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40 M Tallahassee, FL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:59am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
update for 2014!

i still hate these things... really, it feels like talking to yourself about yourself. yeah, i know i need to "sell myself", but is there a way to accomplish that and not feel like a used car salesman? anyrate, feel free to ask me anything, i'm much better at answering questions than randomly spewing out things about myself.

you poly people make me laugh...

it's amazing how many women list chapstick and/or lip gloss as one of their 6. what's that about?

planning a hiking trip on the Appalachian Trail this late spring, anyone interested? springer mountain to clingman's dome.
What I’m doing with my life
trying to figure out the dating scene. i haven't dated since the early 90's. yeah, it's a bit overwhelming!

what is it that I want to do today? do i want to spend it with you? i'd like to find a really awesome "special lady friend", so say hello!

update - oh yeah! avoiding gluten! that stuff is everywhere! 30 day experiment didn't even need to finish before I realized the differences. good bye delicious craft beer, we had a good run :-(
I’m really good at
cooking - old profession, kind of miss it!
mountain/cross country biking - need some warm weather!
photography - HS yearbook photog, fun hobby, semi-published
geeking out - love technology!
being a smart ass - it's true, because...
being honest - lies don't accomplish anything for anyone...
problem solving - i do it for work, it's fun because rarely do you solve the same problem twice!
The first things people usually notice about me
my orbital or that i need to shave/get a haircut? i've carried the "military style" look for awhile, fairly short hair, clean shaved. why not see what all this glorious hair will look like?!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books - douglas adams, stephen king, lee childs, pj o'rourke, bill bryson, anything tech related, something someone recommends (john dies at the end). i'm not a huge recreational reader, tend to do it more when traveling. alas, i do have a bookshelf at home, and it does contain more books than are on this list.

movies - pretty much anything i'll watch once, please don't include musicals. if i wanted music i'd go to a concert!

tv shows - how it's made, walking dead, true detective, anything but honey boo-boo.
update - no longer a cable customer!

food - expanding my palate lately. used to be a sous chef so i'm comfortable in the kitchen, always willing to try a new recipe. i love my grill tho!!
update - do you have a gluten free pasta brand you like?

music - a little bit of it all. johnny cash to skinny puppy. wutang clan to charlie daniels. bad manners to stanton warriors. really, i like a lot of music.
The six things I could never do without
water activities
snow activities
awesome food
money (OMG! you put that on here!?! yeah, well, it does make life easier, doesn't it? i've done the poor college student eating ramen, i prefer not to do that again)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
did i leave the iron on?
is the flu closed in the fireplace?
did i refill my ice trays?
how douglas adams came up with 42 as the answer.
do i really want to live in tallahassee the rest of my life?
what's the next place to visit?
On a typical Friday night I am
doing something new, or something old. recently "guys night" has taken up residency for friday. a movie, maybe a board game or poker, some beers, relax and unwind from the week. saturdays are usually the more "go out" nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i'm probably going to be the most honest and direct person you'll know.

and on that note... kids. i really love kids. my nieces and nephews are so awesome. i want kids. but i'm pretty sure i can't do step-kids before my own. it's a mixture of my upbringing (i have step-parents) and some selfishness. shouldn't my first kid be my own? no offense to you or your amazing kids. i just don't think it would work for me. having said that, just like everything else in life, i'm sure there's an exception.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
any of this didn't scare you off
you thought any of this was funny
you know the reference to "special lady friend"
you want a serious relationship
you have an interest in kids