look people. i get a lot of verbal abuse here. i've always taken the approach of delete and ignore, or in some cases, block or even report the person. but no, i'm not going to keep silent anymore as this will just allow these cyber bullies to continue bullying others.

you, yes you. you're looking at my profile now and just to remind you, i have the right to say what i like in my profile about me and my preferences. if you don't agree with me, it's fine. just move on to the next profile. how i look, what i like and who or what i am is seriously NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS! who do you think you are? GOD? look at yourself in the mirror before you judge someone.

i don't go around looking at people's profiles and messaging them to tell them how ugly they are. i have a pretty decent education, including learnings from the society, that if i don't have anything nice to say, i'll keep my mouth shut. so learn to shut up, please.

really, you won't upset me by sending me unkind words. actually, i share the abusive messages i received here with my friends. you're more like a laughing stock to us. like i said, i've decided not to stay silent anymore. i've uploaded some pics of the offensive messages i got from members of this website. i really can't be bothered to view their profiles.

as far as i'm concerned, i'm a real person with a real picture of myself. i am not ashame of how i look. i am pretty in my own way. and mind you, pretty or ugly is subjective. you don't think i am pretty, it's perfectly fine! if everyone thinks the same way, nobody will be unique anymore. but please, just go away, especially since i am so ugly, you should just stay away from me.

i said that before and i'm not afraid to say again. the ugly people are actually the meanest people here. just look at the pics i've uploaded and you'll see the proof. Chinese has this saying that looks come from the heart. if you are mean, you'll definitely look ugly. but if you're disadvantaged in terms of looks, be a nice person and you'll be well liked! ugly and mean, seriously, why are you even wasting oxygen?

lastly, thanks for dropping by. i'm sorry if i've viewed your profile but not say hi.. it's either i don't find us suitable, or i'm thinking what to say to get a reply from you, and kinda procrastinate sending you a message. you can drop me a message if you like. and if i like you, i'll reply you. if not, i really thank you for your interest, but you gotta understand that i have a choice as to who i wanna befriend. and yes, i do ignore messages, pardon me if i do so..

so if i take the initiative to msg you, you can reply me if you like. if not, ignoring is fine. have a good day!

still working hard but fortunately no need to work as long hours as my past jobs.. definitely trying to lose weight but haven't succeeded cos my mouth doesn't cooperate with my body..

laughing.. i am easily amused

my smile. i'm sure you do too..

movies - the holiday (jude law is so cute!), valentine's day (2010), shrek series
food - ice cream! ben & jerry's dublin mudslide
books - chinese books, harry potter
music - pop

friends, family, money, sleep, water, health

how to pick up a guy in a club, on the street or anywhere else? i do ogle at guys but no, i haven't gotten the courage to go over and say hi. hahaha..

sleeping. like any other nights. yawn~

i am superficial. is this private? i do go for looks and i'm not sorry to say that. i'm just sorry if you're offended and start verbally abusing me. sometimes, the meanest persons are actually the ugly ones.. you may be surprised but i'm not.. i get scolded by ugly strangers. weird. but of course, if i've known you out of the internet context, it would probably be a different story. i don't choose my friends based on their looks..

you are all of the following
- single straight man
- non smoker
- good looking
- you're not offended by me (although i am still puzzled why anyone would?)

If I've checked you out but have not messaged you, why don't you drop me a message instead?