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52 Asbury, WV Man


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  • Ages 31–56
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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am about to update much of this....
as it is much needed...very soon...
I am transplanted from the Chicago area...(and am strongly considering moving back within the next 6 months and have been perusing okc profiles there, in case you are wondering why I looked at or liked your profile, however nothing is etched in stone- I have looked at other areas in virginia and the Carolinas as well). I miss the diversity of culture, and the culture. I am kind of a renaissance man-I am interested and have knowledge and talents in just about everything intellectually, artistically and spiritually. I believe in compassion. I just read that and it sounds a bit conceited.:-)...what I mean is that I am interested in everything. I am musically inclined and love all types of music- and like the arts, literature, film (as in more the arthouse, less the blockbuster). I like intelligent conversation. I have a sense of humor and can get pretty "base" sometimes as well. I can also handle tools pretty well- I can repair and/or make stuff. I cycle and work out and am health conscious -but not an absolute fanatic. I am socially conscious also, and my views are "pragmatically progressive"...I believe in compassion.. And I am very accepting and open-minded and believe everyone has a right to be whomever they are as long as it harms no one or nothing else..I am also very open-minded spiritually and accept many people's views-I am working toward being more of a minimalist-not fanatically-yet-(which is hard when I have Amazon Prime :-)) ....I also try to make sure those who are important to me know it. I tell them that they are appreciated.. I love being with people that I care about and the person that I am "with." However I am happy being by myself-as a matter of fact I relish "me time."I don't chase all the trappings of what people generally define themselves with these days.I am easy-going,affectionate and a bit of a "softie"... phew...that is more "I's" than I care to use usually.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it...trying to grow and learn and change and evolve...moving forward, life is not a goal, it is what happens daily and you have to appreciate it-there are going to be down times. Also, in relationships-it isn't always going to be bells and whistles-hopefully often enough-but there are going to be days where you both just had a routine day and are going to appreciate being together.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hopefully more things that are important than those that aren't!/:-)Oh I could get really silly here...or dirty (humor...of course...)...Hmmm...let me get back to this on that-this seems to be a question that could open to has multiple talents...and some don't even realize things that they are talented at....
The first things people usually notice about me
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For my response here, I asked a woman whom I have had a first meeting with similar to what one from this site would be like (we remain good friends)...she said-"You are handsome, you have nice eyes, and you dress with some sense of fashion"...she also says that I am smart, but that that isn't something that you notice without conversation. My answer probably would've been "that I'm taller than average-luckily-'cuz I have male pattern baldness setting in...:-)...oh and maybe that I am in decent shape and look ok for being over 40....and that I can speak in complete sentences using proper grammar"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books-Steinbeck,...confederacy of Dunces...jeez...just about anything printed or cyber printed fiction or nonfiction I read all the time (yes, I am a 'bathroom reader' even)...movies-Lars and the Real Girl, Black Swan, Shawshank, -indie,arthouse,foreign, anything with character,plot,message,humor, not usually into the action,violent, and I mean that-some more than others but lately-a lot of new independent stuff, classical,jazz,alt,-I am not stuck on stuff that I listened to in high school as the last answer to Bang Theory, and PBS are the only things that I will go out of the way to am a vegetarian and a foodie-so all ethnic foods and regional foods-(Olive Garden is not my idea of Italian), If I am visiting somewhere that I have not been, I generally try to find a regular restaurant-not a chain.(with the exception of The Original Pancake House franchises-NOT IHOP)-..I like to cook in the winter (meaning trying recipes and being adventurous not throwing something in a pan with some salt)....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
breathable air, clean water, edible safe healthy food....shelter from the elements...soul/mind/body in full function..and laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Too many things! My daughter, philosophy,food, sex, if I should or not, what I am doing I can change things that I can, what that noise was, does E really=MC2....will it snow tomorrow, politics, the environment, did I lock the door.... what to think about next....:-D
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I grocery shop and prepare for the weekend in the winter. In the summer I may be cycling or doing something outside. All is trumped of course if there is something social, or some decent entertainment to go see or something good going on.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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like most people who answer here have said-It's private-If I admit it-It becomes PUBLIC....
You should message me if
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You are open-minded and compassionate. Artistic type,intellectual type, curious type,open hearted...not horribly somewhat about your health...can accept that I don't eat meat... Do not message if you are racist,homophobic,...if you are far right wing or tea party we won't click...and I am accepting of faiths, but if you are Fundamentalist or feel that we should legislate based on your faith, or can't accept any other faiths or views than your own-we won't click....