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44 Grayslake, IL Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 24
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Dropped out of Two-year college
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English, Hawaiian (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
What happened to going out on dates?

Going out for a pizza and a movie, take a drive, have a cup of coffee, get to know each other.... these are a few of my favorite things.

I'd like to find someone that enjoys spending time together either a quiet night in watching a movie and a nice meal (I can cook... not like Food TV chef quality but...) or going out and experiencing things together.

Not into the bar scene, not looking for a quickie or anything like that. But I'm also not looking for insta-wife either.

I'm just a guy that enjoys the company of others, can have an intelligent discussion but also am able to just sit back, be quiet and enjoy the moment.

If you like a sensitive, sensual man that's a teddy bear - then I'm your guy!

Intelligence is a turn-on but so is personality.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm relatively new to Lake County, so I'm having fun exploring the area. Taking long drives, finding new restaurants...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, holding my own in a discussion, carrying an intelligent conversation, designing websites, being a computer geek, playing trivia.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told my brown eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
House of Cards (US)
Orange Is the New Black
Madam Secretary
Deadliest Catch
The Flash

Clancy novels, non-fiction, alternate reality sci-fi

I've been converting my DVD and Blu-Ray collection (Over 600 titles!) to digital so I can watch them easily on my Roku. I've got a wide range of tastes from the indie film to the mega-blockbuster. If the story is interesting then the language doesn't matter - as long as there's subtitles.

I am good with almost anything but gangsta rap and speed metal. If you are someone that has to see band names or genres: U2, Rush, Boston, Journey, The Church, New Order, Erasure, UB40, Bob Marley, Yes, Pink Floyd, The Call, The Cure....

Those are some of the bands I listen to. I've got over 4,000 albums (thank god for MP3 and Mp4 files or else my cassette collection would kill me to drive it around ;) ). I enjoy classical, movie scores, jazz, Classic Alternative, Alternative, Blues, oldies as well as Top 40 and Classic Rock.

Anything that's not spicy! Love Japanese cuisine. Am willing to try anything once. Hawaiian food is comfort food but then again so is home cooking. Mexican is good and so is Seafood.

There's nothing like a good Prime Rib.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet (I design websites for a living so without the net I don't have a job)



A good book or movie


Good conversation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What fun things to do this Spring and Summer in Chicagoland!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends, watching a old show or movie (when's the last time you watched Riptide?) or spending time with my daughter when she's visiting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmmm... I could say something here and give it away but since I want to meet others, maybe you should ask me in a message?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like guys that are caring, sensitive, intelligent but not "Big Bang Theory" intelligent.

A message is great because you get to ask me a question that's not on here. We're not all pegs that can go into holes that are put here by OKCupid.