I’m a healthy & active native Tulsan; my workout covers about 8.5 miles almost every day. I’m an easy going, goal & family oriented creative, problem solving entrepreneur. I love foreign currency trading, real estate investing, redecorating, remodeling, & doing rehabs for fun & profit. I enjoy landscaping, plants, gardening, water gardening, fish & reef keeping. I like cooking for myself & others, as well as to entertain at home. I try to live a good life & would like to find a special lady to share it with. Additionally I would like to be her advocate, helpmate & personal concierge to help her achieve her best and vice versa. I’m not into the bar & club scene, but do enjoy music & could be motivated to teach my two left feet to dance.
I am sometimes spontaneous & impulsive, following my heart. I also enjoy the occasional adventure of taking the road less travelled, as well as thinking & living “outside the box”. I am a dreamer preferring to be more brain than brawn. I am a very empathetic listener, and feel things deeply. I’m intense, passionate, confidant, ambitious, persistent, focused & tenacious in my pursuits, but also generous & big hearted. I am honest, loyal & faithful, positive & optimistic, & try to be funny to keep you laughing & smiling. I’m a romantic, chivalrous gentleman with mensch like qualities. It is my pleasure to give pleasure. But do not take my word for it; get to know me and decide for yourself.
The following not only describes the attributes I am seeking, but qualities I would love to bestow on you. You would be health conscious, my best friend, confidante, advisor, partner & lover. You are loving, affectionate, appreciative, nurturing, & supportive. You want to share dreams, time, places & life together, as well as be the center of my world. You like an affectionate touch, like to laugh, like to receive loving caresses, enjoy relaxing, sensual massages, knowing kisses, & the heartfelt embrace of a great hug. You are not only comfortable with, but thrive on being totally intimate, mentally, emotionally, & physically. You have the capacity to trust & be nonjudgmental, so there is no hesitation to hear & share your thoughts & feelings. You can speak your mind when something is bothering you, not letting it eat at & consume you. You believe in & can show appreciation & praise for your life partner. You understand & “get them” & what they are about to the point you feel completed by each other, not suffocated or controlled.
You have the ability to give passionate love that burns with an intensity you can feel. You like being caressed to sleep. You like the peace of mind of knowing the love of your life is always there for you. You feel incredible serenity as you gaze at his smiling face as he sleeps. You get a spiritual recharging just being in their aura, sleeping together in a protective embrace. You feel the love as you see your lover’s awakening smile that tells you that you are cherished. If the chemistry is there, you enjoy making love slowly to cement the spiritual & psychic bond with a passion & intensity of release that makes your heart of hearts sing.
There is no greater gift than to love & be loved. I’m looking for my loving lady to share dreams, goals & love to build a new life together. Is that you?
Thank you for reading my essay, I look forward to your reply