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28 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:01am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Someone one told me that, to him, I was "the most extroverted introvert" he knew. Make of that what you will.

By day, I am a news assistant for a print newspaper. By night, however, I run a film-review website and write film criticism generally. On nights and weekends, I am a rabid arts and culture consumer. Movies, theater, live music—you name it, I'm interested in it.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm plotting my next move while I find enjoyment and illumination, cultural or otherwise, on the side.
I’m really good at
Reading, writing, watching, listening, meeting new people, thinking, reflecting, yearning
The first things people usually notice about me
These days, it's my facial hair. Otherwise: my passion for art and life...and that I'm a bit of an "old soul" at heart, or so I'd like to think.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Since I'm constantly exploring and discovering new things in all those areas, I'm just going to list recent favorites.

Most recent film I've seen that I loved: Richard Linklater's "Boyhood." Believe the hype; it's remarkable. (My favorite film ever, for those who were curious: Jacques Tati's "Playtime" (1967).)

Most recent book I've read that I loved: James Agee's "Agee on Film." Apparently I have a new favorite film critic now.

Most recent music I've heard that I loved: Apparently, among a fair amount of my friends, Pink Floyd is no longer considered "cool" or even "good"…but I recently revisited "Dark Side of the Moon," and I still think it's pretty awesome. I'm also a pretty big classical-music buff: Nikolai Rimsky-Korsakov's "Scheherazade" has become a recent obsession of mine.

Oh, and while I'm not a super foodie or anything, I recently tried the ramen burger for the first time and…well, I have to say, the combination of two of my favorite foods, plus that delectable shoyu ramen sauce, made for a combination that satisfied my palate just fine.
The six things I could never do without
Friends and family
My senses (for being able to experience things to the fullest)
My Film Forum membership

Oh, you're asking for six, OKCupid?

My brain? Because, like, I need that to live? Yeah, let's go with that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, love and art
My career
How to better myself
On a typical Friday night I am
Out and about, devouring what culture there is to devour, making personal connections, and so on
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Since everyone I see on this site seems to love that NPR show "Radiolab," I might as well admit that I've always found its ADD style fairly irritating. Sorry if that's a deal-breaker for some of you.

I also have a soft spot for Coldplay.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Wait, women actually send initial messages to men on OKCupid? Doesn't that go against, like, social customs or something? Then why bother filling this section out in the first place?

So I won't. I suppose you'll know by the end of this profile if you're interested or not.