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45 Silver Spring, MD Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 35-55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 6
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Buddhism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
My self-summary
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I've been told I make people feel at ease right away, like they've known me for years instead of minutes, so they feel totally accepted and comfortable. I am trusting and trustworthy, intuitive, sincere, enthusiastic, and at times emotionally intense. I can be impractical, outspoken, and occasionally impatient with reaching my goals. I often play therapist for my friends, and am the emotional rock for others. I’m a major liberal/ progressive/ socialist/ pacifist/ feminist, if you're conservative in any way chances are we won't get along.

I'm kinky, submissive, polyamorous, and looking to connect with poly folks for romantic/emotional connection, or for friendship, it is great to get others’ perspectives. So if you’re poly and think we could become friends, please drop me a line!

Sorry, no swingers or casual sex - no judgement I just don't have space in my life for that energy at this time. So your efforts will be better spent on someone else.

I am compassionate, extremely self-aware, full of positive energy, non-judgemental, and open-hearted. I love to cuddle, am optimistic, spiritual, sensual, independent, and genuine. I enjoy and require alone time as well as connection and togetherness. I'm somewhat easily confused and indecisive. I am easy-going, affectionate, accepting of others, empathic, and peace-loving, I don't like to argue or debate. I am always kind to strangers, and I notice when others are or aren't. Sometimes I can be nervous and ungrounded, and in part I am looking to find someone who can at times help keep me grounded.

I seem really outgoing because I'm curious about people, and good at asking questions and active listening. But really I'm an introvert who needs to recharge regularly from contact with the outside world, while those inside my personal world are often the exception. I try to always be open, transparent, and take responsibility for my own stuff. Self growth & openness are vital to me, and in a partner I am seeking the same. I feel deeply and wear my heart on my sleeve, and have an inclusive heart, I love everyone on some level. I enjoy connecting deeply and from my heart with those who share my values and outlook.

I'm an INFP or ENFP depending when you run into me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Practicing living in gratitude, mindfully embracing life as it is, learning about myself and accepting what I find, while attempting to become a better version of me. Connecting with others with my whole heart.

I aspire to live fearlessly, to be a better person in all ways, to use my life wisely and clearly in service to humanity, working on moving forward in my plans for that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Intuition of whether someone is the right kind of person for me. Connecting with people, sensing people's thoughts and emotions, active listening. Living in a space of trust, abundance, and optimism.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Most often I hear, "you have the most beautiful smile!" I think people are noticing that I smile A LOT, and I make eye contact with them. I like to connect with people. Other frequent comments are that I'm kind and compassionate, a good listener, and easy to tell anything to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I find this superficial and not important to me, as far as trying to overlap with others that I would like to build a connection with. I will say I am always reading, mostly non-fiction, and mostly personal growth books of some kind. I am not going to put undue attention here. If this bothers you, it may be a sign that we may not be a match!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Personal growth
Love & friendship
Touch & cuddling
Dancing in the rain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to meet people I'm truly compatible with - who are hyper-aware of others and the world around them, compassionate, kind, open-hearted and open-minded in every way, self possessed, independent, progressive, working on themselves to be the best they can be in every way (with emphasis on internal qualities).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Grateful to have the whole weekend ahead of me to do whatever I choose.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
In 2000, I was a surrogate mother for a gay couple. It was basically impossible for them to adopt because the laws are biased against them. So despite my overpopulation beliefs I made a big exception for them, and I'm glad I did.

Otherwise, I'm an open book, if we are hitting it off, ask me anything!
You should message me if
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You are optimistic, open-hearted, open-minded and non-judgmental in every way. You are compassionate and kind, self-possessed, and independent You are stable, peaceful, and at peace with yourself and the world. You are exploring, learning, and growing into the best you that you can be.

You genuinely love yourself, and you find it vitally important to you that we have an emotional/friendship component to our connection.

You are interested in developing relationships centered on loving connection where all partners know and enjoy each other.

You are already in a polyamorous relationship, or you are poly/single and interested in friendship. No swingers please.