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  • Ages 23–32
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Last online
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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)
My self-summary
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Back in South Jersey after several years of travel, study, and teaching in Asia. Will be taking some computer science classes at Stockton through December.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Graduated from Rowan University with an engineering degree, then worked as an engineer / programmer for two and a half years. Followed by 16 months of traveling through China and Southeast Asia.

After a visit home to New Jersey, went to Chongqing, China to teach English for three months. Spent that summer on the Tibetan Plateau in western Sichuan, Qinghai and other Tibetan areas, then went east to Qingdao and Beijing, with a few stops along the way. Hung around Beijing for three months, mostly just being lazy in an old hutong neighborhood. Went from freezing Beijing to the warm Yucatan peninsula for a couple weeks, then back to New Jersey until moving to Taipei for a year to study Mandarin Chinese.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
long walks, geography, packing lightly, traveling inexpensively
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm fairly quiet. I try to talk more to avoid this first impression, but it remains!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: history, travelogues. I have a bad habit of starting books from the middle and then reading random chapters. The last three are Oracle Bones: A Journey Through Time in China, Chinese Lessons: Five Classmates and the Story of the New China, and China's Last Empire: The Great Qing.

movies: Back to the Future, Star Wars, Shawshank Redemption, Kung Fu Hustle, M, The Great Dictator

tv: Amazing Race, Parks and Recreation, Community, Breaking Bad, Anthony Bourdain: No Reservations

music: Radiohead, Pearl Jam, Foo Fighters, Nirvana, The Who, Crosby Stills Nash and Young, The Beatles, Simon and Garfunkel, Cream, Sonic Youth, Beck, Coldplay, Audioslave, Jack White, TV on the Radio, The Black Keys, Blink-182, Polaris

food: pretzels, ham and swiss cheese sandwich on rye, char kway teow, pad thai, roti canai, döner kebabs, 羊肉串, 紅豆餅
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. the world wide web
2. a supply of decent cheese and bread (hard to find in China)
3. glasses (I'm fairly nearsighted, though I waited until junior year of high school to correct that problem)
4. pillow (need that neck support!)
5. passport
6. running water, warm if the air's chilly.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'll be doing for a living a few years from now. I'd like to work in China / Hong Kong / Taiwan for awhile, so I think about what I can do there (besides teaching English).

I also think a lot about travel, and when I can finally visit Nepal and India.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either on the computer or wandering the streets. Favorite streets to wander, you ask? Probably in Hong Kong, especially Mong Kok/Yau Ma Tai/Jordan/Sham Shui Po, or Beijing's hutongs for a more relaxing stroll.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have only three lower incisors. Needed room for those braces to move some teeth around!
You should message me if
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- You enjoy street food more than fancy restaurants.
- You have no fashion sense.
- You occasionally like to go for long walks or bike rides around town.
- You like looking at maps and planning trips.