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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:32pm
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Italian (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello, Internet.

I tend to overthink this summary thing (as I tend to do with most things). I want to come across as cool and interesting, well-travelled and adventurous, intelligent and funny, but modest and not douchey. That said, I'll just stick with the basics. We can chat about anything you want in person.

Born and raised in Boston. Did a short stint in NYC. Now working my dream job for the coolest, most innovative company out there.

I love roadtrips, live music (rock shows & the symphony), reading, traveling, and spontaneous adventures.

Pretty much everything is on my bucket list, so I'm looking for a partner in crime that's up for anything and everything.

Adventure is out there!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Changing the world and challenging the status quo..
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Recommending new music

Making pasta sauce

Quoting Aressted Development... like, way too much

Putting the toilet seat down

Singing terribly

Sarcasm, wit, and snarkiness

Efficiently exploring a new city / traveling
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is that I'm impossibly good-looking.. That's just my guess though ;) You'll have to ask other people
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite book: Breakfast of Champions.. I've also been reading a lot of behavioral science books lately. I find that kind of stuff pretty interesting.

Favorite movies: Machete (1 & 2), Sin City (1 & 2) The Science of Sleep, Inception, Eternal Sunshine, Her, Zoolander, etc.

Favorite shows: Arrested Development, Scrubs, Chuck, New Girl, Game of Thrones, Daily Show, Seinfeld

Favorite music: Lovedrug, Silversun Pickups, The Dear Hunter, Brand New, Phantogram, Cold War Kids, Night Terrors of 1927, Sleeping At Last, etc.

Favorite food: Chicken Parmesan
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
in no particular order:

1: Really good speakers / headphones
2: Music
3: Sunshine
4: Chicken Parmesan
5: Fun
6: Adventures
7: Imagination
8: Purpose
9: Bending the rules
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
everything.. all the time.. but specifically:

Do dogs think about the advancement of their species?

Why people say they "could care less" when they really mean that they "couldn't care less".. and other misused sayings..

The inefficacy of a broken two party political system..

What I'm gonna eat later...

What technology / society will look like in the relatively near future...

How to tip the scale that is work / life balance more heavily towards life (okc is something I'm trying out in this regard).

How humanity has progressed so far in some areas but not at all in others.

How to extend my next work trip to ensure exploration time.

You know, those kinds of things..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing the same thing I do every night... trying to take over the world..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ostriches freak me out.. Also E.T.
You should message me if
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you'd prefer not to spend too much time messaging on here and would rather converse over a drink or two (or preferably doing something a little more creative).. also if:

you're awesome.
you're passionate.
you're not so worried about what other people think.
you're an optimistic cynic.. or a cynical optimist..
you're genuine, have integrity, and conviction.

you noticed and appreciated that I said ‘you're’ and not ‘your’ in the above sentences.