I am in a wheelchair. (If you leave my profile now, you are likely contributing to ableism, and I don't actually want to speak to you anyway.) My mind isn't handicapped, nor is my vagina. Just sayin'.
My Myers Briggs personality type is ISFJ.
Lots of tattoos and a few piercings.
My favorite color is purple, but I am also colorblind. I can't see shades of yellow. It is called Tritinopia.
I am afraid of tin foil, clowns, and getting lost in a big crowd of people.
I like to own beta fish, and each one that I've had has been named after a Shakespeare character.
I also like to own rats. They tend to have music-related names.
When I was young, I preferred saying "hopticopter" to "helicopter".
It's not likely that you can throw a line from a poem my way that I haven't already heard. Feel free to challenge me.
Sarcasm? That's practically my middle name.
I happen to think that snow is the most beautiful phenomenon.
I'm captivated by dance, and in another life I would likely have been a dancer.
I'm a lover.
I'm a fighter.
I'm the epitome of resilience.

Some other random things I like: Rumi, gender fluidity, hair dye, fireflies, giraffes, arts and crafts, writing little notes for friends, Derrick Brown, tea sets, laughing until I cry, curiosity, mangoes, Rilke, crime shows, disappearing off the radar, Obama, Anis Mojgani, making wishes on dandelions, driving over bridges, colorful frogs, people who aren't afraid to ask questions, battling all the -isms, small coffee shops, Neruda, oreos, Shane Koyszan, bucket lists, identifying what language someone is speaking, white noise, Andrea Gibson, painting, sharing memories.

Things I don't like: Seafood, spiders, having my blinds closed, nuts (in every sense), not having something to do, -isms, air-filled tires, statistics classes, life-like mannequins, diet sodas, people who doubt my independence.
What I’m doing with my life
I live to dream. What do you live for?

I am studying Linguistics of American Sign Language (ASL) for my Master's degree. PhD is tbd. We'll see where life takes me.

I'm also in the process of becoming a published poet.
I’m really good at
Learning foreign languages.
Being compassionate.
Listening.
Playing music.
Laughing for no reason.
Noticing the little things.
Exploring.
Gift giving.
Finding good books.
Constructive criticism.
Having useless knowledge that impresses people.
Backgammon.
Scrabble.
Eating cookie dough.
Driving a wheelchair. Is that a given?
Describing vision to blind people.
Researching.
The first things people usually notice about me
The mohawk? The androgyny? Or maybe the giant hunkin' electric wheelchair I sit in and the stickers all over it?

If we're talking about my personality, most people notice that I am very quiet. Once you know me, I'm not quiet at all. More often than not, I like to listen (or watch) conversation happen around me. I like to laugh and people always tell me that I smile a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Ed Sheeren, The xx, The Civil Wars, Joshua Radin, Regina Spektor, Zero 7, Ben Folds, Tegan and Sara, Parachute, Fiona Apple, Iron & Wine, Between the Trees, Switchfoot, Ernie Halter, Frank Ocean, Miguel, Andrew Allen, Missy Higgins, Frank Sinatra, Michael Buble, Ani DiFranco, Billy Joel, Bon Iver, etc.

Movies: The Science of Sleep, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Donnie Darko, What's Eating Gilbert Grape?, Coraline, American Beauty, Amelie, Singin’ in the Rain, Harry Potter, Girl Interrupted, The Virgin Suicides, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close.

TV: Breaking Bad, Doctor Who, The Dead Zone, Family Guy, American Horror Story, House, Jeopardy, So You Think You Can Dance, United States of Tara, The L Word, and guilty pleasures with Pretty Little Liars and The Lying Game.

Books: Everything Is Illuminated, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, Le Petit Prince, American Gods, Of Such Small Differences, Pilgrim at Tinker Creek, Les Miserables, The Cellist of Sarajevo, Der Vorleser, Love in the Time of Cholera, Lolita, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, White Oleander, Pride and Prejudice, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit, Harry Potter, The Lost Symbol, The Da Vinci Code, Angels and Demons, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time, The Tao of Pooh, The Te of Piglet, Room.
The six things I could never do without
1. Showers, cleanliness, sanitizing. You get the idea.
2. iPhone. I'd be lost without it.
3. Warmth. Self explanatory.
4. Hope. The best emotion there is.
5. Learning. I'm desperate to learn anything.
6. Google.com. Yes, I'm serious.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How wonderful laughter is.
If the lines in my palms match someone else's.
How long it would take to walk 'til I find where I am supposed to be.
If there's somewhere I'm supposed to be.
How different textures would feel under my feet if I could walk.
What the New Year is going to hold for me.
e.e. cummings poetry.
What foreign language I should work on learning next.
Gender.
How a nomadic lifestyle greatly outweighs the norm.
The stigma behind disability, and how to show people otherwise.
Trees.
Traveling.
Tea, and how if a girl asked me out for tea, I'd immediately dig her.
Words that start with the letter 't', it seems.
On a typical Friday night I am
Nothing in my life is typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I pull a Black Swan-esque feat, and peel the skin off of my thumbs.

Also, I have a mole in the shape of a heart. It's cute.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 18–32
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
You have something to teach me, or if you'd like to learn from me.
You need or want a person who can be a faithful friend.
You are just interested in general.
You are originally from Florida, but you like it here more (wherever 'here' may be to you).
Your favorite animal is the giraffe.
You have tattoos that have a story behind them.
You want to help me cross things off my bucket list.
You like spoken word and open mic nights.
You want to have a jam session.
You aren't afraid to laugh loudly and freely.
You want to discuss politics.
You're a polyglot, a bibliophile, or you dabble in the arts.
You have a completely opposing personality from mine.
You don't fit inside a neat little box for any stereotype.
You read my whole profile even though it said I'm in a wheelchair.
You get double-takes from people, wondering if you're a girl or a boy.

tl;dr - Just say hello. I'm friendly!