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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28-43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 3, 2013
5' 11" (1.81m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
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I like to think of myself as a down to earth intellectual, professional guy, who is looking to meet new people. I am not really into the "scene" and would like to meet like minded guys. I would rather spend a night in with a good movie and a glass of wine than go out to a club or bar, although its fun occasionally.
What I’m doing with my life
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I tend to be a work-a-holic, but I also enjoy traveling and spending time with great friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and objectively helping someone to make a decision.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The first thing people usually notice about me is the color of my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: neo-soul, r&b, jazz, gospel, top 40, alternative,

Tv: Real Housewives (I know but I love them), the news, meet the browns, house of Payne

Movies: the devil wears Prada, Harlem nights, the help, the color purple,

Food: steak, seafood, Italian food

Drinks: grey goose, sweet tea, water, sprite, coffee, khalua, wine
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My mother
My father
My family
My friends
My sanity
Good food!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about whether I will actually find true love one day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually out with my friends having dinner and maybe a couple of drinks. Then I'm usually back at home either working or in front of the TV.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Maybe I'll share when I get to know you.
You should message me if
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You genuinely want to meet a nice guy who is not all about sex, but who really wants to meet a special someone and build something from the ground up, starting with building a great foundation (friendship).