Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a multi-racial 26 year old guy trying live low-stress life in
Greensboro. As for my hobbies, I'm really into books
, video games
, martial arts
, and UFC
. Other than Ultimate Fighting
Championship and martial arts in general, I'm not much of a sports
fan. I wouldn't object to watching your team play, but you'll have
to explain why you're cheering.
Right now, my passions are my guitar and my commitment to getting
in shape. I've been a musician (saxophone, percussion and guitar)
for 12 years and I really believe that music can change the world.
I dream of being in a metal or rock band and touring the world. As
for getting in shape, I have been committed to taking care of my
body for the past 2 years. A few years ago friend of mine in
college got me into the healthy lifestyle that I live now.
It takes a while for me to warm up to someone; I'm very shy. When I
feel comfortable, I start to joke a lot and hone in on things that
make people laugh. I'll do just about anything for a quick
Socially, I hang with tight knit groups of people. I really enjoy
spending time with my friends, even if that time is spent doing
relatively nothing. I love to talk about anything and everything,
especially about what makes people tick.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just completed school to be a dental hygienist. In the past, I
was a pharmacy student at UNC but ultimately decided it was not for
me at the time. Dentistry runs in my family so I think this is a
good fit for me. I'm preparing for my licensing exams right now.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people feel comfortable. I've also got a great sense of
humor and make jokes often. Some people can't tell when I'm serious
or not but I just take delight in that.
I'm also really good at origami and board games. I can make just
about anything with enough time. Would you help me make a pretty
bunch of paper animals and scenery that would go together well? Or
challenge me to any board game you're into? They have a few at Tate
Street Coffee, where I go sometimes to relax.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People will notice that I make jokes constantly and that my range
of topics is almost limitless. I can talk and joke about anything
if you give me enough time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite books: The Little Prince, It's Kind of a Funny Story, The
Life of Pi, Where the Red Fern Grows, Guess How Much I Love You,
Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day, The
Giving Tree. I find that children's stories tend to have deep
Favorite movies: The Shawshank Redemption, The Godfather, Kill
Bill, The Prince of Egypt, The Grave of the Fireflies
Favorite Shows: House, Cowboy Bebop, Bizarre Foods, The Simpsons,
Mystery Science Theater 3000, Breaking Bad
Music: Coheed & Cambria, Protest the Hero, Between the Buried
and Me, Prince, Lamb of God, Iron Maiden, Judas Priest, Slayer, In
Flames, Red Hot Chili Peppers
Food: I love food of all sorts. The more exotic the better. My
tongue is brave and I enjoy learning new flavors.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
6. Playing games of any sort (board, card, traditional)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thing about the past. I love thinking about
the memories I created with others and thinking about what I will
remember from the future. What adventures will I have, who will I
meet, and where will I end up?
I feel that relationships are not only important for finding out
about another person but also as important for discovering
yourself. That's why I reflect on the past ones I've had to figure
out how I've changed.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either I'm at a party or playing video games with friends. If I do
go out to a movie, dinner, or museum it is usually spur of the
moment. I would love to find someone who'd be willing to go with
I'm also an experimenter with mixed drinks so my friends and I will
attempt to make a new drink with whatever random things we feel
inspired to try.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have an irrational fear of aliens with big black eyes. Always
have though I am drawn to movies, books, and TV programs on the
subject. I always jump when their image appears.
Also, I am polyamorous and in a successful long distance, long-term
relationship. Polyamory is the best thing to happen to me.
You should message me if
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I'm looking for women who share similar interests with me and are
cool with my non-monogamy.
I'd love to take you to a coffee shop (Tate Street Coffee) when
there is a jazz band there. Or maybe Total Wine for wine tastings.
There are also very cool Vietnamese places that I really enjoy
around here too.
I'm usually at College Hill on $1 beer nights, so you might catch
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