Relationships are inherently unpredictable. You never know how things are going to develop, or what you're going to discover about another person until you're in the heat of the moment. Sometimes you even learn the unexpected about yourself. I live for those moments of joyous mutual discovery.

In long term relationships, I tend to be unconventionally demanding. I am not afraid of confronting the truth of why people behave and feel the way they do both in myself and others. This is not something that I attempt to do without the requisite emotional safety necessary.

I am polyamorous, and I believe in people following their hearts. I do recognize that having multiple romantic partnerships at once has its challenges, but I have found the rewards in doing so consistently worthwhile.

I've started my own Neuro Linguistic Programming business, and I'm teaching classes on healing related topics.

My strongest skills are in hypnosis, NLP, and the healing arts. (I am a certified Hypnotist, Hypnotherapist, and a Master NLP Practitioner.) For those of you unfamiliar with these skills, consider the power of a tool that can powerfully change your headspace at the drop of a hat, and permanently change how you feel about something or someone

My musical tastes are eclectic, but tend towards the gothic and industrial. Babylon V is my favorite TV show of all time. However, I'm not really much of a fan the way some people are. I enjoy various science fiction and fantasy shows when they are in front of me, but usually I don't seek them out. I'm a little more aggressive in seeking out books. Some of my favorite authors include Saberhangen, Chalker, and Clarke. I'll pick up and read anything for a bit out of curiosity, but it typically takes something extra to capture my attention.

People who understand healing
The internet
People to game with
SciFi / Fantasy books
Pizza
Asian foods

systems and people. I like understanding what makes both individuals and organizations tick. When I dig in and really get my hands dirty in analyzing something, people tend to say to me things like "I can't argue with that logic." :)

Either out with a loved one or out gaming

...yes, I have PTSD from early childhood. I'm very serious about owning it and about resolving whatever I can as it comes up.

You have an interest in psychology, hypnosis, or healing, are a boardgamer, or like deep intense conversations.