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  • Ages 25-35
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5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Someone one told me that, to him, I was "the most extroverted introvert" he knew. Make of that what you will.

Deputy editor for a film website, freelance film critic/editor, overall energetic arts and culture consumer.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm plotting my next move while I find enjoyment and illumination, cultural or otherwise, on the side.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading, writing, watching, listening, meeting new people, thinking, reflecting, yearning
The first things people usually notice about me
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My passion for art and life...and that I'm a bit of an "old soul" at heart, or so I'd like to think.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Since I'm constantly exploring and discovering new things in all those areas, I'm just going to list recent favorites.

Most recent film I've seen that I loved: "Magic Mike XXL" (I think it's one of the best films of the year, and I'm legitimately serious about this). Also, I see a fair amount of old movies in theaters; my most recent discovery: Jacques Rivette's eight-part, 12.5-hour "Out 1" (1971). (P.S. I just recently saw "Showgirls" for the first time and...well, I guess you can count me as part of the cult thinking that that movie seriously, well, doesn't suck.)

I don't watch much television these days, but I did enjoy catching up with "Broad City" recently. Also, I'm very excited about the upcoming new episodes of "The X-Files."

Most recent book I've read that I loved: Doris Lessing's "The Golden Notebook."

Most recent music I've heard that I loved: John Coltrane's "A Love Supreme." I'm also a pretty big classical-music buff: I've been obsessed with Mussorgsky's "Pictures at an Exhibition" lately. (Bonus points for anyone with a taste for Chinese pop music. Any Faye Wong or Anita Mui fans out there?)

Most recent play I saw that I loved: Rodgers & Hammerstein's "The King and I." And if you count operas: I recently saw Wagner's "Tannhäuser" at the Metropolitan Opera and quite liked that, too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends and family
My senses (for being able to experience things to the fullest)
My Film Forum membership

Oh, you're asking for six, OKCupid?

My brain? Because, like, I need that to live? Yeah, let's go with that.

Also: record stores. Oh wait, that's seven, isn't it? As the cool kids says these days, #sorrynotsorry.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, love and art
My career
How to better myself
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about, devouring what culture there is to devour, making personal connections, and so on
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm probably one of the few people on Earth who doesn't really care for Radiolab. Sorry if that's a deal-breaker for you.
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