27 Woodbridge, VA
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My self-summary
So I'm Seth, and it's a pleasure to meet you! I'd like to think I'm a pretty bubbly person once you get to know me, so feel free to say hi, I make an effort to reply.

What to say in these things... I'm honestly never really sure, suffice to say that I want to cover the really generic crap that I'm pretty sure gets a mention in a few other places anyway. I'm a pretty open book about most stuff, so instead of bothering to put a bunch of information together and make a long profile that always seems a little too constructed and artificial to me, I'm opting to pose an invite: just ask, I can almost guarantee you'll get a response.

I've been with my partner for over four years now, he's everything I could ask for and I don't see that changing anytime soon. As a friend, however, I'm definitely your man, catch me at a good time and I'm a lot of fun to talk to, or so I've been told.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm living in Woodbridge, just living the domestic life and working. I'm mostly a homebody these days, but enjoy the occasional get together with friends, and I'm always looking for more of those!
I’m really good at
I'm great at keeping my head in stressful situations, and thinking critically, I love politics and stay relatively well-informed with regard to it, and I have my moments with interior design, haha. I'm told I'm a really good listener and give killer advice, and my hugs fucking rock.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm told it's my gait, apparently I can be picked out from 50 ft. in the dark because my walk is somewhat... swishy.

Beyond that my eyes really stand out with contacts in, they're a striking blue. Conversation-wise it's usually my friendly but a little blunt manner, I don't mince words, but I try to be nice at the same time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm not much of one for picking favorites, I like to give everything a try, but that being said I like dramas and things that are character-driven as far as movies and television, I like my books to be interesting and political and preferably about the Middle East (currently reading "The Shia Revival"), I listen to just about anything (although rap doesn't really strike my fancy, and I freaking love Lady Gaga), and I love Asian and Latin American foods (especially things that keep a lot of the same flavors but present them in non-traditional ways, with different consistencies or textures).

If I HAD to make a list though, here it is:
Book: 1984 (probably my favorite book)

Movie: Inception is one of my most recent current favorites, it reminded me a lot of Memento, which is also on the list

Music: Been listening to Green Day's 21st Century Breakdown a fair bit lately, but Lady Gaga's my favorite for pop, and Tchaikovsky is my favorite composer
The six things I could never do without
1) The man, he's my rock, no lie, and I don't know what I'd do without him to talk to.

2) The Internet, it's a wondrous resource, and probably the main reason I seem to get so little done half of the time.

3) A good loofa, the things are nice, and you really don't know the value of a good one until you're stuck with an old one that's starting to come a part a bit.

4) My wardrobe, because without it I'd be naked! Truthfully, you can tell a fair bit about a person by what they wear, I think, and that's not to sound pretentious or whatnot, but rather to say what a person wears reflects what they see themselves as and what they want to be.

5) Something fuzzy, when you're having a rough day, there's really nothing like something soft to just be in contact with, whether it's a dog or a comfy blanket, it's really a soothing sensation.

6) The other great tool for bouncing back in my life, humor's been a great way to make light of stressful situations, and while it's not always appropriate, few things are pretty than really dark humor for bonding.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
To be honest, I like knowing things, and knowing in general, and as a result, I spend a lot of time thinking about what's going on between people I know at any given time, and the other major occupier of my thoughts is, without a doubt, my significant other.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing one of two things: hanging out with friends in a small social-gathering like setting, usually watching something funny, chatting, having a drink or two, or spending time with the man, be it out and about or in at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've given this one a lot of thought, and anything I think of falls either in the category of "too boring and not private enough" or "too private and not going up on this profile." Honestly, you're also welcome to just ask, because I'm a pretty open book, and if it's not really something I want to share, I promise I'll politely say so, there's really no harm!
You should message me if
If you think I'm an awesome person (which I think I am, although I suppose you're entitled to your opinion, too), and want to get to know me better!