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35 M Mebane, NC

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:05pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm a nice, mature, respectful, independent, laid back, fun loving guy who loves nature and loves being a homebody. I also love many forms of art and have a silly sense of humor. I'm passionate about my thoughts and feelings and I'm a perfectionist too, always striving to give my best in everything I do. Every time I have taken the Myers-Briggs Type assessment, I always score INFP.

I am looking for conversation and getting to know anyone who has a good heart, who treats others the way they want to be treated, who thinks rationally, who is passionate about thoughts and feelings, who has a good sense of humor, who is honest and dependable, who is intelligent and open-minded, who is adventurous and enthusiastic about other cultures, and who is compassionate and sensitive. All of these traits I believe make a person strong, captivating, and beautiful. I find nerdy type guys to be really cute and hot.

For the longest time, I was known as a meek person. Over time I have become better at voicing my feelings and opinions. Now I have no problem with calling people out on their bullshit and standing up for myself when I need to. I have zero tolerance for fake, rude, pushy, ignorant, arrogant, know-it-all type personalities. If you get off on being a two-faced backstabber or if you constantly talk over or talk down to people in an attempt to make them feel stupid or inferior to you, I have no time or patience to deal with you in any capacity.
What I’m doing with my life
Constantly trying to evolve and improve into a better version of me.
I’m really good at
. . . spending an hour or two at the grocery store reading food labels. Yeah, I'm such a nerd, I know, but I'm obsessed with finding healthy foods to cook.

. . . parking inside my own parking space; people who don't do so grate on my nerves. If you're not driving a semi, you have no excuse for double parking. Please show consideration to others.

. . . keeping secrets. I'm told I am easy to talk to and I'm a great listener.

. . . being mistaken for a twenty-something or even a college student at times. I guess I can contribute that to obtaining my mom's good genes and to making good decisions and taking care of myself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV: Once Upon A Time (my favorite!), The Blacklist, NCIS, Falling Skies, Dexter, Homeland, Haven, American Horror Story, Arrow, Elementary, Psych, Parks and Recreation, Royal Pains, New Girl, The Mentalist, Boss, House of Cards, Workaholics, The Mindy Project, The League, House of Lies, The Vampire Diaries, True Blood, Switched at Birth, The Walking Dead, Ghost Adventures, White Collar, Bones, Spartacus, Awkward, Shameless, The Real Housewives of New Jersey, Atlanta, and Orange County, etc.
Past: Dawson's Creek, Pushing Daisies, Wonderfalls, Dead Like Me, Six Feet Under, Will & Grace, ER, Dirty Jobs with Mike Rowe, etc.

Movies: American Beauty, Across the Universe, Anywhere But Here, A Single Man, 500 Days of Summer, Juno, Ghost World, Beetlejuice, Paper Man, The Family Stone, Takers, The Phantom of the Opera, Brokeback Mountain, Into the Wild, Paper Heart, Office Space, Amelie, Insidious, Jumping the Broom, Black Swan, Nowhere Boy, Trick, Soldier's Girl, Mermaid, Dangerous Minds, Election, Walk The Line, Magnolia, Superbad, Flatliners, Misery, Romeo + Juliet, Requiem for a Dream, Prime, 200 Cigarettes, Pieces of April, Broken Hearts Club, Life As A House, The Help, Big Eden, Something Borrowed, Laurel Canyon, Teen Witch, X-Men First Class, The Hand That Rocks The Cradle, etc.

Music: Fiona Apple, Toad the Wet Sprocket, Live/Ed Kowalczyk, Adele, Drake, Incubus, Alien Ant Farm, Angus & Julia Stone, PJ Harvey, Tina Turner, Janet Jackson, Ne-Yo, Mary J. Blige, Dawn Richard, Melanie Fiona, Missy Elliott, Tracy Chapman, Three Days Grace, J. Cole, Ra Ra Riot, Lady Antebellum, Breaking Benjamin, Neil Young, Aimee Mann, Chris Brown, Staind, Avenged Sevenfold, Trey Songz, Rihanna, Sade, The Cranberries, Lupe Fiasco, Sufjan Stevens, Reba McEntire, Bruce Springsteen, Nine Inch Nails, Radiohead, Korn, Mandy Moore, Sarah McLachlan, Lisa Gerrard, Ed Sheeran, Enigma, Annie Lennox, Dixie Chicks, Rilo Kiley, Alicia Keys, Bright Eyes, Beyonce, Kelly Rowland, Rufus Wainwright, Nina Simone, Aaliyah, Cher, Madonna, Britney Spears, Barbra Streisand, Mandy Patinkin, Judy Garland, Joan Armatrading, Taylor Swift, Luke Bryan, Brantley Gilbert, Carrie Underwood, Hunter Hayes, The Band Perry, Dierks Bentley, Billy Currington, Chris Young, Easton Corbin, Kacey Musgraves, Jana Kramer, Phillip Phillips, Dustin Lynch, Brett Eldredge, Thomas Rhett, Kip Moore, Blake Shelton, The Lumineers, Maroon 5, Martina McBride, Gary Allan, Miranda Lambert, Charlie Worsham, Justin Rivers, The Farm Inc., Jason Mraz, Diamond Rings, Jay Brannan, etc.

Books: Catcher in the Rye, To Kill A Mockingbird, Janet Jackson's True You: A Journey To Finding and Loving Yourself, Dark World by Zak Bagans, Most Talkative by Andy Cohen, Official Book Club Selection: A Memoir According to Kathy Griffin, etc.
The six things I could never do without
media (music, tv/movies, books)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
. . . what I would love to do once I can retire (travel around the world, specifically Switzerland, Italy, Spain, Austrailia, and Canada, among other places).

. . . the kind of person I would love to spend the rest of my life with. Ideally, the love of my life and my best friend would be the same person.
On a typical Friday night I am
. . . cooking, eating out with a friend, listening to music, watching a movie, or catching up on favorite tv shows missed during the work week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really don't have any huge secrets, skeletons in my closet, or unbearable baggage to deal with. I manage to stay drama free and I like my life that way.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 26–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
. . . you find me interesting and would like to get to know me as a potential friend.