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43 / F / Straight / Single
Dearborn Heights, Michigan
Her journal posts
Mar 10, 2012
I think it's time for some of us to change how we view ourselves... to look upon and within ourselves more kindly.
All you have to do is simply start a journal entry either here on *&*%^$ or privately and then everyday for 30 days.. write something kind about yourself.. something that you like about yourself... that has nothing to do with your outter shell concentrate on who you are on the inside... the beautiful spirit that lies within you. forget who you were... who you thought you were... or who others made you think you were. focus on the 'you' that you are now, or are in the process of creating.
SO HERE I GO
(FYI.....I compiled this list over a period of 30 days)
1. I am a cheerful person.
2. I am thoughtful of others.
3. I am easy to laugh.
4. I am forgiving.
5. I am empathetic.
6. I cannot lie. (well i can, but am not good at it, so i don't)
7. I am a flirt.
8. I am open minded.
9. I am not vindictive.
10. I enjoy making people laugh/smile.
11. I am sexual.
12. I am easy to please.
13. I am an optimist.
14. I will try most things at least once.
15. I am open with my emotions.
16. I have a good sense of humor.
17. I am loyal.
18. I am friendly.
19. I am compassionate.
20. I am honest.
21. I am trustworthy.
22. I am kind.
23. I am generous.
24. I am sincere.
25. I have common sense.
26. I am positive.
27. I am mature.
28. I can admit when I am wrong or make a mistake.
29. I am honorable.
30. I am morning person.
Well, there you go. 30 things about me that have nothing to do with the outside. It wasn't an easy task. Overall I am a good hearted woman =)
Feb 10, 2012
They can be either too long or too short. Suppose it just depends on your interest in that person. I hope that most people find mine interesting. I have read quite a few profiles that are very clever and amusing, not sure how mine compares to one's you may have read. Any suggestions or comments on mine, please feel free to let me know. Thanks for your input =D
Oct 15, 2011
How can anyone really know me by a few paragraphs? My profile statements are true, but how can you really get a feel for me without meeting me in person. Is there something about me or my profile that is off putting? What are you looking for? If it for someone that is genuine, truthful, caring, passionate, funny and serious I'm that woman. If you are looking for a one night stand then I am NOT that woman. I dream to find the man that I can connect with. Is he out there? I'm starting to think not. I could be like a friend of mine and settle, but in the end it is not fair to all parties involved. I am looking for someone with similar qualities of mine, someone that is caring, thoughtful, strong (in spirit), funny, funny (yes i meant to say it twice) and honest. I don't think it's too much to ask. Is it?
Mind you if I feel that you are not genuine I may not be as well. So please, serious interests only.
May 18, 2011
I've been wondering lately, is it the site or is it me? I am looking for my soulmate ;) I send out messages and never get any responses back, nor do I really get that many messages. Is the message delivery system working? So it just makes me wonder is it me? Am I too big of a girl? Is there a man out there that is looking for someone caring, compassionate, with a great sense of humor and will put 100% into a relationship? Or are just most men here not really looking for a LTR and are only looking for sex? One begins to wonder after such a long time on here. Any comments? Let me know....I'd love to hear them.
Mar 27, 2010
I've been divorced now almost a year and a half now and have found that I am almost the person I was oh so very long ago, the girl who was carefree, happy, fun-loving and full of life. The only difference is, is that I am a woman now. I know how to enjoy life and take things as they come , I know what it is that I want & need, I will not settle for I know I am worth it !! I am ready to start over and find that special someone to whom I can connect with. If you are looking for someone who is caring, compassionate, non-judgemental, understanding, nurturing, funny, loving, honest, trustworthy and has a good sense of humor, then I may be the one for you. Talk to me, send me a message and let's see where it goes.
Aug 26, 2009
As I sit here I wonder, what is this site about? Do people really meet their soulmates or significant others here? I think about the conversations I've been having. I am new to this on line dating/chatting thing. What am I supposed to expect? Anything? I have found that I like meeting and speaking with new people. There is something exciting & refreshing about it. I am curious as to whom I will end up meeting, if anyone at all.
Aug 25, 2009
As I sit here creating my profile I wonder what it will bring me? New friends, Crazy Stalkers, New Lovers, Penpals or even my Soulmate.... The possiblilites are endless. To each of the following I write:
New Friends: I welcome you and can't wait to get to know you so that we can share in our life experiences here.
Crazy Stalkers: Well this should be a no brainer...Please leave me alone =)
New Lovers: Hmmmm... well again see description for new friends.
Penpals: I look forward to writing you and getting to know you.
Soulmate: Hmmm.... Well if you are here I cannot wait to meet you and begin a new life together =)