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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Dec 4, 2014
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Not at all
Other and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
My self-summary
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I am a healer by calling, and truth is the primary tool that I use in my work. Therefore, I tend towards the philosophical. People tell me I'm challenging in a positive way to the point of being transformational.

Relationships are inherently unpredictable. You never know how things are going to develop, or what you're going to discover about another person until you're in the heat of the moment. Sometimes you even learn the unexpected about yourself. I live for those moments of joyous mutual discovery.

I am polyamorous in principle, and I believe in people following their hearts. I do recognize that having multiple romantic partnerships at once has its challenges, but I have found the rewards in doing so have been worthwhile in the past.

I tend to be someone who's very comfortable doing my own thing. Company is always welcome, and I also enjoy stepping into and inhabiting other people's realities as they're open to it.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've started my own Neuro Linguistic Programming business, and I'm teaching classes on healing related topics. I Also do energy healing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My strongest skills are in hypnosis, NLP, and the healing arts. (I am a certified Hypnotist, Hypnotherapist, and a Master NLP Practitioner.) For those of you unfamiliar with these skills, consider the power of a tool that can powerfully change your headspace at the drop of a hat, and permanently change how you feel about something or someone...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Height, eyes, and intensity. While I can do casual conversation, I'm most comfortable making people think :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My musical tastes are eclectic, but tend towards the gothic and industrial. Babylon V is my favorite TV show of all time. However, I'm not really much of a fan the way some people are. I enjoy various science fiction and fantasy shows when they are in front of me, but usually I don't seek them out. I'm a little more aggressive in seeking out books. Some of my favorite authors include Saberhangen, Chalker, and Clarke. I'll pick up and read anything for a bit out of curiosity, but it typically takes something extra to get me to pursue an author.

Food wise, I like a lot of things, but I tend towards Asian, Pizza, and things heavier on the protein side.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My support network and people who understand healing
People who embrace the truth as a positive force
The internet
People to game with
SciFi / Fantasy books
Pizza and Asian foods
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
systems and people. I like understanding what makes both individuals and organizations tick. When I dig in and really get my hands dirty in analyzing something, people tend to say to me things like "I can't argue with that logic." :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out with a loved one or out gaming
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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As I saw recently on another profile, I don't believe in shame. Be aware, that yes, I have PTSD from early childhood abuse. I do my recovery work as required, sometimes on the spot, and very fortunately, I'm finding I need to do a lot less of it these days.
You should message me if
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You have an interest in psychology, hypnosis, healing, are a boardgamer, or like deep intense conversations.