I've been told I make people feel at ease right away, like they've
known me for years instead of minutes, so they feel totally
accepted and comfortable. I am trusting and trustworthy, intuitive,
sincere, enthusiastic, and at times emotionally intense. I can be
impractical, outspoken, and occasionally impatient with reaching my
goals. I often play therapist for my friends, and am the emotional
rock for others. I’m a major liberal/ progressive/ socialist/
pacifist/ feminist, if you're conservative in any way chances are
we won't get along.
I'm kinky, submissive, polyamorous, and looking to connect with
poly folks for romantic/emotional connection, or for friendship, it
is great to get others’ perspectives. So if you’re poly and think
we could become friends, please drop me a line!
Sorry, no swingers or casual sex - no judgement I just don't have
space in my life for that energy at this time. So your efforts will
be better spent on someone else.
I am compassionate, extremely self-aware, full of positive energy,
non-judgemental, and open-hearted. I love to cuddle, am optimistic,
spiritual, sensual, independent, and genuine. I enjoy and require
alone time as well as connection and togetherness. I'm somewhat
easily confused and indecisive. I am easy-going, affectionate,
accepting of others, empathic, and peace-loving, I don't like to
argue or debate. I am always kind to strangers, and I notice when
others are or aren't. Sometimes I can be nervous and ungrounded,
and in part I am looking to find someone who can at times help keep
I seem really outgoing because I'm curious about people, and good
at asking questions and active listening. But really I'm an
introvert who needs to recharge regularly from contact with the
outside world, while those inside my personal world are often the
exception. I try to always be open, transparent, and take
responsibility for my own stuff. Self growth & openness are
vital to me, and in a partner I am seeking the same. I feel deeply
and wear my heart on my sleeve, and have an inclusive heart, I love
everyone on some level. I enjoy connecting deeply and from my heart
with those who share my values and outlook.
I'm an INFP or ENFP depending when you run into me.
What I’m doing with my life
Practicing living in gratitude, mindfully embracing life as it is,
learning about myself and accepting what I find, while attempting
to become a better version of me. Connecting with others with my
I aspire to live fearlessly, to be a better person in all ways, to
use my life wisely and clearly in service to humanity, working on
moving forward in my plans for that.
I’m really good at
Intuition of whether someone is the right kind of person for me.
Connecting with people, sensing people's thoughts and emotions,
active listening. Living in a space of trust, abundance, and
The first things people usually notice about me
Most often I hear, "you have the most beautiful smile!" I think
people are noticing that I smile A LOT, and I make eye contact with
them. I like to connect with people. Other frequent comments are
that I'm kind and compassionate, a good listener, and easy to tell
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I find this superficial and not important to me, as far as trying
to overlap with others that I would like to build a connection
with. I will say I am always reading, mostly non-fiction, and
mostly personal growth books of some kind. I am not going to put
undue attention here. If this bothers you, it may be a sign that we
may not be a match!
The six things I could never do without
Love & friendship
Touch & cuddling
Dancing in the rain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to meet people I'm truly compatible with - who are hyper-aware
of others and the world around them, compassionate, kind,
open-hearted and open-minded in every way, self possessed,
independent, progressive, working on themselves to be the best they
can be in every way (with emphasis on internal qualities).
On a typical Friday night I am
Grateful to have the whole weekend ahead of me to do whatever I
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
In 2000, I was a surrogate mother for a gay couple. It was
basically impossible for them to adopt because the laws are biased
against them. So despite my overpopulation beliefs I made a big
exception for them, and I'm glad I did.
Otherwise, I'm an open book, if we are hitting it off, ask me
You should message me if
You are optimistic, open-hearted, open-minded and non-judgmental in every way. You are compassionate and kind, self-possessed, and independent You are stable, peaceful, and at peace with yourself and the world. You are exploring, learning, and growing into the best you that you can be.
You genuinely love yourself, and you find it vitally important to you that we have an emotional/friendship component to our connection.
You are interested in developing relationships centered on loving connection where all partners know and enjoy each other.
You are already in a polyamorous relationship, or you are poly/single and interested in friendship. No swingers please.