I am married and we are in an open relationship. We are both currently seeing other people, committed to each other, and practicing ethical non-monogamy (i.e., there is consent between us and no cheating). We both came to the conclusion that long-term monogamy was not going to ultimately work for us. However, we saw this not as a reason to end our relationship and have chosen a different path. My wife has a steady boyfriend and is not into the whole OKC thing (they met the old-fashioned way, in real time) so no profile to link to for those who ask. I also have a steady girlfriend whom I see weekly.
During the past year I have discovered that I am polyamorus in nature, so I feel comfortable in seeking out and participating in multiple relationships, no matter how they manifest (e.g., sexual, romantic, friendship, play partners, etc.). To clarify this, see the 'You should message me if" section.
I want this to be known early on in my profile so those looking can make an informed choice. If this does not work for you, I wish you luck and happiness in your search. If it does, feel free to continue.
I've been on OKC for about a year now. I've taken a recent break, but feel ready to re-engage with the dating world and see if there are any other poly (or open minded) people out there who are seeking a similar situation. And, yes, I do have time in my schedule despite how busy I may appear in my profile!