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kelebekk

43 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:16pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Okay), Russian (Poorly), Turkish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Of all the many questions I've considered answering on this site, the most telling one for me was one I looked at and shied away from. I didn't answer it and haven't come across it since, but I decided it deserves a little essay. It was, "do you enjoy going to the movies alone?"
I knew the answer right away: "No." But I wish I was a different type of person, someone who did enjoy going to the movies alone. I admire that kind of self-sufficiency. For me going to the movies is such a luxurious pleasure, what with the resting in cushy seats, the darkness, the hedonism, the snacks, and the huge entertainment of other lives and stories told, it's like experiencing a fabulous dream. That much pleasure is something I always seek to share. It's somehow not enough to live something intense all by myself. I'm sure that's a character flaw.
In fact I HAVE gone to the movies alone. I attended a Kurasawa festival back in college years, all on my own, and had a blast. I bet if I ever did take myself off to the movies alone now, I would have a great time. But, I'd probably have to tell someone about it afterward.
What I’m doing with my life
I got this baby by asking a donor to help me. The donor is someone I know, but he's not involved with us at all. So it's just me raising my girl, with help from my brothers and friends and a lot of generous surprising people who cross our path.
Before I had a baby, I had a lot of free time every day. I would go stretch out at a cafe with the Times or a novel and then wander off to yoga class. Work starts around 6 pm for me, four nights a week. Now that my daughter's in pre-kindergarten, I finally again have a bit of time free during school hours. I pick her up from school at three pm and a babysitter gives her dinner when I go off to work.
I’m really good at
dancing the tango.
ok so i'm really really really good at dancing the tango.

also, reading poems.
& paying attention to words in general.
The first things people usually notice about me
are not the things i mean to project.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
saramago
murakami
the earthsea series
just enjoyed the lost books of the odyssey

lawrence of arabia
the philadelphia story
howl's moving castle
brick

bach
bjork
basie
buena vista
& de caro

orange juice, eggs, french toast, pasta, cheese, peanut butter sandwiches, sushi, salads made by someone else, and plenty of fine chocolate brownies
The six things I could never do without
hope
chocolate
and four pillows to sleep with
...but maybe with the right man, i could let go of one or two of the pillows...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what i'm going to do with my 6.5 euphorically free hours each day now that my little girl is in school. clean the house uninterrupted? a sensuous luxury. yoga class? and some days i have some paid work during those hours. some days i can go right back to sleep.
am i raising her right? am i feeding her right? what school is she going to next year? should her next babysitter speak to her in spanish or russian? what to do with all the clothes she has outgrown?
i think about what's going on among my circle of friends, and when to visit each one. i think about how to improve my business.. i often wish i spent time thinking about what to wear, but i just never do it.
On a typical Friday night I am
tiptoeing around the apartment, enjoying my solitude and my one weekday evening without work.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating