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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:03pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm kinda curious about what my "counterparts" are saying about themselves. I'm pretty sure there are a lot of shirtless bathroom pics and Affliction wearers among them based on the profiles you have been writing. I imagine there is a fair bit of embedded bragging and references to amazing riches (and tiger photos. LOTS of tiger photos...). Ultimately, I'm hoping that those gentlemen are attracting the types of ladies that are attracted to that sort of thing, I'm looking for someone different...

I really wish I could ask someone to write about me because it's hard to know how others perceive you. Unfortunately if I asked my mom she would give a very biased opinion of her favorite, handsome, intelligent, successful, adventurous son. If I asked my friends they would certainly enjoy making a gigantic mockery out of the whole thing because they know that I couldn't help myself given the same opportunity. If I asked my coworkers, I imagine that they would describe the more conservative side of me that is very professional with a tiny bit of my sarcastic side peaking out here and there. If you asked any pet that I have come across I think they would enthusiastically endorse my willingness to pet them or play catch with them. So I guess you are stuck with me writing this about me section.

I would say the most important thing that you should know about me is that I am very close to my mom. She is a more reserved person, introspective, and very attentive, you can't get much past her! I think that those traits are ones that I share with her. I think it's important to note that that is how I act more with people I don't know or have yet to know. Once you know me, I tend to surprise people. I find that many people try very hard to pin someone down as being this type or that type and I resist those types of prejudices as much as possible. I think it is fair to say that I am somewhat of a chameleon. For example, I was in a fraternity in college (this always tends to cause a lot of conclusion-jumping), but I was also on the governing council of the school (a school of 30,000). So I can fit in with a bunch of social, rambunctious types or I can get along with the motivated go-getter types... and just about anything in between.

I have traveled a lot and plan to do a lot more throughout my life. I started practicing yoga just over a year ago, it has been a great experience and I'd love a companion to get me going more than just once or twice a week. In addition to yoga, I enjoy lots of other ways to stay fit like hiking, running and hitting the gym. I'm learning to golf and struggling mightily with not being very good, I'm applying my yogi mindset to it and practicing non-judgement though...Namaste, Kevin, Namaste... I like to learn a lot and I tend to be good at most anything requiring book smarts. I suppose you could say I am nerdy because I think finance is incredibly interesting as well as virtually any other topic besides whatever is necessary to keep up with the Kardashians..

As far as that special lady... Well, I think she would be maybe a little bit more on the outgoing side, but not quite the social butterfly. Being a professional would be a good start. Being fit and trying to make good decisions with food would be helpful for my mostly excellent willpower (wine tends to cause some problems in this area...). Someone who has experienced some travel or would like a reasonably experienced guide to get lost in a foreign country with.. I could probably list more things, but invariably, there is no "perfect". Just perfect for me. I've never met her, so I'm hoping that I'll know it when I meet her.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
aside from the standard answers, I'd say that I'm on a continual quest from knowledge and understanding of anything and everything.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
anything requiring athleticism, fitness, and/or strategerie. If you don't like to lose you should avoid playing board games with me. ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It depends on the person. So I imagine the answer to this question can be quite different based on the assumed audience. For online dating purposes, probably that I'm quite young looking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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TV: Seinfeld, Curb Your Enthusiasm, LOST, Breaking Bad, The Wire. I don't have cable.

MUSIC: The Black Keys, Ghostland Observatory, Miike Snow, Led Zeppelin, Outkast, 311, Incubus, Kanye West, Jay Z, Kid Cudi, Chromeo, The White Stripes, Guster, Foo Fighters, Deadmau5, SHM, RATM, RHCP, Pearl Jam, Passion Pit, Jack Johnson this list could go on forever...

BOOKS/PLAYS: anything by William Shakespeare, Lord of the Flies, Don Quixote, Robinson Crusoe, 1984, 3 Musketeers, Man's Search for Meaning, David Copperfield, Count of Monte Cristo, Dracula, Frankenstein, Margin of Safety, Lolita, Catch 22, Siddartha, Steppenwolf, Jitterbug Perfume, Roots, this list also could go on forever...

Fave Authors: Palahniuk, Dickens, Robbins, Hesse, Steinbeck. My favorite book is The Sound and The Fury by William Faulkner.

MOVIES: The Big Lebowski, Old School, American Beauty, Fight Club, Memento, Good Will Hunting, Grandma's Boy, Tommy Boy, Zoolander, Usual Suspects, Cool Hand Luke, Bobby, V for Vendetta, The Matrix, Casablanca, The Maltese Falcon, Rear Window, Road Trip, Super Troopers, Pulp Fiction, Dumb and Dumber.. and more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Is this in the survival sense of the word? or the most important things for day-to-day life?? Either way, I'd probably have to say a smart phone...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
down for whatever.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think this is a trick question. If I admit something private, it's no longer private. But what am I "willing" to admit? So what is the most private thing I am willing to make public???

I spend more time on netflix trying to choose what I want to watch than I do watching things on netflix..
You should message me if
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If something I said in my profile resonates with you. If you don't expect the most amazing message exchanges ever, I mean, isn't a date the point of this??