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kenders5

42 / F / bisexual / Available

Tooele, Utah

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You are the best friend I have had in years. Thank you so very much for being there for me. Even when I am a little nuts, lol. read more

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am strong, insightful, and intense.

My Self-Summary

Disregard my chronological age I do. Most of my best friends and lovers are in their mid to late twenties and they can't keep up with me. I am a bi-sexual woman in a fully functional polyamorous relationship and have been for over three years. I am looking for others to talk to and hang out with that are open minded about this type of life choice. We are not adverse to expanding our family, but we are not worried about doing so either. Honesty is the most important character trait in anyone I deal with. Well, that was the serious stuff. On the lighter side, Camping and the outdoors grounds me. I am not a prissy girl. I like to look nice, but don't obsess over it. If I am camping I backpack in and make-up will not touch my face the whole time I am there. But I enjoy getting waxed, doing my nails, or hair, things like that then going out to a posh event. I am extremely outgoing and a people person. I love to play Frisbee, volleyball and hike. I love to throw game playing parties with unique interaction games such as party, quirks, funny bones or greased twister. I try to do this at least once month. Also check out the two wonderful men I live with Gemiknight smallguy2002

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What I’m doing with my life

I have been a professional photographer for almost 20 years. I. I left the company I worked for for 15 of those years two years ago. Now I have my own part-time business shooting portraits and do landscape and artistic photos in my spare time. The other end of my career is as a traveling sales girl actually a territory sales rep that travels from central Utah as far south as Mesquite, Nevada and through most of the canyon lands areas. I leave out of town for 4-5 days every other week. sometimes with a short overnight trip once in a while. It keeps me busy but the $ definitely make it worth it. Especially with the company paying for my gas. It's as nice as being your own boss yet having the benefit of having someone else foot the bills. So I think I will do this for a little while more.

As a side note. I like throwing virtual sheep. Actually I like all the little on screen sheep that bounce around my computer. I think they are cute and funny. I throw sheep so much that I am pretty sure they think they can fly now hehehehe

I’m really good at

I am a jack-of-all-trades type person. I have a lot of talents and skills. My best trait I feel is being able to adapt to any situation and pick up any skill I need to accomplish my goals.

The first things people usually notice about me

I would like to say it is my eyes, but lets face it when you have 38 DDD breasts no one notices your eyes. Oh but if you chat with me either by email or im (which is a super rare thing) you will notice I never use the term lol. I am a hehehe girl all the way. The more hehehe's I give the more I liked your comment.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I am an avid reader. Fantasy is my favorite genre. Right now I am reading Laurell K. Hamiltons Anita Blake Books. Atlas Shrugged is my favorite of all time. A Night in the Lonesome October by Roger Zelazsny is next and The Kushiel series by Jacqueline Carey. Face it its just easier to say authors. Eddings, Gemmel, Heinlein, Green, King, Weber, Salvatore, Bishop,just to name a few off the top of my head. The first section I read on anyones profile is the types of books they read. Most of the time if we have high match numbers I will have read at least 1/2 the books on your list. Its an excellent place for me to start a conversation. So don't let my limited list here I love all types of music and like to go to the movies at least once a week. I enjoy sumptuous and tasty foods.

The six things I could never do without

Sex, Books, intelligent conversation, intense passion, soaking in a hot bath, family.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How to be the best person I can be,sex, how to inspire others, sex, creating certain images, sex, understanding the world, sex, stupid puns especially about sex hehehehe

On a typical Friday night I am

Going to a movie with my family or friends then going out dancing. Sometimes hosting a party or plotting a sexual adventure with or for a friend

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I like the smell of a woman's hair and the taste of her lips. I love the feel of am man's strong thighs and like to have him whisper in my ear just before he bites me on the neck.

You should message me if

Artist of any type.You are honest, intelligent, open minded, interested in something more than just a casual fling, want a deep friendship with possible benefits, like to explore who you are and what you enjoy. And best of all if you like to play games and don't care if you act silly sometimes.