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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 39-47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:42am
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm looking for long-term and pretty darn serious about it :) -- I hope that comes as music to your ears. Sure, i can be great fun in the short run, but ideally a life partner in crime is what I'm after. The ideal match for me is someone who's got a focus in life because I do and I live actively and out loud. Just know I really don't care what that is, so if you're passionate about the direction you're headed and committed to growing intellectually and spiritually, AND you really take care of yourself, then that's what matters to me.

As for me, I'm Funny, fun, warm, outgoing, and ultra-friendly - really. Don't doubt it for a moment. If I watch it's usually a documentary and if i read it's probably non-fiction. I have passions. Cycling, gardening/permaculture, photography, hiking, camping, and live music. With a new puppy I'm devoting more time to running. I just can't help but love the Bern. I'm by nature extremely social and while I'm always happy to be a part of a larger group, I'm better at the small and intimate.

Some interesting things to know:

I spent my school years in western and northern new england
I spent my professional years in NYC and brought my job with me to AVL - i work from home
I moved here on August, 1st 2014 and just bought my first house in May. I'm here for good and I can't imagine ever wanting to leave this area
I just adopted a rescued puppy and I adore her more than just about anything ever anywhere anytime
My passport is filled with stamps and I've been to Machu Picchu 4 separate times
I cycle, I run, i work out and next year I kayak... maybe even get me a mountain bike- just not enough hours in the week
I love living outside of my comfort zone, as comforting as that may seem. So explore new territory I will always.
I've entered the Amazon through five different countries
I am a huge fan of Richard Dawkins, Lawrence Krauss, Sam Harris, Christopher Hitchens, and Bill Maher. This could be extremely important to anyone who appreciates organized religion. If you do and don't know these people, just google them. I'm probably not your guy
I drive an electric car
... and I kick ass in scrabble
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've owned and run my own legal recruiting firm for 13+ years. It's amazing for freedom and lifestyle. I actually really love what I do and know this is where I'll be until the end of days.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people feel important, brining them together, and just sending positive energy
The first things people usually notice about me
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good energy, passionate but grounded style, my laughter, and bright light blue eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books -- lots of non-fiction. reading and re-reading the bible on permaculture.

Music -- Jamband and funk are what I brought down with me. I'm learning to love the hybrids down here. Bluegrass is starting to grab hold. . Phish, Dead, Gov't Mule, WSP, Galactic, Soulive, Lettuce, Railroad Earth, Deep Banana Blackout, Turkuaz, Phil, Bob, etc. And jazz. Can never go wrong with Jazz.

TV? I don't think talking about this makes anyone happier.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Bicycle, 2. Backpack & Passport, 2. Guitar, 3. Camera, 4. Kindle
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My new home and will I really get a puppy?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I've never been overly routine, but to be honest, I always seem to find myself at the One Stop for Free Dead Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I used to feed squirrels from my shoulder
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you have a true identity, you're curious by nature, you like staying fit, you're generally open minded and you accept and enjoy people for who they are, faults and all.