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36 San Jose, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Dec 25, 2014
Asian, White
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm definitely more of an introvert than an extrovert, even though I do a lot of things with my Fraternity (more about that later) that would lead most people to believe the opposite. I do enjoy doing things like hiking and biking, but I am very happy with also just staying in, watching some TV/Movies, and just relaxing. I love taking photos because to me they're moments in time that will never happen again. I may appear shy at first, but once you get to know me I'm definitely more comfortable talking with someone.

I grew up in the Bay Area and have lived here my entire life. I don't travel very often and I am definitely more comfortable in my area, but I don't mind going exploring, as long as I have my camera with me. I absolutely love California and can't see myself going anywhere else...except maybe Hawaii.

My only real life goal is to be happy, because whenever I take time to think about what's really important in life, it's never money or possessions that come up first in mind. I'm a simple guy with simple needs, as long as I have a roof over my head and food in my stomach, I can make the best out of whatever situation I'm in.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am the Assistant Manager of the Print Shop at a local University, and I've been there for over 13 years now. I'm also involved in my Fraternity as an alumnus; before you judge me for that, it's a co-ed National Service Fraternity where our main focus is providing community service to our campuses, communities, and nation. This is part of the reason that I've been part of my Fraternity for almost 10 years now, the work that we as a group can do is very important to me, and I love giving back to the community. Other than that, most days I enjoy just relaxing, playing video games, and taking some pictures.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sleeping, relaxing, sarcasm, photography, and just having an overall good sense of humor.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Well, I'm 1/2 Asian & 1/2 Caucasian, so people tend to notice that I don't quite look like any particular race.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Harry Potter, Hunger Games, Clan of the Cave Bear, Ender's Game. I don't read as often as I should, so if you have any ideas for a good book feel free to let me know, my kindle has a lot of room!

Movies: Star Trek (TOS, TNG, & the reboot) Harry Potter, Hunger Games, Flubber (I was in the movie!) I like comedies, drama, Sci Fi, all just depends on my mood. When I go to movies I like to go to be entertained, so I don't mind going to see something stupid if it's entertaining. =)

Shows: I'm a huge Star Trek nerd and I love Sci Fi shows. Some of my current favorite shows are Fringe, Doctor Who, Futurama, Community, & Modern Family. I also enjoy Psych, Burn Notice, and many other shows on USA. I absolutely hate "reality" shows though

Music: I listen mostly to adult contemporary because that's what we have playing at work, but my current favorite artist is Colbie Caillat. I love good music, and I enjoy just being able to close my eyes and absorb the sound around me.

Food: I'm not a big foodie, I eat to live, not live to eat. My two favorite foods though are clam chowder in a bread bowl & fettuccine alfredo. I'll try anything at least once, but am much more comfortable eating food that I've already had before. And my guilty fast food pleasure is Taco Bell! :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My camera
2) Internet
3) Pandas
4) Laptop
5) Cell Phone
6) Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why we're here, and what is the purpose of life. I don't often think about the future because I like to think that what happens, happens. I also love to look up in the night sky and just think about how small we all really are in comparison to the universe, which makes me wonder why people can't just get along.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing video games, watching TV, or just plain ol' relaxing. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like pandas a lot. I'm not sure how it started, but I have over 150 stuffed pandas in my apartment.
You should message me if
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You think that I'd be interesting to talk to. I'll be honest that I'm not too sure about this whole thing, but I'm willing to give it a try, so let's get that communication going! =)